The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Your Femdom hosts answer a question from a listener who says: “I would love to find a Dominant Woman. It’s a hard thing to pull off. Most women that I have found are not into that, so I’m at a loss as to what to do. Any advice?”

Mistress Delia and Mistress Olivia say why you can’t spot a Dominant Woman out in the world (hint: their example will make you laugh). These are Lifestyle Femdoms who help you avoid common pitfalls for those new to the BDsm community.

The podcast covers:
How to find a local BDsm group
Do’s and don’ts at a munch
Differences in BDsm groups
Kinky relationships with real actual humans
What is FetLife including one Femdom experience from FetLife
How to describe yourself as a submissive
Amateur versus ProDomme in the fetish world

The Weekly Hot Spot returns to take you behind the scenes of kink, BDsm, Distance Domination and phone sex. The hosts are Lifestyle Femdom’s who enjoy sharing their love of fetish, kink and erotic pleasure.


This episode is inspired by a 2 Mistress call featuring Ms Olivia and Ms Delia. You’ll hear what the caller said about chastity and why his comment inspired a reboot of this adult podcast.


We’ll give you a hint of today’s topic. The caller says he likes to use chastity as a reboot to his orgasm and sexual pleasure but he has a problem.


The Mistresses talk chastity, cock cages and timing, how to keep someone sane in chastity, what to do when he can’t wear a cage all the time and so much more.

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia give tips on how to communicate your fantasy to a Mistress....and some things that you do NOT want to do when emailing a Femdom for your Distance Domination.

Your Mistress hosts talk about CBT --- pain play involving the cock and balls. What is it? How does each Femdom do a CBT session. How to do intense play that is still safe. What is sexy about CBT and some stories you won't hear anywhere else. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia LOVE CBT!

Sex is the topic -- sex RESEARCH specifically -- you might not be as much of a "pervert" as you think. Ms Delia shares what happened in her marriage when her husband said NO to kink for a time. Ms Olivia says her vanilla friends are kinkier than she ever imaged. Each Mistress has lots to say about new research out of the Kinsey Institute.

Each Mistress has lots of say about cocks --- size, shape, playtime, and more. Ms Delia talks about why this month is called COCK-tober. These Femdoms are in a mood in this adult podcast!

Mistress Delia and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing and sissy play. You'll hear some behind the scenes talk about gender, sexuality, sexual identity, fetsih play and how to buy panties! Plus a few giggles about how slutty a sissy can be.

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about why phone sex callers want to talk to a Mistress --- some of the reasons might not be what you think. BDsm, fetish, kink, all kinds of sex and a lot of laughers.

Special edition of The Weekly Hot Spot featuring 2 Mistress Interviews -- co-host Ms Delia and HeadMistress Ms Ally. Ms Delia talks about how Distance Domination changes her in person fetish play and her evolving Mistress style. Ms Ally talks about creating LDW Group as a collaborative effort with kinky, sexy people like you!

Sexy feet, pretty toes, luscious legs --- Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about arousal from legs to toes --- boots, shoes, stockings and everything they cover. Find out why the Mistress hosts love foot and leg worship.