Adulting is hard—especially in your 20s and 30s, when perfectionism, comparison, and the pressure to “have it all together” are at their peak.
In this episode of The Visibility Standard (formerly All Our Parts), I sit down with Lindsay Goldfarb, executive director of the Sterling Group, for a raw and validating conversation about the quarter-life crisis and what it actually takes to trust yourself through it. We talk about why so many people feel like they’re quietly spiraling, how external validation becomes a trap, and why chasing lives that only look good on paper leaves us disconnected from ourselves.
In this episode, we explore:
- Why the quarter-life crisis feels so intense right now
- Perfectionism, comparison, and the exhausting need for approval
- How to stop chasing versions of life that don’t actually fit
- The messy—but powerful—process of building self-trust
- Embracing flexibility, change, and your timeline
If you’ve ever thought, “Shouldn’t I have it together by now?” this episode is your reminder that you’re not behind—you’re becoming.
Adulthood isn’t a performance.
There’s no universal timeline to master.
And learning to trust yourself might be the most grown-up thing you’ll ever do.
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If this conversation sparked something for you and you’re ready for deeper support, I work with high-achieving women, creatives, and founders through individual therapy—supporting you in building a life and relationships that feel steady, connected, and aligned.
And if you’re craving clarity around your brand, message, or how you’re showing up publicly, The Visibility Studio is my 90-minute marketing mentorship session designed to help you cut through the noise and build a strategy that actually feels like you.
All the details are linked in the show notes at healingwithjazzmyn.com.