The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Negotiating an alternative sexual relationship can be intense. Many people think that only the rules of strict monogamy exist, but that is not true! Polyamorous open relationships, swingers relationships, cuckold relationships and more exist on the relationship continuum. In this podcast Delia and Olivia explore all the types of alternative sexual relationships, and encourage you to research them for yourself.

We have essentials for your crossdresser makeup and feminization transformation. Any cis woman goes through lots of different styles.  A trans woman, girly girl, sissy or crossdresser will also experiment with various styles and fashions.  Don’t be afraid to experiment! It’s part of being feminine -- yes even if you buy something that you end up hating -- it’s all part of your feminine journey.  
Getting the perfect shave for male to female transformation
Primer starts your crossdresser makeup
Beard cover yes or no?
Foundation recommendations
Contouring makeup for male to female transformation
Sexy eyes: What you need in your crossdresser makeup kit
Delia loves under eye concealer
Delia converted Olivia to concealer
Eyebrows!
Sexy eyes and luscious lips
Crossdresser makeup and full feminization
Sissy and drag queen makeup is more extreme
False eyelashes
Soft, feminine lips

Do you have sex toys? If you don’t, you are missing out on lots of fun. Mistress Delia and Ms Olivia talk about sex toys, Dominance and submission, why a Femdom uses sex toys and more.

Olivia's tangent about paying for sex
Delia on why there is stigma about sex toys for men
Changing the way he thinks about sex toys for men
Women and sex toys
Delia's first sex toy purchase
The hand versus a sex toy
What Mistress tells a caller about sex toys for men
Pros and cons of sex toys
Ms Delia and Ms Olivia at a sex toy convention
The Fleshlight
Sex toys and premature ejaculation
Mistress should be a model for a sex doll!
Power exchange and remote control sex toys
Remote control sissy chastity
Remote control sex toys and Femdom Mistress Domination
Ms Delia's wish list of sex toys for men
What is sex tech and the future of sex toys
Luxury sex toys
Ms Olivia's wish list for this sex toy for men
Sex toys on a budget
Sex toys on Amazon
Anal toys and sex toys for prostate play
Lubes for sex toys
Cleaning sex toys

You want rough kink from your Femdom Mistress. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about some things you need to know before you explore BDSM edge play, their experiences and why they want to petition a famous movie producer/director to do fetish porn! Frisky and fun episode.

Being a phone sex Mistress
BDSM and rough kink
Rough kink is rough but compared to what?
How intense can you take your rough kink?
Safe, sane and consensual SSC kink
SSC applies to Mistress too
Risk Aware Consensual Kink RACK
Experience counts, especially with rough kink
Spanking on the phone sex call
What is ‘real’ BDSM?
Play party or Femdom phone sex call?
Mistress talk about Femdom Porn
Mental side of rough kink
Ms Delia: Predicament play for the naughty sissy
Ms Olivia: Predicament play with CBT
Emotionally rough kink
What is aftercare and why do you need it?
Connect with Mistress

Mistress Olivia and Ms Delia interview sissy Becca about being feminized, sissy training, sissy chastity and more sissification!
Difference between a sissy and a crossdresser
Sissy training to find your style
Best thing about being a sissy
In touch with your feminine side
How do you become a sissy?
Sissy training helps a shy sissy
What does sissy wear to her Mistress Interview?
Everyone wants to know about boobs
Sissy training and sissy support
You are NOT alone
Sissy assignments help with sissy training
One favorite sissy assignment from Mistress Olivia
Ms Delia and fucking machines
Using chastity for sissy training
Chastity helps end purging
You are allowed a sissygasm
Remote control chastity for the best sissy control
Mistress controls chastity through the app
When you don’t have a Mistress keyholder
BUY the remote control chastity cage
Discrete packaging for your sissy sex toys
Connect with Mistress

He says, Mistress made me a cocksucker. Hear from the Dominant Women who like to turn, sometimes unsuspecting, men into cocksuckers. Are you ready to suck cock for her?

How does he become a cocksucker?
He’s not sure he wants to suck cock.
Does sucking cock mean you are gay?
When you only want the cock, not the man.
Scared to be gay or bi sexual.
He can suck his own cock!
SHE made him a cocksucker.
Cock curious confession.
She knows how to make you suck cock.
Where does the desire to suck cock start?
He’s submissive and sucked cock for Mistress?
Jack sucks cock for Ms Delia.
Ms Olivia makes her man suck cock.
Cock sucking and erotic humiliation.
From cuckold to cock sucker.
Mistress likes cocksucking porn.
Coerced cocksucking.
Sex is better now than in his 20’s.
How many cock have you sucked?
Cocksucker training.
The sissy cocksucker
Does sucking a strapon or dildo count as cocksucking training?
He told his girlfriend he wanted to suck cock.
Hiding cock sucking desires.
Talk to your Mistress

Hot, kinky, naughty and taboo -- your Mistress hosts explore what makes a cum fetish and why eating your own cum is so sexy.

What is a cum fetish?
What is it about cum eating?
From cum eater to cum fetish: one man’s journey
Eating cum as a submissive
It’s all about the money shot
Steak and Blow Job Day
Ms Olivia’s Sex Calendar
Fetish porn favorites from Mistress
History of cum eating
Covered in cum and loving it
Those HUGE cum shots in porn
How to make you cum taste better
Surefire way to taste your own cum
Connect with Mistress

There is a subculture of feminization that the Mistress hosts love: poor unsuspecting men are tricked into feminization and manipulated to become the sissy Mistress wants. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia share their favorite idea of how to make a man get girlie whether he wants to or not!

Tricked into feminization
Common Themes of being tricked into feminization
Chastity and feminization
Tricked and sissified on a cruise
Caught in Panties and Turned into a Sissy
Tricked into Feminization after Male clothes were Donated
Coerced Feminization, She will Make Sure You Obey
Making him agree to be feminized
Devious Mistress

It’s that time of year when many of us make New Year’s resolutions to do something or achieve a goal in the coming year. We want you to to have the best sex ever this coming year by making some kink resolutions to spice up your sex life.

In this edition of The Weekly Hot Spot, your Femdom Mistress hosts, Ms Delia and Ms Olivia, talk about kink, BDSM, sex, imtimacy and how to REALLY ring in the New Year!

Each Mistress makes kink resolutions
Ms Delia and her kink resolutions
Ms Delia wants more remote sex toys
Ms Olivia has kink resolutions
How to create your kink resolutions
Ask these questions about your erotic desires
Does a sexual fantasy count?
Ms Delia’s fantasy in the virtual world
Ms Olivia says make that fantasy real with DIY sex furniture
So fucking kinky
Your kink resolution plan
Don’t you want a better orgasm?
Each Mistress is a cock professional
Cuckold fantasy or reality?
Sex advice from sex, BDSM and kink experts
Fantasy or real life for your kink resolutions?
When it HAS to stay as a sexy fantasy
Connect with Mistress

For many kinky people holidays are even more stressful than usual. If you need to hide your fetish then you know why you might be a little (or a lot) on edge. Just when you could really use the relaxation of great sex, you might find what you really want off limits. Maybe your partner doesn’t like or know you kink or naughty fantasies. Maybe you don’t want to tell your partner. Whatever the case, Mistress Delia and Mistress Olivia have some ideas about keeping your kinks on the down low or learning to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies.

Do you need to hide your fetish?
Does Ms Delia hide her Femdom kinky side?
Ms Olivia on personal boundaries.
What does Mistress say she does for work?
Olivia’s kink conversation gone wrong.
You don’t have to hide your fetish from your Mistress.
HOW to hide your fetish.
Danger of a shared computer when you hide your fetish.
Word of caution when using gmail for kink play.
Private and encrypted email for fetish fun.
Should you join an online fetish group?
Check out Enchantrix Empire for adult social networking.
Before you say anything about your fetish.
Ms Delia’s kink conversation epic fail.
WHY to have a conversation about erotic desires.
Fetish, kink or Lifestyle Femdom.
Compatible kink partner.
Talk to Mistress first.