This Is Why

This Is Why

By Laura Lane, Angela Spera - HeadgumComedySociety & CultureRelationships
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This Is Why episodes

  • How to Say No to Commitments

    This week we talk about how to say no to commitments and give yourself space. We a question from a listener who is unsure if it’s safe to return to her gym and another who is worried that a new living situation will destroy her social life. In the news we discuss Harry Styles being a “consent king", how Americans really feel about wearing masks & experts give advice on distanced hangouts. Angela calls herself the IKEA Hulk and Laura needs an emergency root canal. 

    **The proceeds from this week's episodes will be donated to the ACLU, Black Lives Matter, and the Innocence Project**

    This week's episode was brought to you by:

    Sheets and Giggles (offer code: THISISWHY)

    Care/Of (offer code: THISISWHY50)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    44 min
  • How To Be or Not To Be Productive

    This week we give you tips on how to be more productive or less productive (if you're pushing yourself too hard) during this crazy time. Then we answer your listener questions including a question about frenemies and another one about not feeling productive. In the news we discuss why Ryan Seacrest is tired, tech workers working from home long term & why vaccines are slow. Angela's fiancé doesn't wear a shirt on his Zoom calls and Laura talks about positive reinforcement and her love of naps.

    **All proceeds from this episode for This Is Why have been donated to the ACLU, The Innocence Project, Black Lives Matter**

    This week's episode is sponsored by:

    Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE)

    Talkspace (offer code: SINGLE)

    Sakara (offer code: SINGLE)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    49 min
  • Anxiety & Coping Skills

    This week’s episode is all about anxiety and tips for how to cope. We answer mailbox questions including one listener who wants to know if coffee is making her anxious and another listener who is working on getting over her “imposter syndrome” at work. Then we talk about what’s in the news including early 2000s fashion making a comeback, Trump still refusing to admit he was wrong about coronavirus & the desperate measures we are taking to keep our Zoom hangs interesting. Angela attends a “webinar” for brides with postponed weddings and Laura talks about work anxiety.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    43 min
  • Toxic Positivity

    This week we talk all about toxic positivity and how it can actually be harmful to be overly positive when people are struggling. We give tips on how to meet people where they are at and suggestions of what to say when someone is sad. Then we answer your listener questions including one listener who wants to know where the line is between normal positivity and toxic positivity and another listener who is considering quitting social media over the way it makes her feel. In the news we talk about the role of astroturfing in recent protests, how to play Survivor via Zoom & parents eavesdropping on their kids’ online therapy sessions. Angela mourns her would-be wedding day and Laura gets mad at people not following social distancing guidelines.

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    Causebox (offer code: SINGLE)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    57 min
  • Friendship During a Global Pandemic

    It's our first "This Is Why" podcast! Starting this week we'll be giving best friend advice on topics including pop culture, politics, friendship, dating, workplace dynamics, parenting, news headlines... and whatever else is on your mind! This week we are talking about all things friendship during this wild time. We answer your listener questions including one listener who is struggling to motivate herself and another who wants to know how you can be friends with people who have problematic views. Then we talk about what’s in the news including what workspaces will look like post-pandemic, the best pandemic music out now & potty training. Angela and Laura talk about virtual doctor appointments. 

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE)

    Sakara (offer code: SINGLE)

    Talkspace (offer code: SINGLE)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    52 min
  • The Final Episode (And What We've Learned Along the Way!)

    It's our last This Is Why You're Single podcast (Don't worry, we are just dropping the "you're single" and rebranding starting next week)! Angela and Laura talk about everything we've learned over the last 250 episodes, how our lives have changed and the best dating advice we are walking away with. In dating news we discuss how coronavirus is changing online dating & the rules for sex during the time of coronavirus. Then we dive into the mailbox to reflect on some of our favorite listener emails and answer a new listener question from one listener who is being shamed by the new guy she is seeing for not quarantining with her family. 

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    Causebox (offer code: SINGLE)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1 hr 24 min
  • How to Pursue a Crush

    This week we talk about how (and if!) you should make a move on a crush. In dating news we discuss the how “whelming” is the new “negging” & how long first dates should last. Then we answer your listener questions including one listener who has a crush on a coworker and another whose crush is making her question her sexuality. Angela has beef with OKCupid and Laura has beef with her couples therapist.

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE)

    Care/Of (offer code: THISISWHY50)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    43 min
  • Adjusting Expectations

    This week we talk all about dating expectations: what is reasonable, how to tell someone what you expect and how to know if you're an expectations match. In dating news we discuss how to improve your sex life by talking about it & how to make your marriage gayer. Then we answer your listener questions including one listener getting mixed signals and another who keeps getting disappointed on dates she met online. Angela gets real about wedding vendors and someone flirts with Laura in Tulum. 

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    Causebox (offer code: SINGLE)

    Coors

    Feals

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    54 min
  • Dealing With Their Ex

    This week we are talking about how to deal with your partner's ex. In dating news we discuss how Tinder gets a panic button & the best way to avoid someone at a party. Then we answer your listener questions including one listener whose boyfriend wants to share a Costco card with his ex and another listener whose girlfriend’s ex is creeping on his Insta. Angela's co-worker claims all men pay for Tinder and Laura tries to get Nic to buy her lingerie.

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    CareOf (offer code: THISISWHY50)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    42 min
  • Finding the Right Porn for You ft. the hosts of the Girls on Porn podcast

    This week we talk all things porn: how to find ethical porn that's right for you! We are joined by the hosts of Girls on Porn podcast, Laura Ramaday and Rachel Napoleon, to break it all down! In dating news we discuss the less obvious benefits of masturbation & what to know before you give a blowjob. Then we answer your listener questions including a listener whose ex discussed their sex life on a podcast and another listener who got a series of weird Bumble messages about penis size.

    This week's episode is brought to you by:

    Squarespace (offer code: SINGLE)

    Talkspace (offer code: SINGLE)

    Third Love

    Sakara (offer code: SINGLE)

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    57 min

About This Is Why

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Comedians and authors Laura Lane and Angela Spera give best friend advice on pop culture, politics, news headlines, workplace dynamics, dating, parenting, friendship and whatever else is on your…

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