The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Did you know that Princess Cassidy is in school, studying the psychology of fear? Yep and that’s why Princess Cassidy is the perfect guest to join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode on holiday stress.
There are lots of tips and vanilla ideas of how to keep your sex life going during the holidays. You’ll enjoy the kink guide to coping with holiday stress even if you can’t get to one of the recommended fetish or kink activities.
Ms. Olivia recommends Spanksgiving the kink convention in St. Louis. Ms. Erika wants to go to Hedonism in Jamaica. Princess Cassidy wants to go anywhere that is not a stay-cation!
Don’t let holiday stress stop your kinky play! Check out simple ideas and assignments for some discrete erotic play even if you don’t have all the alone time or privacy that you want.

What do you do with leftover holiday food?
Join Ms. Erika, Miss Constance, Ms. Hunter, and Mistress Olivia for this fun conversation about the wet and messy fetish.
Miss Constance tells us about her puppet who loves sploshing. These funny stories inspire the ladies to laughter and the celebration of kinky fun in all its wicked aspects.
Ms. Hunter says you can incorporate sploshing into a lot of other fetish and kink roleplay scenes like cum eating, submission, humiliation and more.
Ms. Erika brings up thoughtful points about how there’s nothing wrong with enjoying something like food play or any kink. Others might not “get” the erotic enjoyment but that’s okay, we do get it and will enjoy it with you!
Listen to this episode and celebrate this food driven holiday in a whole new light.

Straight married corporate dude to smokin’ hot trans woman: an interview with Maria Konner.
Maria is an author, vlogger, video blogger, musician, and FEMbassador
She answers listener questions like:
How do I come out?
How did you leave the suburban, corporate, and straight world to follow your dream?
What is it like to be a transwoman?
Are you able to support yourself now that you are living en femme.
How do you describe yourself - what about sex, what about relationships?
Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have the best time with Maria!

This episode is inspired by requested and unsolicited dick pics.
Hear Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about setting up the new Dick Review where the penis rating team tells you what they think.
Ms Olivia interviews 5 women who are cock connoisseurs.
Each woman talks about what she likes and doesn’t like when looking at a penis. You’ll be surprised to hear the controversy over a certain part of the penis. Find out what happens when one Mistress compares the penis to an item of clothing. Hear ideas like setting up a Dick Museum and more.
There is a lot of laughter amongst the legitimate cock rating appraisal criteria that includes:
Overall size, shape and curvature
Circumcised or uncircumcised
What makes a cock head sexy or not
Veins: yes or no on
Manscaping preferences
You’ll also hear an idea about offering a “how to take dick pics” service to help you improve your dick pics.

This How To Give A Blow Job episode is in response to questions from callers.
Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and Goddess Mandy describe how they each give a blow job in their personal lives.
It’s okay to need to learn how to suck cock, everyone has a learning curve. Just wait until you hear about Ms. Olivia’s epic blow job fail.
Whether you are bi sexual, gay, cock curious, submissive, cuckold or sissy - the tips and techniques from the ladies will get you started on the path of cock sucking success OR you can simply listen to the sexy voices and enjoy as you give yourself a hand.
These experienced Femdoms talk about who needs to learn to suck cock, why many men are cock curious, the different sexual roleplay scenes that incorporate cocksucking, and so much more.

Fall into the sultry, sexy voice of today’s guest, Mistress Rachel.
We talk about Femdom, kink, passion and so much more!
Ms Erika starts us off with talk about the epic cock stroking Strokeathon. Ms Rachel shares her love of masturbation, insight into being one of her favorite playmates and her fascination with anal. Ms Rachel’s confession about ass play ends up being the quote of the day.
All the ladies talk about what kinds of calls and callers they enjoy. There are some great tips about how NOT to communicate with a Mistress and the difference between being an erotic partner and being submissive.
Ms Erika has some fascinating things to say about erotic humiliation. Ms Rachel shares her thoughts on the value of degradation scenes and hardcore humiliation.
The ladies talk about exploring the kink world and learning things about themselves and others.
Ms Olivia has an insight into why she loves phone sex during a conversation about war.
Ms Rachel is a deep thinker and her insights prompts a conversation about intimacy that you won’t hear anywhere else.

Imagine being a crossdresser for years and finally coming out to your mother. That’s just one of the moving stories from this week’s guest, Yvonne. Ms Erika tears up talking about all the crossdressers and sissies who call us and ache to be accepted.
This episode runs the gamut of poignant to playful.
All three ladies dish about fashion, makeup and how to develop a personal style. Yvonne talks about how a supportive community helped her realize she is not transgender or a sissy.
Ms Erika and Ms Olivia dream about a feminization school and list what training classes need to be included in the curriculum. You hear the science behind how to make your voice sound more feminine and get a feminization voice assignment from Ms. Erika.
All this and more when you slip into something pretty for this episode.

Time for the Halloween edition! Princess Cassidy joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about scary movies, fetish fun and why vanilla women like to dress like a slut one day a year. Cassidy shares her Psychology major and talks about her focus on fear studies. Olivia brings up superhero outfits and kink. Erika shares some of her best costume choices.
There’s a bit of everything in this episode including the world’s most hideous candy.
Happy Halloween from all of us to you!

Today’s guest is an award winning journalist, fetish photographer, 20-year kinkster and BDsm mentor. Dirk Hooper is a fascinating guest with insight and lots of stories.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Dirk about why it’s so hard for a submissive man to find a Lifestyle Domme and how the BDsm community acts towards sex workers and Pro Dommes.

The conversation evolves into porn and why Dominance and submission is so hard to accurately depict. All three weigh in on the value (or damage) of Fifty Shades of Grey.

His personal and professional goal is to dispel myths about BDsm. For example, what it’s like to be a switch. He talks about being a sexual submissive and why the feelings are so hard to replicate anywhere else. Dirk has been on both sides of the whip, so to speak.

Of course, there are all sorts of interesting excursions into other topics including: Ms Olivia’s love of comics art, a discussion about NFTs, crypto currency and the future of content creation, so much more!

The premiere chastity cage creator, William from Mature Metal, talks about all things chastity. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have questions from callers.
You’ll find out why Mature Metal’s custom sized chastity cages are so comfortable. You’ll get answers to common questions like hygiene and stealth while in chastity.
Are your balls high and tight? Does that make a cage uncomfortable? There’s a solution! Circumcised versus uncircumcised means you’ll want to wear different style cages. Are you (or your keyholder) looking for the smallest cage imaginable? They’ve got you covered!
Find out why Mature Metal has the BEST customer service!!
You’ll also hear how William got his vanilla wife to fully embrace kink and chastity! This is one of our favorite interviews ever!
It is informative, useful and, of course, full of laughter!