The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

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  • Feminization: Building sissy confidence
    We get lots of questions about feminization.

    A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or trans woman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.

    In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others. 


    What do you do when your reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy?That’s a common question for many kinky people and it’s especially true for those exploring feminization.Don’t worry!  We’ve got you covered (pun intended).


    Like always, along with the sexy stories, you’ll get practical tips, advice and instructions to reinforce your sissy training. 


    Remember, confidence is the sexiest attribute you can have — well that and some really cute panties. 
    Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy



    31 min
  • Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?
    Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.

    What is petticoat discipline?

    Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)
    Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.
    Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.

    Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like:

    Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brain
    BDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchange
    Feminization as part of a FLR - Female Led Relationships
    How a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goals

    The hosts give specific scene examples that call for:

    Locking clothing and shoes
    CBT: ball slapping, etc.
    Chastity

    Have you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy?

    We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you!
    Do you need a firm hand? Let us know.
    Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    32 min
  • Are you searching for an online Mistress?
    What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme?

    For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.

    The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom.

    Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. 

    What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company.


    This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do:
    Privacy

    The caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share.
    That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasies
    Playing with a professional means an affair gone wrong won’t blow up your life
    Spur of the moment sessions
    Keeping the various aspects of your life separate

    Mistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! 
    Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more.


    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    Mistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress

    39 min
  • What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?
    This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL 

    The Femdom hosts talk about trans women who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now.


    The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization. 


    What are some of the possible roleplay options for a sissy:

    The sexy girlfriend with a special something extra
    The submissive sissy
    The slutty bimbo - which often involves humiliation and emasculation
    Anything that includes a sissy maid - what kind of clean up will happen? 
    The cuckold husband turned into a sissySPH - small penis humiliation and/or chastity
    The role of BBC in sissy porn
    Cum eating and CEI to train a sissy to love to eat cum

    What kind of script or scene would you want to be in? Hmmmmm?

    Let us know!
    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    33 min
  • Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version
    We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful.

    Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.  


    Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an ignore fetish.


    Speaking of requests, Ms Olivia wants to do a sex train in 2025 using a universal remote control app. This goal should go nicely with another goal: A submissive sissy who wants to be a porn star!


    As always, this is a conversation between Femdoms about BDSM, kink, life and love.So …. Join in!

    What things do YOU want to explore in the New Year?

    Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    29 min
  • Top BDSM kink sissy podcast episodes of 2024
    This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot.

    We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness.

    Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year.

    Apparently, the numbers put us in the top 10% of podcasts - not just sex podcasts or BDSM kink podcasts – but all podcasts. That boggles our minds when we think about it.

    What category is number one?

    Sissy training and feminization shows rule the top podcast episodes.

    The number one download is from January of this year: Should All Sissies Learn to Masturbate Like A Woman? 
    Today your Femdom hosts talk about sissygasms, sex while feminized, and more.


    The second largest category is cock control.

    Now, we know that cock control can mean everything from JOI, guided masturbation, tease and delay, tease and denial all the way to total orgasm control with chastity. There are so many options and we’re really glad to see this category is extremely popular.

    Other popular podcast episodes feature conversations about: cock sucking, cuckolding, strapon play or pegging and more. 


    The ladies have a great time doing the podcast and this one is full of laughter, sidetracks called going on safari, and general shenanigans.


    Thank you for joining us for this kinky journey! We’re so glad you’re here with us!


    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy 
    31 min
  • A year of feminization by Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia
    We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips.

    In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you!

    This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts.


    Don’t feel alone!
    Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level.

    This feminization training calendar is a budget friendly way to bridge the gap between feeling all alone and being under strict, personalized guidance from a Femdom Mistress.


    52 weeks of feminization 

    Fun assignments
    Sexy training
    Feminine affirmations
    Practical advice
    And so much more.

    Are you ready to begin?

    Here’s the link to the Year of Feminization by Mistress Erika and Mistress Olivia.

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy


    31 min
  • Tease and Denial Games: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?
    There is an art to tease and denial games.

    It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive.

    Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?

    First, the ladies talk about tease toys.

    Who are they, what does this phrase mean?
    The ladies share insights into what they both appreciate about someone who is a tease toy. You’ll hear what turns them on about YOU!

    The ladies, of course, find the control thrilling.

    You'll hear conversation about power exchange and energy.
    Both really adore the sounds a man makes when being teased - moaning, gasping, and pleading.

    Do you love to be teased?

    Are you a fan of edging and orgasm delay?
    Ms Erika mentions chastity and teasing.

    Is there a difference between being a tease toy or a submissive man?

    Do you have to be submissive or into BDSM to be a tease pet?

    What are some of the teasing techniques?

    How does a Mistress push your boundaries, come up with creative ideas and guide you to some of the most explosive orgasms ever?
    How does distance domination work when doing tease and denial?

    What does a Mistress look for in a tease toy?

    What will happen if you come to each woman for teasing?
    The answers might surprise you!

    Mistress Erika’s personal blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    Mistress Olivia’s personal blog:  Experienced Mistress







    35 min
  • All about chastity: Including using chastity for sissy training.
    In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization.

    Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman.

    Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise folks who have a fantasy about being a live-in sub or slave to a Domme.


    What does it mean when the Chastity Queen says, “Chastity is freedom.” This can include:
    • The chastity cage focuses the attention of a submissive
    • Being locked promotes devotion to Mistress
    • The cage is a constant reminder that they have a higher purpose
    • The chaste sub is freed from mindless masturbation

    “There is nothing more feminizing than to not have a cock available.”  That’s a great comment about using chastity for sissy training and feminization.
    • Chastity cages that mimic a vagina
    • Being caged increases feminine feelings 
    • The role of humiliation in BDSM and chastity play
    • Using small chastity cages to shrink the clitty of a sissy
    • Crossdresser purging and cycles of interest in feminization

    You’ll hear personal stories, suggestions and ideas as well as tips for interactions with a Mistress.

    Even if you have no interest in chastity, this episode will give you a peek inside the interior worlds of three Femdoms.

    Chastity Queen Linktree 


    Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress


    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
    43 min
  • Inside the mind of a Domme: Meet the Chastity Queen
    Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. 

    This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power.

    Topics include:

    The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon
    How men treat wives versus Dommes
    The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like
    How serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wife
    Communication, kink, and intimacy
    Teaching men how to serve women
    Why treating women well actually benefits the man
    The value of having a BDSM kink community
    How people learn kinky skills
    Why experience and knowledge is so important with BDSM (and life!)

    This is a wide ranging conversation that gives you a peek into the minds of these Dommes. 


    Chastity Queen Linktree 
    Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    33 min

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