The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

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  • Are you nervous about being transformed into a sissy?
    In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun.

    (( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))

    Today’s points include:

    What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think.
    What happens when a sissy is nervous about being transformed.
    Why does a Domme love to increase nervousness during some coerced feminization scenes?
    How does each woman create the sissy salon transformation fantasy.
    Is feminization always a submissive act?
    Why are most of us attracted to things that are taboo or looked upon as naughty?
    Switching gender roles and expectations as a way to take a break from “masculine” life and the responsibilities of non-femme life.
    Does sissy transformation ever get to the point of no return? What happens?
    Will feminization automatically mean coerced bi scenes?
    How does a Mistress manage the mindset of a sissy?

    This episode is full of ideas for roleplays about sissification and coerced feminization. Find out behind the scenes info about how these fantasies are created and performed.


    The episode ends with one of the most important reasons why it’s important TO YOU to have a Mistress skilled in feminization and sissy training.

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire
    33 min
  • Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?
    Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. 

    That’s a great question! 


    It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. 

    But, do you have to be submissive to call us?  The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman.

    Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we’re talking about.

    Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don’t want to be the sub for the conversation after the play.


    This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn’t need to be all serious all the time - it’s fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus.

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    Vox Erotic
    27 min
  • Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress
    Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.

    What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?


    In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc.  Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.

    Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge.


    Some of the topics include:

    Submission as a way to let go of life’s responsibilities
    How working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment.
    Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proud


    Greater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend).
    Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life.
    Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform.  This is especially true for feminization and sissy training.

    This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging.


    Goddess Demi’s blog:  Sensual Cock Tease 

    Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    33 min
  • Are you an alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?
    Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people? 
    Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?
    Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?

    These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman.  


    Topics include:

    ** What is an Alpha man?
    ** How common is it for an Alpha man to want to be feminized?
    ** What percentage of sissies that call for Femdom phone sex have an Alpha type career or job?
    ** Does the person who is often in control always want to be in charge?
    ** Are the Femdom hosts always in Domme or Mistress mode?
    ** What do we mean by someone who is sexually submissive?
    ** What does a Femdom look for in a sissy or submissive?
    ** What about the use of erotic humiliation when it is sweet teasing or all the way to degrading emasculation?

    Both ladies emphasize that not everyone into feminization is submissive. This is especially true for those who are crossdressers or who identify as transwomen.


    We also talk about some of the relationships we have with our subs and girly gurls.
    How does having a close relationship with an online Mistress help with emotions like shame and loneliness?

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    30 min
  • He called for cuckold advice. Guess what happened?
    This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold. 

    In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened!


    Topics include:

    Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life.
    How a phone sex Femdom finds out the difference between fantasy conversation and a request for real life advice.
    Some differences between cuckolding, swinging and an open relationship.
    Exhibitionist / voyeur fans in the sex scene
    Some of the things a woman worries about before becoming a hot wife or cuckoldress

    Communication tips for alternate lifestyles like cuckolding, BDSM, kink or actually any successful relationship, even the vanilla ones.

    How to bring up your cuckold desires. What to do when you don’t hear an immediate, clear answer to your cuckolding request.

    Some of the practical advice centers around talking about STD testing, personal safety with new partners, etc.


    Finally, what happened with this couple? Find out in this episode.


    Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s personal blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    36 min
  • Mistress advice: How to prepare for your distance domination session
    Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! 

    We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.

    Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works.

    What happens when you call LDW Group?
    What are some of the different types of long distance BDSM relationships?
    How does kink play work when Mistress and pet aren’t in the same physical play space?

    Are you shy?

    Are you nervous?
    This podcast episode will help you understand a bit about what to expect, how to ask for what you want, and then how to physically get ready for your session.

    As usual, the conversation goes on safari with stories, anecdotes and more. Enjoy this peek behind the curtain of the business of distance domination and femdom phone sex.


    OH and you don’t have to be a submissive to call! As you can tell from this podcast, we love to have intelligent conversations with smart, sexy people (ie YOU!)


    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    32 min
  • Sexy Sissy programming: bathtime feminization
    The ladies try something a little different.
    Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime.
    We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session.

    This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood.


    Topics include:

    ** Shower versus bath
    ** Sex in the shower
    ** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Erika
    ** Bubbles or bath bombs, or bath oils

    Suggestions for relaxing into the sensuality of the experience:

    ** How to create the perfect environment
    ** How to reinforce the benefits of this sensory experience
    ** Why we say, wear a bikini or panties in the bath

    The ladies do brief guided meditation with feminization affirmations.
    There is also a trance type sissy programming audio.


    We urge you to take the time to use the rituals and sensuality of taking a bath to honor and reinforce your feminine feelings.  We want you to take your feminization to the next level with these ideas, tips, and suggestions.


    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    30 min
  • Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?
    A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’ 

    We’ve got you
    !
    In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot. 

    We highlight several common areas of concern: 
    Anal play / prostate play

    Cock sucking
    Wearing panties
    Being a submissive man

    What is normal? 

    Who gets to decide what types of erotic pleasure are outside the norm?
    Who can you talk with about your concerns?
    How to find someone who can guide you through these desires.

    You’ll also hear that you aren’t alone in your worry about being weird or whatever. The ladies share personal stories about our own experiences. 


    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    30 min
  • Why you need prostate play.
    A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.

    The episode includes:

    A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.
    All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.

    What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular’ orgasm?

    What is a sissygasm and what does that feel like?

    If someone is a chastity pet, then the Mistress might keep that submissive caged and do prostate milking. These Femdoms talk about prostate health and using prostate milking for someone who is in long term chastity say as part of sissy training and feminization.


    Why would someone be nervous about or reluctant to try prostate play? The ladies talk about some common concerns. The two most common worries about anal sex are: will it hurt and will it be ‘messy.’ 


    You’ll hear recommendations for favorite sex toys for anal play, including remote controlled sex toys.


    Personal stories, jokes and laughter are always part of the podcast – so we’re glad to have you here with us!


    Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy


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    31 min
  • Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?
    Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting.

    Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling. 


    Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of connection. Mistress Erika brings up how the long distance relationship actually reduces inhibitions and allows someone to really talk about erotic desires without fear of judgment or fear of rejection from your real life partner, wife or girlfriend.


    Some roleplays are physically impossible. The ladies talk about several examples including:

    Giantess, shrinking, and tiny man fantasies
    The magically transformed category that includes coerced feminization: male to female transformation scenes as a sissy, bimbo / slut, or submissive woman.
    MILF fantasies where the caller is transported back to being a young man with an older woman
    Bi sexual exploration or submission to a Dominant man
    Fantasy cocksucking without any fears of safety, health or other issues.
    All the various versions of cuckold fantasies
    Public humiliation (that’s a no no for consent and safety reasons)
    Exhibitionist and/or voyeur fantasies
    Cum eating that is hot only before someone has cum to eat

    Some of the behind the scenes conversation will give you insight into how we each bring our creativity to our erotic roleplay scenes.


    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    30 min

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