The Worthiness Mindset Podcast

Happy Thursday, and hello from Marshall, TX. Today's topic is about being good enough, versus settling for good enough. I'm rereading Glennon Doyle's Untamed, and she hits the nail on the head so frequently. How often do you settle for good enough? Our relationships, jobs, and bodies are good enough. Settling for good enough enables us to stay small, and go after the things we want. Settling is a giant red flag and a sign that we are not following our intuition. I'm not saying to never consider rational but to instead weigh it next to your intuition.

Being good enough is when you are no longer striving to prove yourself. When we don't feel good enough, we accept things we wouldn't out of worthiness. When you see yourself as good enough, it's so empowering and it allows you to dream bigger. It allows your imagination to run wild. "What is the most true and most beautiful life you can imagine for yourself?" - Glennon Doyle

If you want to work with me 1-on-1 with me click here, and if you are interested in a Joshua Tree Adventure in February 2023, that will be linked here! I also have an offering to get the most out of the rest of 2022, called Let Joy Lead, read more about that here. Thank you, and have a beautiful rest of your day. I'll see you next week.

Welcome Worthiness Warriors, and happy Thursday! I've been talking to a lot of people about this topic. I used to put so much emphasis on others' approval. This reminds us that we need to fail, in order to grow. There is a piece to failure, in order to make different decisions. Without facing that, without that discomfort, we wouldn't be the resilient humans that we are. In my life, the things coming up over and over for me are joy and courage. Instead of waiting for someone else to hype you up, learn to be your own hype person. We can't go from negative three to positive three without passing through zero. Being your own hype woman does not from bad self-talk, to backing yourself 100%. Give yourself permission and grace to get there.

If you want to work with me 1-on-1 with me click here, and if you are interested in a Joshua Tree Adventure in February 2023, that will be linked here! I also have an offering to get the most out of the rest of 2022, called Let Joy Lead, read more about that here. Thank you, and have a beautiful rest of your day. I'll see you next week.

Welcome Worthiness Warriors, and happy Thursday! Hello from Denver! I'm in town because I went to see Lizzo on Halloween. If you ever have the chance to see her, I highly recommend it! She's truly a show-woman. I have never been to a concert where I felt so cared about, and so seen. She talked about voting, and rights, and she talked about what legacy we can lead. I want to talk about that today. Your legacy.

Whether you have Lizzo status or a small following of 300 people on Instagram, you're influencing people in your life. Your ripple effect goes beyond the immediate people we have connections and relationships. I coach around everyday leadership, and when you begin to see yourself that way, you make such an impact. Instead of believing you aren't enough, influential enough, believe that is a story that is keeping you small, helping you to stay safe.

Push outside your comfort zone. Expand.

If you want to work with me 1-on-1 with me click here, and if you are interested in a Joshua Tree Adventure in February 2023, that will be linked here! I also have an offering to get the most out of the rest of 2022, called Let Joy Lead, read more about that here. Thank you, and have a beautiful rest of your day. I'll see you next week.

Happy Thursday Worthiness Warriors! I am recording from Moab, UT. I'm so in love with Utah, and we did a hike at Arches yesterday, which was so cool.

I want to talk about intentional living, today. Yesterday Robbie and I were talking about what we'd learned in the first 2 months of marriage. I said that it takes intentional effort, treating everything as something special, and harnessing the razzle-dazzle. It's intentional! This is something to think of not only in your relationship but in your life. In order to foster a life that sets your soul on fire, you need intention. Without creating the space for sparks, or living large you'll self-sabotage.

Your peace lies when you can untie your worth from productivity. Release that, release the limiting beliefs you have about your dream life. What are you making being productive mean about you? What are you making not succeeding mean about you? We think this feeling will motivate you toward your goal, but in reality, it pulls you farther away.

If you want to work with me 1-on-1 with me click here, and if you are interested in a Joshua Tree Adventure in February 2023, that will be linked here! Thank you, and have a beautiful rest of your day. I'll see you next week.

Happy Thursday Worthiness Warriors! I'm recording again from Utah this week, and I wanted to talk about a topic that is coming up in many conversations I've been having this week. I have a feeling you need to hear this. It takes tons of courage to make a change in your life; starting a business, ending a relationship, going after a dream, or just doing something you don't normally do. We don't tend to see when people are going through their mess, we usually see them in the after. It takes a ton of courage to be that vulnerable.

Robbie and I were in this place, Capitol Reef, UT, 4 years ago. We'd been together for 10 months, and it was when we'd decided to buy our van, I decided to quit my job and launch my business. It was where I decided to take my biggest risks. I told Robbie I needed some time, and I sat on a rock. I cried, and I journaled, and at that time I knew that taking those risks was exactly what I had to do. I knew that I couldn't go back to living as if I didn't know that, and I also felt every single piece of discomfort I could.

That's the way risks are, you're taking them while feeling the most terrified, but you can't go back to living your life with your eyes closed.

If you're interested in coming back to nature, and to yourself I am hosting a retreat in February in Joshua Tree! Join me here. I am also opening up 2 1-on-1 coaching spots, if this is more your speed, schedule a consult call here.

Hello, and happy Thursday Worthiness Warriors! I'm sitting in a canyon in Provo, UT. The canyon is next to a brook, and there is a burn scar with a ton of burnt trees. But, there's starting to be new growth, and there is a rainbow of autumn colors. Greens turning yellow, yellow to orange, and orange to a deep pinkish red. There are birds serenading me, and I'm in awe. Can you feel the peace?

You have the ability to stop and feel the peace where ever you are because it's felt first inside. Our inside actually is the catalyst to how we interpret our external. This podcast is being recorded 1 day before my 34th birthday, and upon reflection, I hope that if anything, I help you to slow down so you can actually experience your life. Can you put time on your calendar sometime this week to reflect on who you've become, what you've overcome, what you've learned, and how you've changed? No matter what, you are a different person, but unless you slow down and allow time to reflect, you'll never give yourself credit for who you're becoming and what you're creating.

If you're interested in coming back to nature, and to yourself I am hosting a retreat in February in Joshua Tree! Join me here. I am also opening up 2 1-on-1 coaching spots, if this is more your speed, schedule a consult call here.

Wandile Mthiyane, founder of Antiracist Hotdog, explains his racial harassment encounter with an Airbnb host and the disappointing way Airbnb has handled this situation. He is joined by his friend, Jillie Johnston, as they both share what the process was and how Airbnb's policies are inherently racist and need to be changed. We are asking for anyone who has connections to any major news stations, newspapers, journalists, lawyers, or higher ups at Airbnb. We want Wandile to be fully reimbursed and compensated, yes, but more than that, we want to ensure policy change happens at Airbnb and other businesses like them to make it more inclusive, equitable, and safe for all guests. We want no one else to get hurt or suffer at the hands of these policies. If you can help with connections, media coverage, or legal guidance please contact Wandile Mthiyane at [email protected] or Jillie Johnston at [email protected].

Happy Thursday Worthiness Warriors, I'm recording this podcast from beautiful Colorado! This episode is one for us all because I have never met someone who doesn't struggle with this, it's been coming up all around me. It is so hard to untie your worth from productivity, because that's not what society has told us, stomped into us, and encouraged in us. Pause and ponder all of the forces, all of the 'isms' that have reinforced this thinking in you. Say it with me now, 'I am valuable whether I am productive or not.' This area is particularly difficult to give ourselves grace in, because no matter how healed you and how much work you've done, this will continue to come up. Give yourself the grace, and know that spending time in the space will be what eventually heals it. The place to look is not in the ease but in the dis-ease, validate where you are. Of course, you feel this way, remember all the 'isms'? If you want to work on your relationship with worthiness, work with me here.

Happy Thursday Worthiness Warriors! It's great to be back in real-time, it's great to be back in the lower 48, and it's great to be back and MARRIED!! The month of August was so filled with surrender, and let go to allow space for magic. I'm so happy to be back and to bring this evolution to my business. I'm excited to allow you all to benefit from my lessons, it's one of my favorite parts! I've really learned that when we don't take time off, or unplug we are constantly in the weeds. We're constantly in the micro, patience is low, and it's really hard to remember to see the bigger picture. Unfortunately, you can't automatically take yourself out of the weeds of life, you need the time to break the cycle. I didn't realize how much pressure I was putting on myself two months ago before we left. I gave myself full permission to take those 5 weeks off; no pressure, only joy.

Welcome back to the Worthiness Mindset Podcast. Jillie and Robbie are taking the month of August off to elope, and enjoy each other on their honeymoon in Alaska! On this week's podcast episode we have a re-upload of a well-loved oldie, but goodie! We're so excited for Jillie to be back next week and share her newest adventure!

In this episode Jillie shares about being forced to accept help and slow down. For many of us, receiving can be difficult, and feeling like a burden can be difficult. In that, Jillie found a lesson to share that a lot of us can relate to. We are worthy no matter what, and you always will be. Your peace, joy, love, and enlightenment are all wrapped up in it, you are still enough.