Nikki Tempelman served as a worship leader in her church for several years. She graduated from Western University with a Bachelor of Arts. She sings, plays the piano, acoustic guitar, and the trumpet. One day, Nikki was asked to choose between her faith and her sexuality. As a Christian and queer person, this was an impossible task that sparked a journey of self discovery, finding a way to continue to worship God and be true to who she was as a person. We talk about reconciling what the Bible says about homosexuality, choosing mental health over suffering, and what faith community looks like after you have been rejected by the church. We discuss the journey of being our authentic selves and recommend resources to guide you on yours.
Note: This episode was recorded one year ago.
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Introduction, welcoming Nikki Tempelman.Clip of Nikki Tempelman’s song “The One” listen on Spotify.The elephant in the room.Learning about her sexuality and coming out.Faith background. Head and heart knowledge.Dating men.Reconciling faith, sexuality, and experiences with ‘the church.’Finding community. You don’t need a building to have faith.If Jesus showed up in 2023.What the Bible says about homosexuality. Our take on it so far.What is God telling us? What is he trying to show us?A comment on Vicky Beeching’s story in her book “Undivided.”Showing radical nonjudgmental love to people.Freedom in being true to oneself and having peace with oneself and God.What mental health means to Nikki and what it takes to have a healthy mind.Freedom!“Don’t be a chameleon.”Check out Nikki’s album “Promises” on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/artist/54MvZIcidHA8u9HDNnjRvs?si=BYh4XXfqRu-Fw09-MrDNmA
Recommended resources related to this episode:
Books
UnClobber by Colby MartinUndivided by Vicky BeechingPodcasts
We Can Do Hard Things: A podcast by Glennon Doyle and Audacy. Episode 9 “Queer Freedom: How can we be both held and free?”Queerology: A podcast on belief and being.Second Sunday: A podcast about Black queer people finding, keeping, and sometimes losing faith in the Black church.Dear Alana: Podcast documentary by Tenderfoot TV & iHeartPodcasts.The Kate and Colby Show: A podcast on life through the lens of progressive Christianity.Intro and outro music: “Dismantle” by Peter Sandberg (2016). Licensed via Epidemic Sound.
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