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- All about BLOW JOBS with Lainie SpeiserQuestions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser.
How do women feel about giving blow jobs?
What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job?
Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera?
How do porn stars give great blow jobs?
Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs.
Tips for learning to deep throat a big cock
How to control your gag reflex.
How to make sure your teeth don’t ruin the blow job.
Find out who came up with the term deep throat.
What is a fellatio fiesta?
Learn about Michael and his blow bros.
Find out how many loads of cum Michael the cum junkie has slurped up this year.
Freezing cum loads
BDSM, kink and being submissive
Does a Femdom give a blow job?
Can a blow job be part of an elaborate mindfuck?
Do porn shoots still use fluffers and how does someone get that job?
Listener questions inspire this episode. You’ll learn some sex education, hear intimate behind the scenes stories and so much more!
Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)
Twitter X and Insta: @MissLainie
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
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Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika37 min - His wife knows he’s a crossdresser. Now what?Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side?
Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.”
Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including:
Terms and labels used in gender exploration.
What is the difference between a crossdresser and a trans woman?
Why does wearing women’s lingerie unlock feminine emotions for many men?
What is the reaction of the wife of a crossdresser?
Does the wife assume crossdressing means her husband is gay or bisexual?
Can a wife be jealous of her feminized husband?
Who gets to decide gender norms?
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
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Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika33 min - Why do my sissy urges go away after I cum?A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.
Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?
Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?
How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?
Is dressing en femme always about sex?
Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive?
Does the type of orgasm matter?
Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain?
What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles?
How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges?
Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization.
Do crossdressing urges go away as people age?
While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play.
DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy35 min - The Art of Erotic Restraint: New Frameworks for Power ExchangeAre you curious about incorporating physical restraint and denial rituals into your dynamic? In this episode, we answer listener questions about why partners choose to surrender control, what women truly think about managing these dynamics, and how to find the right lifestyle tools for your goals. Explore how giving up physical control can lead to mental freedom, refocused energy, and deeper submission at weeklyhotspot.com.
EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
[00:00] – Introduction: What do partners really think of male restraint?
06:15] – Tool Selection: Comparing different styles, sizes, and textures for optimal control.
[12:30] – Structural Elements: The psychology behind advanced restriction and behavioral conditioning.
[18:45] – The Benefits of Surrender: Freedom from hyper-focus and channeling submissive energy.
[24:10] – Integration: How restraint and denial reinforce specialized lifestyle training.
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CONNECT WITH US
Official Website & Blog: weeklyhotspot.com
Connect in Our Private Network: Enchantrix Empire
Join Our Community Space on Discord: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
Mistress Olivia’s Lifestyle Blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s Audio Coaching: Intelligent Phone Fantasy39 min - Sissy Pageant: Finding self-acceptance with Femdom FeminizationSissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life.
Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.
Other comments touch on:
Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should look
Body hair while crossdressing or dressing en femme
Masculine and feminine sides co-existingHumiliation as part of sissy play
Submission to Mistress or Goddess as part of feminization training.
Of course, you’ll hear personal stories, our comments on your quotes and even a couple festive trips on safari including:
Ms Erika’s favorite body part
Ms Olivia’s offer of 5 free minutes on your Discord session if you do a specific something.
Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy44 min - Behind the scenes of the porn industry with adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser.Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view.
Today, Lainie answers your questions:
Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?
Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?
Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?
Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.
Are any performers in gay porn actually straight?
Are huge cum shots real?
What do production companies use for fake cum?
Is lesbian porn made to appeal to men who want to watch it?
What do lesbian women like to watch?
Does anyone make erotica for crossdressers or men who like wearing lingerie?
Transwomen in the adult industry and why this niche is such a popular porn category.
And, finally … a joking question about job benefits like health insurance leads to an interesting conversation about mental health and adult entertainers.
Lainie has a wealth of knowledge, a great sense of humor and stories galore. We can’t wait until the next time we speak with her.
Lainie Speiser: Twitter X @MissLainie
Lanie's books on Amazon, including Confessions of 100 of the Hottest Porn Stars.
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Discord:
LDWOlivia
LDWErika34 min - Men in pantiesWhy does a man want to wear panties?
There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education.
Topics include:
How does panty wearing start?
Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?
Is it always about sex or kink?
Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?
Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans?
Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties?
Feminization or sissification
Sending a submissive into subspace
Using panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock control
Does a panty boi always want to be humiliated?
Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more!
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy34 min - Are you turned on by smart, sexy women?Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.
Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.
Is phone sex always about sex?
Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?
Why does someone call an online Mistress?
Your hosts use personal stories to illustrate thoughts on intimacy, vulnerability, sex, sexual exploration, sex health, erotic pleasure and sex work.
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy37 min - What if all your edging ends in a ruined orgasm?Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.
In this episode you’ll hear:
The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.
Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?
How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play?
Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play.
The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!).
If you’re interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch!
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[email protected]
DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire31 min - He said no to BDSM pain play but got this surprise!Is pain play a hard limit for you?
If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!
You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:
** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?
** How can a Femdom Mistress or Dominant Woman manipulate someone into pushing their limits of BDSM and kink?
** How does pain and pleasure overlap in BDSM?
** How are power dynamics between Domme and sub enhanced and expressed through painful sensations?
** Why trust and communication in BDSM relationships is essential.
** Role of aftercare in BDSM
** Does the Domme get sexually aroused or orgasm as she is spanking or ball busting a submissive?
The hosts also talk about using pain in feminization and sissy training.
You’ll hear from one sissy who says pain helps her to let go and slip into her feminine subspace.
BDSM education, personal stories, insight from kinksters, and more.
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Contact us on DISCORD:
LDWOlivia
LDWErika
Our free, private adult social membership site, Enchantrix Empire.33 min
About The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
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Explore the psychology of intimacy, erotic control, and intentional relationships with experienced hosts Mistress Olivia…
and Ms. Erika. Featuring expert guests and candid discussions, the show provides deep insights ranging from psychological discussions to practical lifestyle advice, uncovering the secrets of modern power exchange. Connect with us at weeklyhotspot.com. Episodes drop Mondays at 1 PM EST.
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