In today’s episode, Emme and I cozy up (apron, brown sweater, holiday chaos and all 😅) to talk about something so many women quietly struggle with—confidence. Especially in midlife, it can feel like your self-assurance has just… slipped away. Your body is changing, your roles are shifting, and suddenly you’re questioning things you never used to.

But what if confidence isn’t something you earn by looking a certain way, achieving a certain goal, or finally “getting it together”? What if confidence is actually your natural state—and the real work is learning how to strip away everything that blocks it?

We unpack a different way to see confidence: not as your ability to do anything, but as your willingness to feel anything. Embarrassment, disappointment, shame, vulnerability—your capacity to sit with those emotions, instead of avoiding or overthinking them, is what creates real confidence. We talk about people-pleasing, perfectionism, overthinking, shrinking back, and why trying not to feel disappointed is the very thing that keeps you stuck in disappointment.

You’ll also hear:

Emme’s honest story about losing (and then finding) confidence while planning her wedding

My very first Thanksgiving as a hostess, Martha Stewart expectations, and instantly bursting into tears when my family walked in the door

Why vulnerability is not weakness—but the doorway to true connection, safety, and joy in your relationships

If you’ve ever walked into a room and wondered, “Why does everyone else seem so confident except me?”—this one’s for you. Your confidence is not missing. It’s just been covered up.

Why midlife often triggers a “confidence dip” for women

A new definition of confidence: your ability to tolerate and feel hard emotions

How overthinking, people-pleasing, and perfectionism quietly block your true self

The difference between ego-based “confidence” and grounded, humble confidence

How vulnerability actually makes people feel safer and closer to you

Simple ways to start accessing the confidence you already have

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I’m taking you behind the scenes of one of my absolute favorite yearly rituals—how I plan my year in a way that feels meaningful, beautiful, and actually doable.

This is Part 1 of a four-part framework I’m teaching my clients this month called “Plan Your Most Magical Year Yet.” Today we’re starting where I always start: by looking back at the year you just lived with love instead of criticism. I’ll walk you through how I reviewed my own year—personally, in my relationships, in my rhythms, and in my work—using a simple four-quadrant framework you can copy.

You’ll hear how I use my camera roll, a circle divided into four sections, and a lot of gratitude to remember what actually worked this year, what surprised me, and where God met me in ways I didn’t expect. Before we rush into resolutions and goals, this step grounds you in celebration and honor for the woman you’ve already been.

The 4-part framework I use to plan my best year yet

How to review your year using your camera roll

Why we start with celebration, not self-criticism

The 4 quadrants I use to review my year:

Real-life examples from my own 2025 review

Why focusing on celebration doesn’t deny the hard parts

I’m teaching the full “Plan Your Most Magical Year Yet” class live on December 18th (all 4 steps of the framework, with prompts, worksheets, and a full workbook).

When you join my Made for More Workshop (January 7–9) before December 18th, you’ll get this entire planning class for free as a bonus. 🎉

In Made for More we’ll:

Wake up your desires and remember what you’re actually here to create

Map out a powerful first quarter of the year

Start building a life that feels aligned, intentional, and deeply joyful

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We are officially post-wedding, I have a married daughter (Emme Burgess!!), my hip is still recovering from the dance floor, and today we’re talking about something I get asked about all the time:

“Why do you seem healthier, happier, and more energetic now than you did 10–15 years ago?”

In this episode, I’m sharing 5 habits I quit in midlife that have radically changed my health, energy, and joy — and honestly make me feel younger now than I did a decade ago.

If you’ve ever thought,

“Is it too late for me to feel better in my body and in my life?”

this episode is my wholehearted no, it’s not too late.

If this episode encouraged you, it would mean so much if you’d:

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I’m so grateful you’re here. Here’s to quitting what drains us and building lives that feel beautiful, meaningful, and joy-filled from the inside out. 💛

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I hope your Thanksgiving week was full of warmth, good food, a little rest, and maybe even a knitting project or two. We had a house full over here — the best kind of beautiful chaos — and somewhere between the leftovers, the blankets, and the allergy fog, I found myself thinking about a pattern I see in myself and in so many women I coach:

Our brains love to find problems. Before the coffee is even half gone — boom, three things labeled “wrong.”

Today’s episode introduces a reframe that has truly changed my life and the lives of my clients:

It sounds simple, but this one question disrupts the entire “problem spiral” our brains default to. When your mind goes into survival mode, scanning for danger, disappointment, or the next thing that might go sideways, your body follows — tension, shallow breathing, cortisol, overwhelm.

But when you pause, even for a moment, and ask:

“How is this not a problem?”

…everything shifts.

In this episode, we talk about:

Your body instantly braces — your creativity, clarity, and wisdom shut down.

It’s not your fault — it’s biology. But you can retrain it.

It switches your prefrontal cortex (your wise adult self!) back on.

You’re not pretending. You’re interrupting unnecessary suffering.

“I feel overwhelmed — and that’s not a problem. I’m a human having a human emotion.”

If your brain offers you a catastrophe? You offer it curiosity instead.

This is the practice I return to again and again — in motherhood, marriage, business, and daily life. It’s how I see miracles more than I see messes. It’s how I enjoy my life instead of endlessly bracing for the next thing.

And I want that for you, too.

I can’t wait to hear what shifts for you.

I love you so much — I’m cheering for you.

Have a beautiful, grounded, grace-filled week. 💛

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In today’s episode, I’m cozied up in my office, cranberry sauce simmering, pie crusts chilling — and my heart is full. I’m sharing how I’ve been living in this creative flow lately and what it really means to create from wonder instead of pressure, perfectionism, or performance.

How to notice the miracle of just being alive today

Why the state of your heart while you create matters more than the finished product

Turning holiday tasks into holy invitations to presence

Letting old rooms (and old seasons) be resurrected into new callings

Creating space for joy, beauty, memories, and connection this Thanksgiving

I’m so deeply grateful for you — for every listen, every share, every kind word. You are part of the House of Joy, and I don’t take that lightly.

Happy Thanksgiving week, dear ones.Go create beautiful, meaningful things from the overflow of a grateful heart. 💛

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Today is a treat. I’m joined by writer and thinker Timothy Willard (author of The Beauty Chasers) for a rich, cozy conversation on Advent, beauty, and why this season invites us to return—to God, to our homes, to one another, and to the truest parts of ourselves.

We talk about:

What Advent is (and isn’t): a church rhythm that helps us not lose the story—the comings of Christ and the light that enters our darkness.

“Homeliness” & the ordinary: how God hides Himself in small, everyday things—tables, gardens, candles, waffles, and walks under winter stars.

Beauty as an awakening: beauty “arrests” us and lifts our gaze beyond the doom-scroll toward wonder, joy, and presence.

Hope as structure (not sentiment): how Christian hope shapes the horizon of our days and gives direction to how we live, love, and serve.

Wintering with intention: slowing down, walking in the cold, paying attention, creating space for awareness in a frantic season.

Lewis threads: how C.S. Lewis (and friends like Arthur Greeves) inform Tim’s imagination—think The Great Divorce, That Hideous Strength, and The Weight of Glory.

An invitation, not just a devotional: Tim’s new Advent email journey offers short reflections, prayers, and simple practices (with some audio readings!) to help you breathe, notice, and chase beauty all season long.

Timothy Willard’s Advent Journey (daily email reflections + audio on select days) – 

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The actual House of Joy is in the messy middle — room swaps, wallpaper on backorder, dust bunnies, the works. 😂 What started as Tommy’s 13th-birthday room move turned into a full-on home refresh… and a powerful reminder: your spaces carry energy. The rooms you live, work, and create in are quietly shaping your identity and your next level.

Today I’m sharing how to uplevel the energetics of your life (and business) — not by trying harder, but by shifting your environment: your home, your relationships, your work, and your inner world. If you feel stuck, stale, or compressed, this episode is your permission slip to clear a corner, move the furniture, and create space for who you’re becoming.

We’ll talk about:

Why environment is the silent architect of your identity

How to know if a space is expanding you or shrinking you

The “four rooms” to assess (home, relationships, work/calling, inner life)

Simple, immediate ways to shift the energy — from a junk-drawer cleanout to an honest conversation to a 10-minute journaling reset

Planning for 2026 with intention (yes, my giant wall calendars are out!)

The power of saying yes to the change you’ve been resisting

Home: If your true self lived here, what would this room feel like? What one corner can you clear today?

Relationships: What’s the current energy — light and connected, or heavy and resentful? What one action would shift it?

Work/Calling: If it were a building, would you want to hang out there? What would make it more creative and joyful?

Inner World: What’s the tone of your inner room — cluttered or sacred? What belief or habit needs redecorating with grace?

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This week’s episode is one of my very favorites — a replay from this time last year that still feels just as true today. It’s all about finishing the year with intention, peace, and purpose… instead of stress, striving, or burnout.

If you’ve felt a little disconnected or like you’re living on autopilot lately (been there, friend 🙋‍♀️), this episode is your gentle wake-up call.

Emmy joins me for a heart-to-heart conversation on: ✨ What it really means to “get back on track” — without hustle or pressure ✨ How to reconnect with yourself and your purpose after a busy season ✨ The power of setting identity-based goals instead of “should” goals ✨ How to tell yourself the truth — with grace instead of shame ✨ Practical ways to live awake, present, and intentional for the rest of the year

We talk about what it looks like to design your life 90 days at a time — not as a rigid plan, but as a rhythm that helps you stay aligned with your true self and God’s best for you.

If you’ve been waiting for the “perfect time” to start fresh — this is it. These last six weeks of the year can still be full of meaning, creativity, connection, and joy. 🌿

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My heart is still overflowing after spending the weekend with the incredible women in our Life Mentoring School coaching community. Over 120 of us gathered together for a weekend of teaching, dancing, laughter, prayer, and deep connection — and it reminded me once again why the company you keep matters so much.

In this episode, I’m sharing seven reasons community is one of the most powerful forces for transformation — and why the people you surround yourself with quietly shape everything about the life you create.

We’ll talk about: 💛 How real, lasting transformation happens in relationship — not isolation 💛 Why belonging is a decision, not something you wait for 💛 How proximity determines what feels “normal” in your life 💛 What to do when you’ve outgrown certain circles 💛 Why contribution beats comparison every time 💛 How the right people make you braver 💛 And why legacy is never a solo project

I’ll also share a few behind-the-scenes stories from our most recent coaching event — the joy, the tears, the breakthroughs — and an invitation for you if you’re craving this kind of community too.

Maybe you’ve been walking through a season that feels lonely… or maybe you’ve been the one holding space for everyone else, and you’re finally realizing you need some support too. Friend, you don’t have to do it alone.

The company you keep can change everything — for your growth, your joy, and your legacy. 🌿

P.S. If you’ve felt that nudge to become a coach or mentor, to turn your own transformation into impact — this is your sign. Certification for our February class is now open for a limited time. Come be part of this powerful community of women who are living, leading, and loving from their true selves.

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This is one of my favorite lessons that I’ve ever taught inside Life Mentoring School, and it feels especially fitting right before the holidays (you’ll see why).

Have you ever noticed that certain people just know how to push your buttons? Maybe it’s that relative who always stirs things up at Thanksgiving… or that coworker who seems to drain the life right out of the room.

Here’s the truth: when you decide someone is “difficult,” you’re actually giving them power over your peace. And I want to show you a better way.

In this episode, I’ll teach you how to take back your emotional power, how to stop letting other people’s behavior dictate your joy, and how curiosity and compassion can completely change the way you experience those relationships.

We’ll talk about: ✨ The hidden cost of labeling people as “toxic” or “difficult” ✨ How your brain finds more of what you focus on (and how to shift it) ✨ Simple tools to stay grounded, kind, and joyful in any situation ✨ Why curiosity and compassion can heal your heart (and your body) ✨ How to bring peace into every room you walk into — no matter who’s there

This isn’t about fixing other people. It’s about transforming how you see them — and how you show up.

So pour some coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s talk about how to keep your peace (and maybe even your sense of humor) when people are hard to love. 

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