The Twenties Detox

Hi everyone!! This week we got a bit more... controversial.

This week I’m talking about 5 things I would never buy in my twenties to support healthier cashflow, and attract more abundance.  

Spending/receiving money is very spiritual to me. As a result, I try to spend it carefully, and use it to support my morals and values.

A lot of these *things* I would never buy, either give off low spiritual energy to me, or are over-priced for luxury > actual value. 

disclaimer: this is not to replace financial advice. I recommend listening to this video from start to finish and write down was resonates (what feels like truth to you) what doesn’t, and who to talk to later about it.

Okay…let’s dive in!

TIMSTAMPS

0:00 introduction

2:13 My upbringing around money

4:30 #1 Luxury brands vs sustainability

7:42 #2 Pilates Subscriptions

9:08 #3 Take-out

11:33 #4 Too much skincare + makeup

14:21 #5 Real Estate.

17:17 Outro

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There's a particular kind of pressure that follows you into your 20s, quiet, heavy, and relentless. It whispers that you should already know what you're here for. That everyone else has figured it out. That time is running out.

Most of us spend what should be the most electric years of our lives paralyzed by one question: What is my purpose?

Not curious. Not excited. Paralyzed.

I've spent years dedicated to understanding the systems, beliefs, and patterns that keep us stuck, exploring spiritual practices, sitting with teachers like Eckhart Tolle in A New Earth and Michael Singer in The Untethered Soul, and what I've come to understand about purpose has quietly changed everything for me.

By the end of this episode, my hope is that you'll set down the weight you didn't even know you'd been carrying, and finally, genuinely, breathe again.

This one is for everyone searching. But especially for you, if you're in your 20s and terrified you're already running out of time.

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A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose

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A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 intro

1:40 truth #1 our ego, roles, and labels

7:03 truth #2 passion vs. Purpose

11:40 final tips

13:52 outro

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You've planned the calendar. Colour-coded the to-do list. Set up the system. And somehow still haven't done the thing.

There's a version of procrastination that looks exactly like hard work from the outside, and it might be the sneakiest thing keeping you stuck.

In this episode, we're talking about why spring is the season to finally call yourself out on it, let go of the perfect plan, and start before you feel ready.

Do it messy. Do it anyway.

xoxo,

B

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TIMESTAMPS

0:00 introduction

1:07 why taking action can be scary

2:46 when planning becomes procrastination

4:34 seasonal living keeps the rhythm

5:48 how to stay resilient and overcome fear of failure

8:56 you've planned enough. act now.

11:55 outro

If you clicked on this, you already know why. 🩵

Five years ago, I graduated with a degree in Forensic Science and knew almost immediately that it wasn't the path for me.

So I moved back home, and spent the next 2-3 years rediscovering myself. My passions. What actually made me feel alive. It was messy. It was uncomfortable. And nobody really talks about that part too much.

The Twenties Detox started as a simple blog post during that season, and slowly became something so much more.

This video is my attempt to make you feel a little less alone. To be the big sister who sits across from you and says: you are not behind. You are not failing. Everything IS and WILL be okay.

Sending you so much love.xoxo,

B

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TIMESTAMPS

0:00 the weight of being a post-grad

1:04 intro + support TTD <3

1:45 TIP ONE: it's okay if you don't vibe with your degree anymore.

4:43 TIP TWO: it's okay if you need to move home

7:30 TIP THREE: Be a sponge!!

9:33 TIP FOUR: Know when to move on

12:04 TIP FIVE: Network (so important)

14:35 Summary + outro

Blog post: https://www.thetwentiesdetox.com/journal/a-guide-to-living-with-your-parents-in-your-twenties

What if you're not actually failing?

What if there is so much more happening that is invisible preparing you for the biggest breakthrough, yet?

Spring teaches us four important lessons about the truth of sustainable growth: 🌷✨

1. Sometimes we don’t appreciate “boring” growth
2. We need bad days to create good ones. 
3. Sustainable success is meant to be cyclical. Not linear.
4. Success can look invisible, and it's just as powerful.

If you’ve been hard on yourself lately about a lack of growth. This episode is for you.
Make sure to do all the good stuff to get this video there and to those who might need it: share, like and subscribe!!

Xoxo,

B

TIMESTAMPS0:00 focus for Q2 1:51 4 spring lessons about goal-setting 3:03 (1) Sometimes we don’t appreciate “boring” growth6:04 (2) We need bad days to create good ones. 7:43 (3) Sustainable success is meant to be cyclical. Not linear.9:11 (4) Success can look invisible, and it's just as powerful. 11:22 Honouring these mindsets makes you resilient12:45 outro

Seasonal Workbook (Sustainable Goal-setting inspired by nature)

We are finally shedding the winter layers and stepping into that fast, bold spring energy. In this episode, I am talking about how we can actually use the change in seasons to fuel our growth without falling back into the trap of hustle culture!!

I am getting pretty honest about unlearning the idea that our worth is tied to our success and sharing how I am navigating this season of rapid change myself. Whether you are feeling a bit stuck or you are ready to hit the ground running, these three tips are all about creating a life that feels like you.

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In this episode, we talk about:

• The spring shift and why this season feels so fast

• The worthiness audit and breaking the cycle of productivity as value

• My 3 seasonal tips for habits and consistency

• Mirror work and using affirmations to actually back yourself up

Timestamps:

• 0:00 intro + seasonal workbook!!

• 3:04 spring energy and why it feels fast

• 6:03 deep dive: unlearning the worth and success mindset

• 9:01 Tip #1: creating daily habits that are actually you-coded

• 15:29 Tip #2: the magic of staying consistent for 90 days

• 17:59 Tip #3: affirmations and the power of mirror work

• 18:40 outro

The Takeaways:

• Spring is meant for bold energy so do not be afraid to use it.

• Reflecting on your Wheel of Life is the best way to set goals for the next 90 days.

• Consistency beats perfection every single time.

• Show up messy and celebrate the small wins anyway.

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Which area of your life are you focusing on most this spring? let me know in the comments!!

Spring is officially here and honestly... my soul (and my closet) really needed this one. 🌸✨In this episode, i’m taking you guys along for my ultimate quarter reset (spring edition since Q2 is here).

I’m sharing exactly how I’m refreshing my space, my bank account, and my brain to make room for all the big things coming this quarter.If you’ve been feeling sluggish and cluttered lately, this is your sign to open a window, grab some fresh flowers, and let’s just get into it!!

what we’re actually doing:

〰️ seasonal living: why syncing with nature = way less burnout.

〰️ the great purge: from winter coats to digital clutter if it’s not serving me, it’s gone.

〰️ money glow-ups: why i do a net worth check-in and subscription audit every quarter.

〰️ spiritual vibes: salt cleanses and houseplants to protect my energy.

〰️ eating with the earth: shifting my grocery list to what’s actually in season.

timestamps:

0:00 — intro to the quarterly reset

01:53 — decorating for the season / making my space cute

04:11 — seasonal activities & hobbies (aka getting outside)

07:03 — THE BIG CLEANSE: physical, digital, & spiritual purging 🧹

12:26 — money check-in: auditing my net worth & spending

14:46 — life admin: actually scheduling those doctor appts 🩺

17:04 — movement: changing up my fitness routine for spring

18:38 — seasonal foods: eating local & fresh

20:24 — final thoughts & outro

stuff i mentioned:🌷 the quarterly reset guide (coming soon!!)

🌱 a workbook to seasonal living (get your copy here: https://www.thetwentiesdetox.com/align-with-the-seasons-guide)

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Drop a comment and tell me the ONE thing you’re decluttering this week. let's have the most intentional spring ever. love you guys! 🕊️

In this episode,I share five practical tips to build confidence in your 20s, especially during the spring season when confidence can waver!!

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Chapters

00:00 The connection: spring energy + feelings of insecurity

01:21 1) your mind can be the enemy, when your body is the friend.

04:29 2) Stop looking outwards for advice, vs using intuition. 

09:57 3) Use visualization techniques to "fake it 'till you make it."

14:38 4) “Having it all figured out” is a lie. 

18:14 5) Unsubscribing to things (and people) who make you feel small. 

Hello! Welcome back. In this episode, I’m diving deep into how the "sensitivity" of Millennials and Gen Z is actually what's reshaping the entire corporate world.

I’m breaking down Corporate Social Responsibility, and how we’re using our wallets and portfolios to force ethical change. We’ll also talk about the shift from just "having a job" to finding actual meaning in our work.

I truly believe we have a massive amount of collective power to move the needle. It’s time to stop apologizing for our high standards and start embracing our privilege and responsibility to make a real impact. Let’s get into it!

Chapters

00:00 Intro

00:50 Our Sensitivity is raising standards in Business

02:24 Chappell Roan & Matilda Djerf

05:13 Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)

08:20 Purchasing Power

10:35 Investing Power

12:46 Employee Power

14:33 I'm proud of us!!!

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Hello everyone! In two days I'll be 27...eeek! in honour of that, I wanted to do my yearly episode about my biggest lessons another year around the sun. Hope you enjoy!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro + March planning

00:44 I'm turning 27!!

02:06 1) Embracing minimalism: We really don't need that much

06:20 2) Using AI the *right* way

09:55 3) Jealousy and Inspiration is the same thing with different energy.

12:12 4) Passion projects are not "work"

14:22 5) Stop destroying our hormones (even if you don't want kids)

19:07 6) protecting ourselves when in a state of "Permacrisis"

22:51 Outro

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