The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

We love all of our new listeners! We’re glad you found our kinky podcast and are sending us questions.
Mistress Olivia points out there are a lot of submissive men who want to know how they can inspire their wives and girlfriends to be more Dominant.
Ms Erika gives specific suggestions about how to introduce kink into your sex life including ways to gently (and effectively) talk with your partner about your true sexual desires.
You’ll hear real questions and answers on topics like tease and denial, chastity, feminization and sissification and more.
It’s a fun sometimes rambling conversation that covers everything from speculation about dinosaur sex to compassion for a new listener who says she is a lost sissy.

New Year and new ideas for our kink podcast.
We have so many things to talk about - including feminization and sissy tips for Valentine’s Day, best stroking techniques for Masturbation May and, of course, anal play for Aptil 15th tax day (because if you’re going to be fucked in the ass, it might as well be fun).
Ms Erika offers to find out how to do the technical things to incorporate some live podcasts where we answer your questions live.
We might even decide to pop Ms Erika’s girl on girl cherry LIVE on a podcast.

What’s on your sexual bucket list? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find a list of sexual bucket list ideas and talk about ones they’ve done and what they’d like to do next.
Ms Olivia goes on an excursion into the Superman origin story. Ms Erika reveals a fear and Ms Olivia has an idea of how to overcome that during sex on a cruise ship.
All this leads to a conversation about some possible changes to The Weekly Hot Spot including ideas about doing some episodes live. Do you want to be able to have a way to send messages to each Mistress while we are recording? Now is your chance to tell us what you think.

People who aren’t into BDsm might cringe at the sight of spanking, whipping, caning and other rough play but impact play is a huge part of kink culture.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share what they love about this classic activity.
Why does a Femdom like inflicting pain?
Why would a submissive crave physical suffering?
The ladies talk about impact play and why punishment is often called funishment.

Happy New Year!
Today, the ladies talk about how to BE a lady or a slut! Seriously, it’s all about feminization and sissy training.
There are lots of ways to explore and enhance your feminine side.
We are talking about 2 calendars for 30 days of feminization and sissification, including things that you can do to maintain your feminine mindset even when you aren’t able to get all dressed in your pretty or sexy clothes.
Mistress Olivia gives an example of a sissy trance audio.
Mistress Erika talks about reaffirming affirmations coupled with actions.
Naughty sissy training includes things like blow job training exercises, how to have a sissygasm and whether or not to put a sissy in chastity.
Remember, it’s a New Year and time for a new you!

It’s the final podcast for 2021. Hosts Olivia and Erika talk about doing the podcast, listener reviews, kink things to try and just general conversation.
Poetry, porn … kink and confessions … Femdom insights and more.
Until …
Ms Erika admits to something that involves butterscotch and that inspires Ms Olivia to confess …
And then, all bets are off.
Stay safe and have a kinky New Year!

Ever wondered how you can get your erotica published? That’s what we’re talking about with today’s guest, Dirk Hooper. His book (under his pen name Asher Lake) is called: Dominatrix Boss - a BDSM Femdom Tale.
Before getting to the writing and publishing advice, we talk about BDSM and the kink community. Dirk talks about what he calls a Domme deficit: way more male submissives then there are Femdoms.
There are lots of writing and publishing tips. Including one that inspires Ms Erika to change the way she writes her own erotica based on how we both do phone sex calls.
Dirk has a surprising tip about writing while you’re horny and channeling your sexual arousal into your erotica.
Enjoy and send us links to your own erotica!

As we close out 2021, we talk with some of our Mistress friends about some things they love in their private lives. Ever wondered if a Femdom binge watches a tv show? You’ll find out! Also hear some movie reviews and find out more about your Mistress.
The Welsh Mistress Miss Ruby has a fabulous book suggestion about the neuroscience of orgasm delay.
We were shocked to learn something about our favorite Babe with a Boner, Miss Bethany. Trust me, you want to know this!
Also, Miss Daphne shares why a book written in 1865 is her favorite read for 2021.
Finally, Miss Madison touches our hearts with her favorite thing of 2021.
These round robin conversations with our Mistress friends are always a fun time!

One thing we love about doing this podcast is that we get a chance to talk to our friends and coworkers. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika did the best and worst of the 2021 review. The categories are tv shows, movies, documentaries, books and our personal favorite, sex toys.
This episode features The Scarlet Mistress, our first conversation with Miss Riley and our favorite babe with a boner, Bethany.
Be sure to come back next week for three more of our Mistress friends and their top picks in pop culture (and sex toys).

Are you ready to get Femme for the holiday? You’ll need some feminization assignments and sissy training from Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and special guest Miss Ruby.
Each Mistress talks about how she personally stays in touch with her sexy side during the busy holiday season.
Find out what Ms. Olivia said that made Ruby say, “That’s the weirdest fucking thing I’ve ever heard.”
Of course, there are lots of laughs and some serious conversations about holiday stress and our LGBTQ friends. For the transwoman, crossdresser or sissy the holiday can cause unique stresses and issues.
Each Mistress has specific suggestions and assignments to help girly girls stay in touch with a femme side no matter the outside circumstances.