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- Sissy has questions about nails, makeup and Femdom feminization adviceThis episode about feminization is inspired by someone who describes herself as a cis male exploring feminization and being a sissy.
Jen Jenn has questions about manicures, nail polish, and whether a sissy needs to go to a salon for a mani/pedi.
What is the most femme style for nails?
What does Mistress recommend for a sissy who needs to be discreet about her crossdressing?
Why press-on nails are perfect for feminization training.
The ladies move on to general makeup and hair tips for feminization and sissy dressing.
This episode is an overview of sissy style tips. Mistress Erika has recommendations for a skin care routine. Ms Olivia has a confession about her own skin care routine.
Topics include:
Male to female makeup tips
Discrete ways to wear makeup
How to find what makeup works for you
Hair and wigs for feminization
The best hairstyles for a sissy
Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy34 min - Do you really want TPE or total power exchange?Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation:
** What is power exchange?
** What does total power exchange mean?
** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship?
Ms Harper points out that power exchange games are based on a power imbalance. That imbalance may not exist in vanilla relationships...or it might be there, unspoken and unacknowledged. In BDSM, the imbalance is pointed out, and sometimes, gloried in and celebrated with fun and sexy games.
Why would someone want to be in a TPE relationship? BDSM can often be a stress relief, escape from other parts of life, or even a type of erotic vacation. It can be physiological, psychological, and/or emotional stress relief.
Other topics include:
** Protocol in BDSM relationships
** What is High Protocol in a D/s relationship?
** Use of contracts between Mistress and submissive
** How does power exchange work with Distance Domination?
** Role of safe words in BDSM** Role of safe words in total power exchange and why there is a debate about this in BDSM circles.
** Is there a difference between total power exchange and total authority transfer?
** BDSM communication and scene negotiation
** How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress
** Role of consent in BDSM relationships
Remember, if you crave the relief of not having to be in charge, a little power-exchange fantasy is a lot of fun. Whether that’s just letting someone tell you how to jerk off to agreeing to chastity for a set length of time, all the way up to detailed schedules and monitored activities, as long as you’ve had a good conversation with your Mistress or Owner ahead of time then this can be a perfect relationship for you both.
Mistress Olivia: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Mistress Harper: Fetish Phone Sex Blog32 min - Should all sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman?How should a sissy cum?
Your Femdom Hosts, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika, explore the question that asks: should ALL sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman?
Sissy Gigi says, yes every single sissy needs to change how she masturbates, and that is part of the feminine journey. This long term sissy says a sissy girl doesn’t deserve the tight grip that a real man uses to stroke and cum.
This inspires a conversation that includes:
** Rub versus tug - is a sissy allowed to stroke?
** What is the proper mindset for a sissy
** What is the ideal approach to erotic feminization?
** How to get in the mood for sissy sex.
** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation.
** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation.
** Masturbation control and sissy training
** Sissy chastity and the role of chastity in feminization
** Is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm?
** Anal or boi pussy play and why this is so important for a prostate orgasm
This episode includes lots of quotes from people who are in feminization training with the Mistresses or who want to get sissy advice or feminization tips from the podcast hosts.33 min - BDSM Dungeon owner and Elite Dominatrix Mistress Montana returnsMistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today’s episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink.
What goes into setting up a fetish play space?
How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon?
Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low.
Topics include:
How to talk to a Pro Domme.
Dos and don’ts of arranging a session with a Dominatrix.
The difference between out of session professionalism and in-session play.
How a Femdom will (or will not) choose who she will see in a session.
What happens when you arrive for your session.
How much training, education, and experience go into making an elite Femdom Mistress?
What kinds of BDSM furniture, kink toys and other items are important for a Dungeon
Who goes to a Pro Domme and why. (hint: Alpha males are the best submissives.).
Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/mistress-montana/
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/32 min - BDSM, kink and controlling submissive men: Meet Mistress MontanaThe hosts have a candid conversation with Mistress Montana about BDSM, kink, being a Pro Domme, and more.
Ms Erika asks about the origin of the name Mistress Montana. This leads to a conversation about becoming a Pro Domme.
Mistress Montana started in the adult industry as a phone sex operator. Her callers were the ones that introduced her to Femdom.
Ms Montana talks about learning all about BDSM, kink, and male submission. The more she learned about the psychology of BDSM, the more she realized that being the Domme is the perfect fit for her personality.
This leads to a conversation about the smart, successful men who are sexual submissives and want to give up control to a Dominant Woman.
Topics include:
Small penis humiliation and a surprising comment about some men who are into SPH.
Sensual sadism
The paradox of pain as pleasure
Physical pain like CBT and emotional pain like cuckolding
Edge play and kink
The mind as the most important sex organ
The symbiotic relationship between a Domme and her sub
Myths about why someone goes to a Pro Domme
and more.
Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/35 min - Sissy has questions, Mistress has answersToday’s episode is inspired by sissy Olivia … not to be confused with Mistress Olivia.
Sissy Olivia wants help with her sissy training and sissy skills but she doesn’t know how to stay motivated when she’s on her own as a solo sissy.
Other issue topics include: chastity, reinforcement of sissy training, and improving feminization skills.
The hosts talk about all kinds of options for any sissy on any budget.
Free suggestions are:Join Enchantrix Empire, LDW’s free adult social network. https://enchantrixempire.com/
Join GetGirlie - a site for sissy audios, forums, and interactions with the Mistresses. https://www.getgirlie.com/
Free assignment sites for sissy training on fashion, sex, make-up, being a submissive sissy, self-care and everything feminization: sissy style magazine https://sissystylemagazine.com/
Paid options include:
Erotic audios on various topics by various women: https://www.phonesexaudios.com/
Sissy training assignments are available from https://phonesexassignments.com/
Custom erotic audios made just for you: https://eroticaudios.com/
If you need privacy and more flexibility but still want to be directly in contact with your Mistress - Try Email packages https://phonesexassignments.com/product/emails/
Texting if you have limited privacy: https://sexytexting.com/
Remember you can always leave comments on our blogs:
Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/37 min - Happy New Year 2024 and how we create this BDSM kink podcastHappy New Year to all of you friends, fans, fellow kinksters and you, you and you!
Mistress Olivia takes the episode right off the rails from the beginning; you’ll get to hear the ladies fooling around right off the top of the show. You don’t want to miss this.
You’ll hear how these Femdoms create this BDSM kink podcast. Amongst the laughter, jokes, and sexual puns, the ladies answer listener questions.
Has Ms Erika ever sucked her own toes?
Why doesn’t Ms Olivia know what Devil’s Lettuce is?
Listeners have a variety of questions about the podcast and more.
Will there ever be a live show?
Do the hosts ever get tired of talking about sex or kink?
What is the longest phone sex or distance domination session so far?
How many sexual partners have each of you had?
How many sexual partners is a lot? This prompts an impassioned response from Ms Erika.
How do we come up with ideas for this BDSM kink podcast?
A question from sissy olivia inspires Mistress Olivia to pitch a feminization topic.
Ms Erika wants to put together a blooper show (as if the beginning of this episode wasn’t enough!)
And several more questions.
Enjoy and have a wonderful New Year full of joy, BDSM, kink, and sexy fun!37 min - Thank you for listening to our BDSM kink podcastAs we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year!
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year.
There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well.
Favorite guests include:
Max Carey from the documentary tOuch kink
Kate Lister the Sex Historian
Alice Little and Olivia Bentley from the Nevada Brothel system
Kaytlin Bailey, Standup comedian former escort and sex worker advoacte with oldprosonline.org
Mistress Mia Darque, from DomCon New Orleans and being a Black Dominatrix
Mistress Rogue, owner of a Florida Femdom dungeon
Topics from this year include:
Questions about feminization, being a sissy maid and finding a Dominant woman or Mistress owner.
Sissy training questions and ideas for dressing en femme on the down low
Customer service in the adult industry
Chastity with Mrs. Mature Metal
And more
Thank you all for your support this year, and here’s to a bangin’ (literally and figuratively) New Year!36 min - Do you need breastforms? All about boobs for a sissy, crossdresser or trans woman.Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms.
There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts.
First, of course, there has to be a conversation about weird sex statistics. Did you know 11% of women name their boobs? That compares to three out of four men who name their penis.
Back to boobs - The overall question to consider first is:
What do you want to FEEL like IN your breast forms? This will help you begin to think about size, shape, feel, material, etc.
Many crossdressers don’t want to spend a ton of money of breasts until they know what they want. These Femdoms love helping male to female transformations on a budget and have specific DIY tips for boobs on a budget before spending money on more permanent boobs.
Styles of breasts:
Inserts, aka chicken cutlets
Full breast inserts into bra cups or stick on your skin
Breast plates
If you’re not able to go in person for a bra fitting, the ladies give simple directions for figuring out your own bra band size. From there, you can begin to think about breast size, shape, and other considerations.
This episode will help any crossdresser, sissy or transwoman begin to pick out the perfect breastforms.
Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
The Breastform Store: https://thebreastformstore.com/
The Boobs Shop: https://boobsshop.com/
Glamour Boutique: https://www.glamourboutique.com/breast-forms
Janet’s Closet: https://janetscloset.com/janets-breast-forms/29 min - Are you curious about the private life of your Femdom Mistress?The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives.
What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress?
What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?"
This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect for humiliation and mindfucking.
Shout out to Mature Metal Chastity Cages for their design, value, and amazing customer service. https://maturemetal.com/
A sub who is a bit of a smart aleck asks Ms Olivia about her latex catsuit.
Among the laughter, there is also a serious answer about how to clean fetish latex outfits and BDSM gear.
Another playmate asks if we ever have such a hot session that we masturbate while thinking about it.
How much planning goes into a BDSM or feminization session?
Ms Erika talks about the variety of types of calls we get - sometimes phone sex or GFE, sometimes a specific fetish like the Giantess tiny man fantasy, all the way to more traditional BDSM, domination, cuckolding, or cock control calls. Mistress Olivia adds her thoughts on BDSM scene negotiations and pre-call session planning.
DownUnder Subby asks: Is there much conversation amongst Mistresses about callers?
This question is a perfect opportunity for the ladies to talk about client privacy, 2 Mistress sessions, sharing playmates, and more.
Ms Olivia talks about email packages for 2 Mistress sissy training and feminization where everyone is in the same email.
A sissy girl asks about ways the Mistresses get pumped up for domination sessions.
Another subby is curious about what we do for a daily work routine.
Speaking of routines, someone asks about exercise routines and staying fit.
Lots of people want to know:
What does a Mistress do for fun or just to fill up the downtime (when away from out Domination antics)? The question comes from our new friend Aborigen who is a size fantasy writer (Giantess and tiny man stories).
Zheightgeist podcast: https://zheightgeist.com/
Lots of laughs, personal stories, some serious thoughts, and a wish for you as 2023 ends and 2024 begins.
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/38 min
About The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
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Explore the psychology of intimacy, erotic control, and intentional relationships with experienced hosts Mistress Olivia…
and Ms. Erika. Featuring expert guests and candid discussions, the show provides deep insights ranging from psychological discussions to practical lifestyle advice, uncovering the secrets of modern power exchange. Connect with us at weeklyhotspot.com. Episodes drop Mondays at 1 PM EST.
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