Have you ever been at a crossroads, wishing for that one piece of timely advice to light the way?

Recently, a conversation with my nieces got me thinking about the incredible wisdom our guests have shared on this podcast. In this special episode, I'm doing things a little differently. I’ve gathered insights from three amazing creators: bestselling author Jasmine Guillory, photographer Amanda J. Cain, and muralist Dorian Sylvain who share the advice they wish they could give their younger selves. 

Get ready to hear hear tried-and-true tips on the writing process, the power of mentorship, and how to reframe so-called mistakes into opportunities for growth.

00:00 - The Power of Timely Advice 03:26 - Jasmine Guillory on Finding Your Voice as a Writer 05:14 - Amanda J. Cain on Mentorship and the Gift of Authenticity 09:27 - Dorian Sylvain on Embracing "Mistakes" and Lifelong Learning 13:46 - A Final Word on Making Advice Stick

Tune in to Jasmine Guillory’s episode 50.

Tune in to Amanda J Cain’s episode 70.

Tune in to Dorian Sylvain’s episode 77. 

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What happens when your creative process becomes a mirror, reflecting back the deepest parts of your identity? I sit down with abstract artist Gina Tyquiengco to discuss her winding creative path, from teaching herself graphic design to finding her voice as a painter. 

Gina explains how her signature black, white, and gold palette is a deliberate reflection of her Guamanian and African American heritage, duality, and spirituality. This is a powerful conversation about trusting the process and the joy of making art alongside your children.

00:00 - Introduction to Gina Tyquiengco

01:50 - A Multicultural Upbringing Fueled by Creativity 

04:00 - The Clever Kid Who Drew Inside the Cabinets 

05:20 - How Bob Ross Sparked a Lifelong Passion for Painting 

07:25 - The Winding Road from Graphic Design to Fine Art 

10:00 - Painting for a Paycheck vs. Painting for Self-Discovery 

14:10 - The Meaning Behind a Black, White, and Gold Palette 

18:00 - Exploring and Mastering a Signature Style 

21:00 - Knowing When a Painting is Truly Finished 

27:00 - The Beautiful Collaboration of Painting with Her Daughter 

31:30 - Advice for Aspiring Artists on Mastering Your Craft 

35:30 - The Key to Getting Your Work Seen by the Right People

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Have you ever felt like artist grants are just mysterious pots of money reserved for a select few? It’s a feeling so many of us in the creative world know all too well. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the world of grant funding to show you that it’s not about luck or secret connections. 

Being awarded a grant has everything to do with understanding the system. I’ll walk you through the essentials: what grants are, where to find the right opportunities for you, and how to strategically prepare yourself for success. 

If you're ready to stop throwing applications into the void and start intentionally building a path to fund your creative practice, this conversation is your first step.

00:00 - Welcome to the World of Artist Grants. 01:03 - What Exactly Is an Artist Grant? 02:47 - From Local Councils to "Genius" Grants: Understanding the Money 04:22 - Where to Find the Right Grants for You 05:40 - The Strategy That Works: Why Starting Local Matters. 06:37 - The Most Important Work: Figuring Out What You Truly Need. 07:50 - How to Move from a Vague Wish to a Specific Plan. 09:05 - The Power of Tracking and Timing. 09:47 - Don't Overlook This Funding Gem: Residencies. 10:20 - A Little Homework to Get You Started.

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Have you ever felt a divine nudge? Or maybe a full-on nudge that pushed you toward a life you didn’t plan for? In this episode, I’m talking with the incredible interior designer Beth Diana Smith, who made the courageous leap from a successful career in corporate finance to founding her own celebrated design firm.

Beth shares the story of how she went from being the kid who organized her toybox and dreamed of becoming an accountant to a leading voice in contemporary design, known for her bold, eclectic, and maximalist style. We get into the pivotal moment of peace that led her to leave her stressful corporate job and how the skills she honed with spreadsheets and budgets became the secret weapon for her creative business. This is a candid conversation about listening to the signs, redefining your path, and the magic that happens when a client points out your signature style before you’ve even seen it yourself.

00:00 - From Aspiring Accountant to Acclaimed Designer

06:56 - Juggling Two Worlds: The Hustle of Corporate Life and Design School

12:50 - The Divine Slap: Finding Peace and the Courage to Quit

18:40 - Building a Business: First Clients and Finding Momentum

22:15 - Discovering a Signature Style by Accident

28:08 - The Psychology of Design: Creating for a Client’s Future Self

34:20 - How Corporate Skills Shape a Creative Business

38:30 - On Pride, Passion, and Finding the Right Collaborators

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Have you ever considered how success might change you? That as you grow, you might lose the very essence of what makes you, you? 

In this solo episode, I share a story of a startling comment that made me confront my own evolution. We’ll explore the balance between evolving and losing yourself, between growing your craft and abandoning your voice. Join me for a conversation about change, authenticity, and embracing the magnificent artist you are destined to become.

00:00 - A Story About Becoming 01:10 - A Car Ride and a Startling Question 03:00 - The Pressure to Change as an Artist 04:00 - The Real Question: Who Will You Become? 04:42 - Staying True Isn't Staying Still 05:30 - Your Roots Are Your Foundation 06:10 - Change is Natural, Like a River 06:30 - A Call to Your Own Magnificent Self 07:07 - Final Thoughts on My Own Evolution

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What does it take to leap into the unknown for the sake of your creative calling? In this episode, I talk with Lori Tharps, a writer, educator, and creative catalyst who did just that. 

Lori shares the powerful story behind her decision to leave a tenured professorship at Temple University to start a new life in Southern Spain. 

We explore her journey to create The Sanctuary, a vital community for BIPOC women writers, and dig into her profound belief that storytelling is a tool with the power to change the world. This conversation is a moving testament to the magic that unfolds when you have the courage to build the life you've always imagined.

00:00 - Introducing Lori L. Tharps 02:52 - The Childhood Friendship That Sparked a Creative Life 07:25 - From "Lying" to Storytelling: The Gift of a Typewriter 09:47 - What Truly Makes a Good Story? 16:04 - "Watch Me": Defying the Myth That Motherhood and Writing Don't Mix 17:47 - The Physical Feeling of Purpose: Flow vs. Frustration 21:17 - The Leap of Faith: Why She Left a Tenured Professorship for Spain 28:28 - Making Time to Create, Inspired by Our Literary Ancestors 32:53 - The Birth of The Sanctuary for BIPOC Women Writers 37:04 - The Myth of the Solitary Writer and the Power of Community 47:17 - What Does a Real Writing Practice Look Like? (It's More Than Just Writing) 53:34 - The Gospel of Storytelling: How New Narratives Can Save the World

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Ever wonder what a full week in the life of a professional photographer really looks like? I'm pulling back the curtain and taking you with me through a jam-packed week of creative hustle and real-life moments. From juggling four different photoshoots centered on Black Joy to managing client proposals and sneaking in family time, this episode is a raw, honest look at the daily dance of a working artist.

I’m sharing it all—the early morning meditations, the last-minute changes, the on-set surprises, and the quiet moments of reflection that keep everything grounded. This isn’t about a picture-perfect schedule; it’s about the messy, beautiful reality of building a creative career, one day at a time. Join me for a different kind of episode where you’ll hear what it truly takes to get the work done while keeping your creative soul nourished.

00:00 - A Week in the Life of a Creative

03:55 - Monday Morning: Prepping for a Day of Shoots

06:17 - Monday Evening: A Full Day's Recap

08:59 - Tuesday Morning: Finding the Shot in a South Side Church

11:29 - Tuesday Evening: Unpacking an Inspirational Day

16:13 - Wednesday Morning: Best-Laid Plans

20:43 - Wednesday Evening: When the Day Goes Sideways

22:49 - Thursday Morning: An Easier Day

25:05 - Thursday Evening: Admin, Selects, and a Surprise Race

29:25 - Friday Morning: Getting It All Done

34:07 - Friday Evening: The Week’s Wrap-Up

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How do we find the courage to build a creative career on our own terms? I'm so excited to share my conversation with Ashley Buttercup, a Brooklyn-based painter whose work beautifully captures the quiet, unguarded moments of life. From a childhood nurtured by creative parents to finding her own way through the bustling worlds of fashion and advertising, Ashley's journey is a masterclass in resilience and self-discovery.

In this episode, Ashley shares how she navigated the corporate world while keeping her artistic flame alive, launching her own print art magazine, and eventually taking the leap to pursue painting full-time. We talk about the messy, beautiful reality of balancing motherhood with a demanding creative practice and how a single, high-stakes project of painting 30 portraits in a month became a transformative experience. This conversation is a testament to the power of community, the importance of planting seeds for the future, and the profound beauty found in everyday moments.

01:53 - A Creative Foundation: Growing Up with an Architect Father and Fashion-Focused Mother

04:27 - The Road to Temple University and Finding Her Own Path

07:45 - Life After College: From Fashion Internships to Ad Agencies

10:11 - Creating "Snacks Magazine" and Rekindling a Love for Fine Art

12:16 - The Leap of Faith: Quitting the Day Job and the Power of Community

16:08 - The Balancing Act: A Creative's Routine as a Mother and Artist

17:44 - The Harlem's Fashion Row Challenge: Painting 30 Portraits in a Month

28:01 - Evolving a Creative Voice: From Abstract to Documentary Figurative Art

30:25 - The Art of Observation: Capturing Tender Moments in Brooklyn

39:49 - The Traveling Shirt: A Project of History and Connection

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Have you ever sat down to create, only to find yourself endlessly scrolling for inspiration and losing your voice in the noise? 

In this episode, I introduce a concept for clearing out mental buildup to make space for your authentic ideas to emerge. 

We'll explore the surprising science behind why our best ideas often emerge during moments of rest, and I'll offer you a few simple, actionable ways to incorporate creative thinking into your own life. 

This conversation is an invitation to give your creative voice the room it needs to breathe and to discover the brilliant work that wants to emerge through you.

00:00 - A Lesson from the Dentist’s Chair 02:20 - The Buildup of Creative Plaque 04:10 - The Science of Mental Rest and “Attention Residue” 05:32 - When Do You Need a Creative Floss? 06:18 - Three Ways to Practice Creative Floss 08:00 - Why Your Best Work Requires Space, Not More Input 09:23 - A Loving Call to Action

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Sometimes the job you’ve worked hard for breaks your spirit.  In this episode, I chat with interior designer Courtney Robinson. 

Courtney shares her winding journey from a childhood dream of acting to studying design at Howard University to navigating the harsh realities of the New York design world. 

Courtney opens up about the pivotal moments that urged her to leave the corporate path and to create her studio. Today, Materials and Methods Design is an inclusive space built on mentorship and authentic collaboration. 

Courtney’s journey is a powerful story about resilience, redefining success, and about the courage it takes to build a creative life that truly aligns with your soul.

00:00 Introduction to the Creative Journey

02:57 From Acting to Interior Design: A Shift in Passion

06:05 The Role of Family in Creative Pursuits

08:54 Navigating the Early Career Landscape

11:44 Experiences of Racism and Gatekeeping in the Industry

23:29 Founding Materials and Methods Design

30:43 Defining Success: A Personal Evolution

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