Why do so many couples feel alone in their relationship — even when nothing is "technically" wrong?

This week on Certified Oversharer, Samantha sits down with licensed psychotherapist and couples therapist Colette Jane Fehr for a powerful conversation about communication, resentment, trust, and the silent patterns that slowly erode relationships.

Colette shares the personal story that led her to become a couples therapist after her own painful divorce, and the lessons she now teaches couples about emotional connection, attachment, and speaking up before resentment takes over.

Together, Samantha and Colette talk about: • Why people feel lonely inside relationships • The resentment that quietly destroys marriages • How to ask your partner for what you actually need • Rebuilding trust after infidelity • How couples can reconnect when the spark fades • The conversations couples should have before starting IVF • How to support each other through miscarriage and grief • Red flags and green flags in relationships

Colette also shares insights from her new book "The Cost of Quiet," which teaches couples how to have the hard conversations that create deeper, more secure relationships.

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