Join us as we properly dive into this deep chat all about being an extravert and its deep misconceptions & my goodness does it get deep - get ready :))
As an extravert pretty much all my life, something which I've found, particularly in recent months, is that some people who don’t know me assume that I’m “crazy” because I truly love life and find 'casual magic' in it every day, thanks UnJaded Jade for the term ;). Chelsea makes a really interesting point that she's observed that quite a few introverts were in fact extroverts but because of the “too much” “loud” and “crazy” labels they toned themselves down to the extent they actually changed themselves to become introverted, something which doesn’t naturally align to them and their personality. Society, generally speaking, has become so judgemental and even from personal experience I can see why some people do change themselves as a result of the judgements.
Furthermore, something that I’ve realised doing this podcast is that the way society views a confident, outgoing and independent woman is very different to that of a man.
When a woman is outgoing she’s seen as weird or 'making moves' but when a guys does it, its a sign of manhood and an attractive quality. We also talk about how basic human interactions are increasingly being seen as 'weird' and 'not normal' - to many complimenting someone, chatting to someone on the train or laughing with the cashier is somehow viewed as strange and odd! We talk about how this behaviour can be seen as intimidating especially to men, erm well actually - boys ;)
We talk about uni social culture and how you'll grow to have a big network where "everyone knows everyone” but in fact everyone just knows OF people, their names, not them as individuals. Additionally, we discuss how some people will want to “ruin your vibe.” Please don’t ever let someone's internal battles stop you from releasing your pure, unique and beautiful energy into the world.
We also finish with the biggest deep thought & that is that some people just feel things deeper and more than others, a category which Chelsea & I most definitely fit into. It's really hard for me to properly express how I feel towards this subject but I feel so deeply & genuinely connected to humanity and this is something which either attracts people with curiosity or scares them away. This feeling is something which Chelsea also resonates with.
Thank you so much for coming on the show Chelsea. It was truly awesome to deep chat with you - I absolutely love your outlooks and energy so much, thank you for being your beautiful self :)
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