High Level Husband

The Validation Trap!


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Are you constantly seeking validation from your wife, friends, social media, coworkers, or even your church? The truth is, the need for validation is one of the most dangerous traps destroying Christian marriages, weakening men, and pulling believers away from their true identity in Christ.


In this episode of High Level Husband, Tommy exposes the validation trap and how approval-seeking leads to insecurity, people-pleasing, resentment, emotional weakness, and spiritual compromise. Many husbands don’t realize that chasing affirmation from others slowly erodes leadership, damages trust in marriage, and creates emotional dependency instead of godly confidence.


This teaching breaks down how validation addiction shows up in marriage, faith, work, social media, and friendships — and why it blocks intimacy, respect, and spiritual authority. You’ll learn how to shift from approval-seeking to God-confidence, biblical identity, and secure leadership as a Christian husband.

If you want to become a stronger man of God, lead your marriage with conviction, build unshakable confidence, and stop needing permission from people to be who God called you to be, this episode will challenge you deeply.

Stop chasing validation. Start walking in identity.

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