TF S03 | E18| In this episode of Thinking Faith, Deacon Eric Gurash and Dr. Brett Salkeld respond to a thoughtful question from Grade 9–10 students at Miller High School: How can I know when God is talking to me?
Drawing on the spiritual wisdom of St. Ignatius of Loyola, the conversation explores Christian discernment through self-awareness, honesty, and paying attention to the movements of the heart over time. They explain the difference between spiritual consolation and desolation, clarifying that these are not simply good or bad feelings, but experiences related to freedom, clarity, hope, and closeness to God.
The episode offers practical guidance on creating space to hear God’s voice through silence, prayer, spiritual reading, Mass, confession, adoration, and the daily Examen, while cautioning against making major decisions during times of desolation. Listeners are encouraged to trust that God’s voice often sounds like truth spoken within, to remain grounded in Church teaching, and to grow patiently in freedom and faith as God continues to shape their spiritual lives.
03:22 Question God Speaking
03:46 Ignatius Discernment Basics
05:05 Silence and Self Awareness
05:58 Ignatius Story and Boredom
08:21 Consolation vs Dopamine Crash
10:40 Examen and Honest Reflection
12:02 True Voice vs False Voice
15:59 Church and Moral Guardrails
18:31 Crime and Punishment Example
20:52 Everyday Choices and Consolation
21:45 Fruits Of The Spirit
22:32 Consolation Versus Desolation
23:53 Do Not Decide Desolate
24:35 Dad Story And Space
27:58 Lies Reduce Your Options
29:03 Temporary States And Clarity
33:42 Discernment In Sacraments
36:13 Garden Conditions For Growth
38:05 God Changes Our Minds
38:44 Closing Thanks And Blessing