The Visible Man Podcast

By Jeffrey Hoffman

Our mission is to connect men in need, create a visible network of advocates, and train key men in existing social networks to provide a foundation of support.

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How many episodes does The Visible Man Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 58 episodes available.

The Visible Man Podcast episodes:

January 12, 2022VM Live! 01-07-22 - And We're Back!
On the premiere of Season 2, the boys discuss their holidays; specifically dealing with long-distance relationships, difficult families, breakups, and more. They also find out where Tim has been for the last six months!
Notes
Where in the heck has Tim been?

News from Iowa

Why Ohio is the Kevin Bacon of states

Tim’s nickname is finally revealed

VM Live’s goals for Season 2

Jack talks about not being able to get to Australia as planned

How difficult it is to give bad news to kids

Compartmentalizing stuff during tough times

Bob’s Holidays and freaking with difficult family members

How abuse can affect children

Let’s talk about kayaking

How Tim and his wife bonded via their divorce boat while also doing the whole thing backward

Dealing with the ex during the holidays

Handling your child’s first break-up

When is the best time to break up with someone?

Going back to your childhood home to say goodbye

Jeff’s refreshing holiday season except for that part where he wanted until Christmas Eve to do his shopping

Why Jeff hesitates and why everything is much easier said than done

Keeping the peace versus paying the price

Jeff’s gratitude for a calm holiday season

How we spoil our family as a way to make up for things

The boys solve the problem of how to lose weight

Huel should sponsor us

How little adjustments can create big change

More kayak talk
Links
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text “VM” to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP

After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/

Catch up on past episodes here: https://visibleman.org/the-visible-man-podcast/
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56min
December 24, 2021Surviving Abusive Relationships
Today's episode comes from a live talk founder Jeff Hoffman had with Erin Thurston from the Heal Collaborative, which as a part of the University of Rochester Medical Center, provides support for everyone who experiences, violence and trauma, including men and members of the LGBTQIA community.
There were some technical issues with the audio, but we believe that the information contained in this episode is important enough to share it even in its imperfect state.
The content of this episode has to do with abuse and domestic violence. Because of that, it may be triggering to some individuals and we also advise that you keep it away from younger ears.
Notes:
What does the Heal Collaborative ( Strong memorial hospital) do?

What got Erin into this kind of work?

What do abuse and trauma look like?

How do you know if you are being abused?

Do men get abused? If so, what does it look like?

What barriers do male domestic violence survivors have in regards to getting help?

What does healing from domestic violence look like for men?

How has the COVID-19 pandemic affected people in domestically violent relationships?

Audience Q&A
Links:
Healing through Health, Education, Advocacy, and Law (HEAL) Collaborative (contains a quick exit button for safety): https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/mental-health-wellness/adult-services/outpatient/heal.aspx

Men and Domestic Violence: https://visibleman.org/men-and-domestic-violence/

Willow Domestic Violence Center: http://willowcenterny.org/

The National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://thehotline.org/

Rape Abuse & Incest National Network: http://rainn.org/

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text “VM” to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP

After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/

Catch up on past episodes here: https://visibleman.org/the-visible-man-podcast/
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52min
December 18, 2021VM Live! 12-17-21 - Feeling Open and Opening Up
On VM Live’s last episode of 2021, the guys reflect on Season 1 of the show, Jack picks a bone with himself about not being open which leads to a discussion on how difficult it is for men to be open, Adro shares some big news, and more.
Notes:
Jack picks a bone with himself

Why it's hard for guys to open up about their feelings

Guys not being afforded the same grace to be open about their feelings

Supporting men versus telling them to suck it up

Feeling bad about feeling relieved when you have some time away from the kids

Adro taking making his health a priority

What it's like to be diagnosed with depression

Jeff's experience with Zoloft

Jeff makes Adro cry

How creating stability helps your children

Admin Bob makes Adro cry

Reviewing our best moments from Season 1

Why it's important for men to open up to other men

Jack and Adro make a bet
Connected Episodes:
Adro’s Addiction: https://visibleman.org/vm-live-08-26-21-adros-addiction/

Bob’s Tinder Saga: https://visibleman.org/tag/bobs-tinder-saga/

A Visible Woman on Visible Man:https://visibleman.org/a-visible-woman-on-visible-man/
Links:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text “VM” to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP

After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/

Catch up on past episodes here: https://visibleman.org/the-visible-man-podcast/
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57min
December 15, 2021VM Live! 12-10-21 - Do Guys Ever Turn Down Sex?
On this episode of VM Live, the boys discuss whether or not they have turned down sex, they get an update on Evan’s surgery, they try to find the meaning of Christmas through others, and Jeff talks about plants, again (probably).
Notes:
Do guys ever turn down sex?

Can men get sexually assaulted?

Going regimental with your kilt around women of a certain age

Consent has no gender

Evan's top surgery update

Christmas decorations

Holiday plans and living vicariously through others and their Christmas spirit
Links:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text “VM” to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP

After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/

Catch up on past episodes here: https://visibleman.org/the-visible-man-podcast/
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58min
December 13, 2021The Divorced Parent's Guide to Surviving the Holidays
On today’s episode taken from a live talk hosted on the VM Discord Server, Jeff chats with divorce attorney, speaker, blogger, radio personality, and host of the Divorcing Well Podcast, Leanne Townsend who gives divorced parents some advice on how to survive the holidays.
You’ll hear Jeff interview Leanne for a while and then he will open up the conversation to our live Discord audience for a Q&A.
Just a quick reminder, this episode is educational in nature and not legal advice. If you need legal advice, please seek out the appropriate legal professional.
Notes:
Leanne’s perspective on how to handle the holidays as a divorced parent

What got Leanne into being a divorced attorney

Leanne’s personal experience as a divorced parent

Why you should create new traditions

Remembering to put the children first

How to coordinate visitation during the holiday season

How to coordinate visitation during the holiday season as a high conflict couple

How to handle the gift situation with split families

The most important thing to focus on during the holiday season (and it’s not what gifts you get the kids)

What if a child doesn’t want to go to the other parent’s house for Christmas?

How to take care of yourself as a single parent during the holiday season

The difference between the support systems of men and women regarding divorce and mental health

Tips on dealing with your mental health during the holidays

How to deal with the ex’s family (meddling in-laws)

How to support your divorced friend or family member

Audience Q&A
Links:
Leanne Townsend | Family Lawyer & Divorce Strategist: https://leannetownsend.ca/

Divorcing Well Podcast: https://leannetownsend.ca/divorcing-well/

The Dish on Divorce: https://leannetownsend.ca/the-dish-on-divorce/

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP

After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/
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41min
December 06, 2021VM Live! 12-03-21 - Did Jeffrey Take the Red Pill?
The guys take a look at misogyny and how it affects the VM Community. Also, Jeff had a thing with his boat...
Links
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP

After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/
...more
57min
November 30, 2021VM Live! 11-26-21 - Thanksgiving Recap
On the first VIDEO episode of VM Live, the Boys recap their Thanksgivings both recent and from days past.
Notes:
Movember updates

Oakland/Dallas game, Bob pays up for his losing Cowboys

Quiet gatherings this year

Worst Thanksgiving memories

Rich people food

Comedians in serious movie roles
Links:
DONATE TO AND/OR JOIN THE OFFICIAL VM MOVEMBER TEAM: https://us.movember.com/team/2398989

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someone

AFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

VisibleMan: https://www.visibleman.org/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/
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57min
November 28, 2021VM Live! 11-19-21 - The Holidays: Why They Do (or for some do not) Suck
The boys get real and talk about how the holidays affect them.
Links:
DONATE TO AND/OR JOIN THE OFFICIAL VM MOVEMBER TEAM: https://us.movember.com/team/2398989

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someone

AFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

VisibleMan: https://www.visibleman.org/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/
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57min
November 23, 2021BONUS: A Discussion with MoBro Rich Loesing about Movember
On this bonus episode, Jeff sits down with Movember’s Corporate Manager, Rich Loesing to discuss all the great work being done by the Movember Foundation.
DONATE to or JOIN the VM Movember Team: https://movember.com/t/visible-man?mc=1

MEN'S MENTAL HEALTH: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/mental-health

PROSTATE CANCER: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/prostate-cancer

TESTICLES - NOW THAT WE HAVE YOUR ATTENTION, HOW’S YOUR PAIR HANGIN'?: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/testicular-cancer

MEN'S HEALTH: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/general

SPOT A BRO WHO’S FEELING LOW: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/spot-the-signs

BE A MAN OF MORE WORDS: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/suicide-prevention

NEED SUPPORT?: https://us.movember.com/mens-health/get-support

NO MORE DEAD END CONVERSATIONS: https://conversations.movember.com/en-us/

FAMILY MAN: https://familyman.movember.com/?_ga=2.82100694.1180391347.1636242975-484582211.1634003818

TRUE NORTH: https://truenorth.movember.com/en-usOn this bonus episode, Jeff sits down with Movember’s Corporate Manager, to discuss all the great work being done by the Movember Foundation.
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21min
November 17, 2021VM Live! 11-12-21 - Fatherhood Pre and Post Divorce
The boys share some of their experiences on fatherhood both before and after their divorces.
Links:
DONATE TO AND/OR JOIN THE OFFICIAL VM MOVEMBER TEAM: https://us.movember.com/team/2398989

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someone

AFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers

NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home

Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC

VisibleMan: https://www.visibleman.org/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/
...more
57min

FAQs about The Visible Man Podcast:

How many episodes does The Visible Man Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 58 episodes available.