Sign up to save your podcasts
Or
Share The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
Or
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
Based on Podcast App listening data
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics episodes
- Feminization: Are you nervous about lingerie shopping in person?This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question: “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?”
Great suggestion Sissy Brenda! Here you go!
The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There are also ethical issues with consent and BDSM or kink play in public. All that said, these Femdoms are skilled at feminization and in person lingerie shopping can be fabulous for sissy training, etc.
Suggestion for shopping in person include:
Mindset
What to wear
How to present yourself
And more
Sissy Brenda also asks about thongs which inspires a conversation about panty styles including thongs. The ladies recommend some specific brands.
Hanky Panky thongs
Calvin Klein invisibles
Skims: up to 4X !
Aerie
Finally, even though this episode is about lingerie shopping in person, there are specific suggestion about how to order online and make sure that your purchases are private and discrete.
We sent an email letting Sissy Brenda know that this episode posts today and she wrote back:
"Hello Mistress:
I found success with the Hanky Panky thongs you suggested. Surprisingly comfortable and so many colors and prints! I also tried and liked the Victoria's Secret seamless thongs. Also very comfortable and great with leggings. Never pictured myself a thong gurl but you may have converted me! I look forward to the podcast!
All the best,
Sissy Brenda"
Happy shopping ladies!
Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy32 min - Where can you find your Mistress? Check out our Spaces on X Twitter!We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends.
Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces.
For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's.
Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conversation. There will be a topic or activity like naughty Mad Libs and other games.
People can listen on Twitter X but the Mistresses are the only ones who will be speakers. Everyone else can join in by going to the Community Kink chatroom and typing while you listen.
When Ms Erika heard Ms Demi’s idea - Ms Erika set up Spaces for The Weekly Hot Spot podcast.
We’ll be live every Thursday at 1pm eastern time -- talking about this kink BDSM podcast, episode ideas, answering questions and, well, basically having a great time shooting the shiznit with each other and all of you. You’ll hear some of those random thoughts in this episode!
Join us on Twitter X:
Ms Demi: @DommeDemi
Ms Olivia: @MistressOlivia1
Ms Erika: @ErikaEnchantrix
Demi’s space for Femdom Friday Sept 6, 2024
Community kink chat room
Look for The Weekly Hot Spot space every Thursday at 1 pm eastern. Cum have lunch with us.
Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy35 min - Self-bondage with Elite Rope Dominatrix Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.
Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone.
Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.
The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon.
Things to consider:
What is your self bondage safety plan?
Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on online
High protocol versus freely speaking during a scene
Ideas and questions from listeners:
Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessions
Using a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keys
Predicament play safety
Edge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiation
Keeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need them
Special considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman:
How to avoid leaving marks
What causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries.
Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive.
What can someone use for self bondage?
Examples include:
Sweatband, headband or scrunchie
Shoe laces
¼ inch diameter rope
Paracord
Zone mummification with plastic wrap
Of course, you’ll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms.
Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy31 min - Bondage, rope play and more from elite rigger Miss CassieToday’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today.
This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more.
You’ll hear:
** Miss Cassie’s personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom
** Leather tradition in BDSM
** Lineage in BDSM leather family tradition
Mistress Olivia takes us on safari with a question about polyamory, cheating and sexual or emotional partners.
BDSM education continues with:
** training involved in BDSM
** psychology of kink
** what a practiced Dominant will ask a prospective play partner
** BDSM negotiations, safe words and edge play
** safety and kink
** sub drop and aftercare
** Differences between Eastern Shibari and Western bondage techniques
** Cultural history of Shibari in Japan as a prison capture system
** How to avoid or deal with circulatory issues in rope bondage
** Dealing with expectations and the difference between fantasy and reality
This is a lively conversation with three strong, powerful women. Enjoy and check out all the websites:
Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Leather Archives and Museum37 min - Here’s a sissy success story with timeless advice for anyone into feminizationThe podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family.
This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community.
Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to her, her wife and her ladies in Ireland. We see you and we’re sending lipstick kisses to you!
Many people tell us about the challenges of striking a balance between their femme self and their other life responsibilities. Is it possible to be authentic and accepted? .
In this episode you’ll hear your Femdom hosts discuss:
** Coming out about crossdressing desires
** How to talk with your partner about wanting to wear feminine lingerie
** How to talk calmly about concerns, limits and boundaries
** Things to consider with family and other life circumstances.
** How to find places and people who will cherish your authentic self
** Sexual experiences when en femme. Do you want to be with a man?
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have lots of comments and other tips for crossdressers, sissies and trans women.
This episode centers on people who identify as engaging in some sort of feminization but much of the content also applies to anyone who is kinky and struggling to find people who understand and support you.
Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress
Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy31 min - BDSM Kink event invite: Naughty Knowledge from Studio 58
Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years.
Today’s episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge.
You’ll hear conversation about:
** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone?
** What can I expect when I arrive at Naughty Knowledge?
** How do I behave? What is proper BDSM and kink etiquette?
** What is consent in kink and how do you handle this at a fetish event?
** Pick up play: what is it, how do you get it and what not to do.
** How to do BDSM negotiations and why communication is so important in kink play.
** Are there really BDSM classes?
** What do people wear or not wear?
** What are some of the themed parties?
** The difference between a BDSM play space and a 24 hour sex room.
** What Studio 58 does to help people find pick up play partners.
** How to volunteer and why this is a great way to make friends in the BDSM scene.
Are you curious about the kink lifestyle and want to know more?
Studio 58 Events and Naughty Knowledge in August are great opportunities to have a safe space to explore BDSM, meet other kinky people and have a lot of sexy fun!
Naughty Knowledge August 15 - 18, 2024
Studio 58
Fetlife
You’ll need to join Fetlife to look up the home page. Just do a search for Studio 58 on Fetlife
Mistress Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy
When: August 15 - 18, 2024
Where: Private Hotel Takeover & Event in Gettysburg PA.
Who: Produced by Studio 58. Designed for newcomers, swinks, swingers, experienced kinksters and even brand-new folks who may be kinky in the bedroom but want to know more about safe and consensual BDSM.
What: 3 day event with BDSM and kink education, skill sharing, demonstrations, pick up play opportunities, full BDSM dungeon play space and so much more.
Registration and more information on the Studio 58 website in the Naughty Knowledge section.32 min - Are you ready for serious edging? Stroke-a-thon is back by popular demand!Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time.
There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon.
Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event.
Basically it’s something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum and you are trying desperately to NOT cum until you are the last cock standing.
Why?
First, because it’s a fun challenge and second, there are THREE free phone sex prizes if you can withstand our sexy voices telling you to cum.
First prize is 60 minutes free with the Mistress of your choice. If that’s not incentive I don’t know what is.
Here’s a write up of what you need to do to be part of this epic edging Stroke-a-thon event:
The ladies talk about what you need to do to enter the Stroke-a-thon and then bring in some sexy Mistress friends to give you some special insights:
** Why are these Femdoms so excited by this event?
** Why do we WANT you to cum?
** Get special tricks for edging longer.
** Learn how to increase your stroking stamina.
** Get a preview of some of our favorite masturbation techniques.
In this episode you’ll hear from:
The Scarlet Mistress
Mistress Harper
Ms Nadia
Mistress Becky
Goddess Skylar
Mistress Demi
Goddess Fiona
Remember there is a lot of conversation about the Stroke-a-thon in our free adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.
Are you ready?
Remember if you need private lessons for edging, gooning, roleplay and all sort of fun, kinky adventures, just get in touch!
Mistress Olivia
Mistress Erika45 min - BDSM: Are you ready for shocking news about electro play?Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play.
You’ll get answers to various common questions about electroplay:
What is a Violet Wand?
How is a Violet Wand different from a TENS Unit?
What is the science behind kinksters using electroplay toys?
Who uses Violet Wands and why?
What does it mean when it’s called a sensation toy?
For BDSM players who are or have a pain slut, will electro play be suitably painful?
Does electro play leave marks on the skin?
Brittany explains and then talks about aftercare.
Safety is a huge part of experienced BDSM kinksters, there is a discussion about dos and don’ts with electroplay, TENS units, medical devices, etc.
This episode is packed with useful information, BDSM education, kinky stories and much more.
The Dungeon Store
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy28 min - The Dungeon Store: AVN nominated sex toys, female owned, and in depth BDSM education.Today’s guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, female owned. There is so much to talk about!
Brittany’s mom founded The Dungeon Store nearly two decades ago. The vast amount of BDSM gear and kink toys can be overwhelming. The Dungeon Store has a curated collection of BDSM toys and one of the most robust collections of electro play options for sale anywhere. The quality and creativity earned The Dungeon Store 3 AVN award nominations in the best pleasure products category.
Today’s episode is a lively conversation that goes to a wide variety of topics.
For example, a question about wax play and the flameless wax play kit leads to a story from Mistress Olivia about a house fire and what survived the flames.
The deer tan flogger that is for sale in The Dungeon Store allows Brittany to talk about different kinds of floggers and how they are made.
The Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters inspires a dialog about the psychology of power exchange, the difference between a Top and a Domme and much more.
Mistress Erika shares her interest in the occult. Brittany gives details about why there is a wide variety of occult books in The Dungeon Store.
This episode runs the gamut of funny stories, cautionary stories, BDSM education, spirituality and opening your mind to new ideas.
The Dungeon Store: https://thedungeonstore.com/
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/33 min - Sissy advice: The prettiest think tank everThe Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are transwomen.
In this episode, you’ll hear all about the challenges of feminization along with creative solutions from your Femdom hosts and the gurls involved in the Sissy Pageant
Topics include:
Self image concerns going from male presenting to en femme
Tips for a more feminine appearing body
How to speak in a more feminine manner
The challenge of high heels and liquid eyeliner
Makeup while needing to wear glasses
Fashion and clothing
Dating, meeting people and sex
How to have a sissygasm
Chastity as part of feminization or sissy training
This episode has advice from other ladies as well as from the Femdom hosts.
If you have to keep your sissy or crossdresser activities on the down low, there are ideas for staying feminine when you’re not able to dress en femme.
What feminization or sissy challenges (or advice) do you have? You might inspire another episode!
Mistress Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Enchantrix Empire: https://enchantrixempire.com/38 min
About The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
From the publisher's feed
Explore the psychology of intimacy, erotic control, and intentional relationships with experienced hosts Mistress Olivia…
and Ms. Erika. Featuring expert guests and candid discussions, the show provides deep insights ranging from psychological discussions to practical lifestyle advice, uncovering the secrets of modern power exchange. Connect with us at weeklyhotspot.com. Episodes drop Mondays at 1 PM EST.
Best of The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
Ranked by our users in the last 21 days
More shows like The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1,605 Listeners
The Curious Girl Diaries
613 Listeners
Girls on Porn
1,100 Listeners
The Feminization Boudoir
48 Listeners
The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast
462 Listeners
Dear Nikky: Hidden Desires
222 Listeners
The Horny Housewife
1,567 Listeners
Talk Sex with Annette
63 Listeners
Hotwife Diaries Podcast
140 Listeners
Erotic Stories by Krystine
99 Listeners
Pineapple Pinup: Hotwife Swingers Life
147 Listeners
Bulls & Queens | Swinger Podcast for Cuckolds Hotwives & Bulls
117 Listeners
Cuck My Life Podcast
55 Listeners
Hotwife Haven
101 Listeners
Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
34 Listeners