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- Swingers clubs, adult entertainment, the Olympics and the fascinating life of Coralyn JewelMeet Coralyn Jewel - co-author of, When the Ice Melts: The story of Coralyn Jewel.
This fascinating woman shares her journey from Olympic hopeful to thriving in the adult industry.
The ladies have a conversation about the misconceptions around anything that has to do with the adult industry, sex work, BDSM, kink or sex in general.
Coralyn talks about her path of self discovery from the discipline of elite figure skating to making her way into and then in the adult industry as a career.
Ms Olivia asks about the Swingers Lifestle. Coralyn is an expert in the do’s and don’ts of the lifestyle, etiquette in swingers clubs and how to find out if you and your partner are ready to explore this fantasy in person. She has run hundreds of swingers lifestle events so this is the perfect person to hear about a bunch of insider info.
Find out:
** Misconceptions about the swingers lifestyle.
** Different types of people who are involved in the swingers community.
** Is a swingers party only for couples?
** Is it possible to go to a swingers club solo
** The difference between a cuckold and a swinger
** How is consent handled in this kink scene
** How to communicate with your partner before, during and after a sex party.
** What is the difference between a full swap or a soft swap
** How to find an event and what to ask before you go
Coralyn also has a podcast called Embrace Your Sexuality. The ladies talk about why it’s important to have real conversations about sex, sexuality and what individuals really need and want for their erotic pleasure.
Coralyn Jewel: https://www.thecoralynjewel.com/
Embrace your sexuality podcast with Coralyn Jewel: https://www.embraceyoursexuality.net/
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/36 min - Power, money, and sex work. A nuanced conversation with adult industry leader Olivia Bentley.Olivia Bentley is today’s guest. You’ll hear why she prefers to be called a courtesan rather than an escort. She mentions the societal status of courtesans in ancient times. This leads to a discussion of power, independence and the role of erotic companions as power brokers in their own right.
Miss Bentley is a fascinating woman:
*15 years in the adult industry.
* A Masters in Education.
* An executive at an investment company
* Competitive fitness model.
She talks about her decision to become a local escort and then her move to the Bunny Ranch in the Nevada Brothel system.
This origin story is one of creativity, triumph over adversity and a candid conversation about the stereotypes around paying for sex.
The ladies talk about financial independence and the freedom to live full lives that comes from having a career in the adult industry. In the words of Olivia Bentley: “It’s a game changer to go pro hoe.” While that comment makes all the ladies laugh, there is truth to this.
Other topics include:- STD testing and the porn industry
- How Only Fans has changed the adult industry by giving content creators control
- BDSM, kink, fetish and erotic humiliation
- And how her love of lifting weights is opening a new niche - muscle worship! Find out about this kink and why it’s so popular.Olivia Bentley: https://olivia-bentley.com/
Olivia Bentley’s Only Fans page: https://onlyfans.com/liv.b
Ms Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
41 min - Do you need Mistress to train you for sissy sex?A listener question inspires today’s episode. Do you need a Mistress to train you for sissy sex?
Sure, you can learn and do a lot from cruising the internet, watching porn and experimenting on your own. But, don’t you want more?
Don’t you want to have the advice, support, guidance, and/or control of a Dominant woman? Who better to guide you in your sissy training?
You’ll hear why these Femdoms say a sissy does’t necessairly want to be a women, but rather they want to emulate a female stereotype, an idealized woman.
Ms Erika points out that experiencing sex in sissy mode means experiencing sex like a woman, ie being penetrated.
Sissy training goals should include learning how to focus on erogenous zones that don’t include the penis (renamed the clitty). Ms Olivia makes the case that a credit card should be considered an erogenous for anyone who loves shopping for lingerie.
Ms Olivia brings up how sissy training can be used to emasculate a man and remove those last traces of his so called masculinity.
Sissy chastity training can be very effective in reminding the sissy who is in charge. Hint, it’s never the sissy.
The ladies discuss whether every sissy needs to serve or service a man. Sometimes a Mistress will keep her sissy as her personal playmate, other times Mistress will insist that sissy learned to suck cock or take a cock in her sissy pussy.
Ms Erika brings up strapon training for sissies. Ms Olivia brings up the previous podcast How to Give a Blow Job as an example of some training tips for cocksuckers.
Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/30 min - BDSM kink secrets revealed in a new documentary tOuch kink.tOuch Kink is a new BDSM kink documentary billed as: An unprecedented journey into the secret world of pleasure, pain, and power.
The producer, Todd “Max” Carey, joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about his unique and powerful documentary.
Ms Olivia says this is the single best representation ever of our BDSM, kink, and Femdom community.
Ms Erika calls the documentary tasteful and elegant - showing the humanity behind what others don’t understand or arbitrarily judge.
Max says: “Sometimes we’re afraid of saying what we want or who we really are.”
In this episode you will:
** Hear how a chance encounter with the famous Dominatrix, January Seraph, was the spark for this documentary with the goal of demystifying the BDSM / kink lifestyle and those who enjoy it.
** Learn the difference between consensual kinksters and abusive people. Max points out: “It’s not about what we do, it’s about how we do it.”
** See about BDSM and kink myths so you can decide for yourself if the myth is true. For example, a play scene might “look” sexual because the submissive is naked but it often isn’t sexual in the way that vanilla people think of as sex.
** Get to see BDSM conventions and kink play sessions to get an inside view of the people and activities.
** Understand the dynamics of the relationship between a submissive and a Femdom Mistress or Dominatrix. Hint: it’s all about trust, communication, connection and compassion.
** Experience play sessions and scenes, fetish conventions and individual conversations to get a sense of kinky people as individuals with their humanity intact.
** Listen to a candid conversation about BDSM and the mental health professional community bias against kinksters.
The documentary is full of interviews with avariety of people who have different perspectives.
Four people “anchor” the film:
** Grace: who is new to BDSM but willing to take a course run by Pro Dommes to “Awaken the Goddess” and then finds out some very interesting things about herself.
** Mistress Evilyn: A Dominatrix in the UK who was outed, vilified, and hounded by the British press.
** Slave Robin: A submissive who is owned by a Dominatrix. This good ole boy talks about the power of being seen, accepted and part of a community.
** January Seraph: The inspiration for the film talks about BDSM and female domination as a secret power that all women have but few claim and use. The late Mistress January has been a fearless advocate of BDSM and kink understanding and acceptance.
We love the documentary tOuch Kink and want you to go see it. We know you’ll love it as much as we do.
Touch Kink site: https://touchkink.com/
Ms Olivia's personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika's personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/38 min - No, you don’t need to be shy about going to a BDSM convention. Guest Mistress Mia Darque talks about DomCon.Ms Erika has a confession. She’s never been to a BDSM convention.
Today’s guest, Mistress Mia Darque, joins the ladies to talk about DomCon New Orleans.
People come from all over the world for this kink event.
DomCon is the premier professional and lifestyle domination convention and is now in it’s 20th year.
If you’re looking for a kink event with lots of Femdoms and Pro Dommes, this is “the” convention for you.
The goal of DomCon events is to bring the professional and lifestyle communities together. Miss Mia is on the Board of DomCon and shares what you can expect at a BDSM convention. She calls the New Orleans DomCon a fetishy, friendly family reunion.
Worried you won’t know anyone? Don’t be. There are lots of events to get you mingling with others. Miss Mia explains what happens at the Lock and Key mixer and other events.
You’ll also hear:
** tips on BDSM convention etiquette.
** how to talk to a Domme
** pros and cons of pick up play at a fetish event.
** behind the scenes of running a successful Pro Domme business
** challenges for people of color in BDSM spaces.
DomCon: https://domcon.com/sessions/new
Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/32 min - How to find a Pro Domme and not mess it up with guest Mistress Mia Darque.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions.
A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?”
What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme:
how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.”
The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest.
Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3" Oklahoma Amazon, mature BBW and someone who has been in the BDSM and kink scenes for more than 20 years.
** Find out about Miss Mia’s personal journey in kink.
** Listen to our reactions to judgement by some lifestyle kinksters to Pro Dommes.
** We discuss the value and benefit of going to a professional versus an amateur
** Learn valuable tips on how to communicate with a Pro Domme
Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Miss Mia is also on the Board of DomCon New Orleans. Next week, the conversation continues with questions and answers about what happens at a BDSM convention.31 min - Help! How Do I get my wife to dominate me?How do I get my wife to Dominate me?
How can I get my girlfriend to act like a Mistress?
These questions are so common these Femdoms give their answers from their perspectives.
** Hear why Ms Olivia says there is real value in going to a Pro Domme
** Ms Erika points out why experience is so important especially if you are new to kink.
What are some of the BDSM terms?
** SSC - safe sane and consensual
** RACK - risk aware consensual kink
** PRICK or personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink.
** CCCC, or the 4Cs: Caring, communication, consent, caution.
Ms Erika talks about the importance of trust and communication in any fetish or kink play. When you trust your Femdom you are able to let go and experience all the submissive sensations you want to savor.
This episode has specific suggestions on how to figure out if you really want your partner to be your Domme. If you do want to bring her into your kink world, there are lots of tips on how to do it (especially if you have a vanilla wife). Then the two of you can begin the kink journey together creating your own Domme / sub relationship.
Feel free to get in touch, ask questions, find out about getting a session with us:
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Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/30 min - Do you need to be a sissy maid to a Dominant Woman?Listeners inspire this episode on the sissy maid.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about sissy training, feminization fantasies, qualities in a good/bad sissy, and how sissification is different from being a crossdresser or trans.
This episode includes:
** What is a sissy maid?
** How to tell a service sissy from other types of sissies, including the cuckold sissy husband
** Is a sissy always expected to be submissive and obedient?
** Why ladies love the slutty sissy fantasy.
** Should a sissy be put in chastity for feminization?
** How humiliation, tasks and punishment are used in sissy training.
** Why degrading terms work so well in sissy play.
** How a Mistress uses coerced feminization in emasculating a sissy.
** How a Dominant woman uses coerced bi or gay scenes for sissification.
** Details about various kinds of sissy maid uniforms or outfits.
Ms Erika talks about the Sissy In Depth Probe package available from the Phone Sex Assignments store: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKL
The sissy test package includes email exchanges with both ladies. Today’s episode is inspired by these email exchanges and includes excerpts and questions from some of the people who bought the package.
Ms Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress: https://bit.ly/3PYYM6K
Ms Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy: https://bit.ly/3QuyR9b30 min - How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet MRS. Mature Metal.How do I get my wife or girlfriend to be my chastity keyholder?
How do I tell my partner I want to be put in chastity?
I want some kink in our relationship, how can I get my wife to be kinky?
These are just some of the most popular questions from our listeners and callers.
Today, you’ll hear from a woman who went from being, in her own words, VERY vanilla to now the chastity Mistress of Mature Metal chastity cages.
Meet Mrs. Mature Metal and learn:
** Her reaction when her husband told her he was going to make custom chastity cages as a business.
** What her husband did to spark her curiosity about chastity.
** How SHE feels about putting her husband in chastity.
** What she likes about a locking cock ring and the role of edging in tease and denial.
The ladies all discuss things that work and do NOT work when trying to inspire a woman to get out of her sexual comfort zone.
Ms Erika warns about kink dumping your partner. Ms Olivia says women are like cats (not just because we have a pussy).
This is a candid conversation about sex, kink and intimacy from the woman’s point of view. If you’re kinky and trying to get your partner into BDSM, kink or chastity play this is the episode for you!
MATURE METAL: https://maturemetal.com/
Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/41 min - Feminization: Do you need a bra fitting, sissy?We get a lot of questions from listeners. Practical advice for feminization tips or sissy training are always top concerns.
Today’s episode is inspired by several listener questions about how to find the best bra, which breast forms to get and how to online shopping suggestions for everything you need for feminization.
Mistress Olivia used to work in a luxury lingerie salon and learned how to do bra fitting. You’ll hear how to measure your body to get the right band size. From there, it’s a “simple” matter of everything else! (Only kidding. We know it’s not simple that’s why we’re doing a whole episode on finding the perfect bra.)
Ms Erika describes different styles of bras and both ladies talk about what they like and why.
Anyone who is a crossdresser, sissy or trans will likely be looking for breast inserts or breast forms. The ladies go into detail:
** different types of breast forms
** pros and cons of each type of breast insert
** inexpensive DIY breasts that might also be fun for erotic humiliation
** recommendation on where to shop for breast forms
Mistress Olivia points out that some crossdressers and sissies have some individual challenges with sizes. Three favorite websites are discussed: one for larger band sizes with small cup sizes and 2 other websites that have sexy plus sizes in lingerie.
Legit advice, lots of laughs and even some “research” from writer/humorist Dave Barry, “Scientists now believe that the primary biological function of breasts is to make males stupid.”30 min
About The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
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Explore the psychology of intimacy, erotic control, and intentional relationships with experienced hosts Mistress Olivia…
and Ms. Erika. Featuring expert guests and candid discussions, the show provides deep insights ranging from psychological discussions to practical lifestyle advice, uncovering the secrets of modern power exchange. Connect with us at weeklyhotspot.com. Episodes drop Mondays at 1 PM EST.
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