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Three Common Reasons Couples Clash Over Money and How to Resolve Them
In this episode of Wisdom's Table, I dive deep into a topic that many couples grapple with: the reasons behind financial disagreements in marriage. As we continue to celebrate the launch of my new book, The Money Mandate, I explore three common underlying factors that often fuel conflicts about money between spouses.
We begin by discussing the emotional connection we have with money, emphasizing that it is intricately tied to our sense of safety and security. See which of the three reasons is most common for you.
Grab my "Talk MONEY To Me" Guide
Get your copy of The Money Mandate
00:00:00 - Welcome to Wisdom's Table
Introduction to the podcast and overview of the episode's topic on financial discussions in marriage.
00:01:09 - The Connection Between Money and Safety
Exploring how money relates to feelings of safety and security in relationships.
00:02:34 - Fear: The First Reason for Financial Conflicts
Discussion on how fear influences arguments about money in marriage.
00:04:44 - Understanding Each Other's Fears
The importance of recognizing and discussing individual fears related to finances.
00:08:02 - Control: The Second Reason for Financial Conflicts
Examining how the need for control stems from feelings of unsafety and can lead to arguments.
00:10:29 - Financial Infidelity and Trust Issues
Understanding how betrayal in financial decisions can affect trust in a marriage.
00:12:03 - Unequally Yoked: The Third Reason for Financial Conflicts
Exploring the concept of being unequally yoked in financial understanding and responsibilities.
00:15:55 - Three Solutions for Financial Conflicts
Practical steps to address underlying issues in financial discussions.
00:17:30 - Seek to Understand Their Motives
Encouragement to understand each other's motivations regarding finances.
00:19:26 - Build a Common Language
The importance of establishing shared terminology in financial discussions.
00:20:08 - Take Time to Learn
Encouragement to invest time in understanding each other's financial perspectives.
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In this episode of Wisdom's Table, I dive deep into a topic that many couples grapple with: the reasons behind financial disagreements in marriage. As we continue to celebrate the launch of my new book, The Money Mandate, I explore three common underlying factors that often fuel conflicts about money between spouses.
We begin by discussing the emotional connection we have with money, emphasizing that it is intricately tied to our sense of safety and security. See which of the three reasons is most common for you.
Grab my "Talk MONEY To Me" Guide
Get your copy of The Money Mandate
00:00:00 - Welcome to Wisdom's Table
Introduction to the podcast and overview of the episode's topic on financial discussions in marriage.
00:01:09 - The Connection Between Money and Safety
Exploring how money relates to feelings of safety and security in relationships.
00:02:34 - Fear: The First Reason for Financial Conflicts
Discussion on how fear influences arguments about money in marriage.
00:04:44 - Understanding Each Other's Fears
The importance of recognizing and discussing individual fears related to finances.
00:08:02 - Control: The Second Reason for Financial Conflicts
Examining how the need for control stems from feelings of unsafety and can lead to arguments.
00:10:29 - Financial Infidelity and Trust Issues
Understanding how betrayal in financial decisions can affect trust in a marriage.
00:12:03 - Unequally Yoked: The Third Reason for Financial Conflicts
Exploring the concept of being unequally yoked in financial understanding and responsibilities.
00:15:55 - Three Solutions for Financial Conflicts
Practical steps to address underlying issues in financial discussions.
00:17:30 - Seek to Understand Their Motives
Encouragement to understand each other's motivations regarding finances.
00:19:26 - Build a Common Language
The importance of establishing shared terminology in financial discussions.
00:20:08 - Take Time to Learn
Encouragement to invest time in understanding each other's financial perspectives.
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