ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you’re losing your virginity!

In this episode we talk about:

• 03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!!
• 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism
• 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women
• 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons
• 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors!
• 25:31 First Sexual Experiences
• 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women
• 29:18 Creating Mutually Beneficial Relationships
• 32:26 The Erasure of Female Anatomy In Medical History
• 35:11 Exploring and Discovering Sexual Preferences
• 39:22 The Impact of Shame and Internalized Shame
• 40:46 Coming Out and Overcoming Trauma
• 41:34 The Journey to Self-Acceptance
• 45:09 Entering the Sex Work Industry
• 47:05 Understanding Having a Sugar Daddy / Being A Sugar Baby
• 49:54 Dispelling Misconceptions about Sex Work
• 52:37 Unity and Support within the Sex Work Community

You can find ShelBee on Instagram at @shelbeestrong and if you’re lucky, teaching or performing at a venue in Los Angeles!

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