Today I'm sharing a conversation that stayed with me long after we hit stop recording.

Skye Lamont has been in Life Mentoring School for under a year, and before that she'd already been a certified life coach since 2002. She's also a fantasy novelist with seven completed books, and for years she believed she could only really pursue one calling at a time — the writer or the coach, never both. This conversation is about what happened when she stopped believing that.

Here they are:

"I said yes to becoming a coach and getting certified. But what I really said yes to was myself."

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• YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SkyeLamontCreative

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Did you know the House of Joy has actual house rules? A book landed in my mailbox this week called House Rules, and at the very same time we were gearing up for our Week in the House of Joy — and the two collided in this episode.

So here they are. Ten house rules that make life better, whether it's an ordinary Tuesday or something much harder. Here they are:

Your house of joy was never meant to be just for you. So consider this your invitation in.

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Last week's episode, 402: Why You Feel Behind, Broke, or Stuck (And What To Do About It): 

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/402-why-you-feel-behind-broke-or-stuck-and-what-to-do/id1472947590?i=1000778655014 

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This is a Best of House of Joy rerelease — one of our most downloaded episodes from the past year, and with August coming up soon (fresh starts, new rhythms, back-to-school energy), it felt like the perfect time to bring it back around.

Scarcity doesn't always look like money. Most of the time, it's hiding in your thoughts about your time, your relationships, your pace, your worth — quietly draining your energy without you even realizing it's there.

In this episode, I'm walking through five sneaky scarcity thoughts almost all of us think without noticing, and what abundance actually sounds like instead. Here they are:

Abundance, in the end, is just faith. Faith that you're provided for, that you're supported, that your best days aren't behind you — they're still coming.

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The Ningxia Red Metabolic Reset mentioned in this episode: https://www.youngliving.com/us/en/myaccount/wishlist?listId=65b91cb46c6367000a127d22&enrollerId=1443424&sponsorId=1443424&userName=Edie 

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There's an old story about three bricklayers.

A traveler stops and asks the first one what he's doing. Without looking up, he says, "I'm laying bricks." He asks the second, and gets, "I'm building a wall." But the third one — same bricks, same mortar, same hot sun — says, "I'm building a cathedral." Eyes sparkling.

We're all laying bricks every single day. Laundry, meals, conversations, rhythms. The question is whether we know what we're actually building.

In this episode, I'm walking through seven invisible, unseen pieces of architecture that build a genuinely beautiful life — and it's probably not what you think. Here they are:

You're not just laying bricks today. You're building something — whether you mean to or not. So what are you building?

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Last week's episode, 400: 5 Things Birth Week Taught Me About Loving Well: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/400-5-things-birth-week-taught-me-about-loving-well/id1472947590?i=1000776716504

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Last week I got to witness one of the greatest gifts of my life: the birth of my sixth grandbaby, sweet Ellie Jo.

Watching my daughter Emme become a mother—and watching everyone around her show up to love her so well—taught me more about love than almost anything else could.

In this episode, I'm sharing five things birth week reminded me about how to really love the people in your life, especially when things get hard, unpredictable, or emotional.

Whether you're welcoming a new baby, walking through something hard like we are right now, or simply loving the people in front of you today—I hope this conversation is an encouragement to you.

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Last week's episode, referenced when I talked about packing my Grammy bag: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/399-how-to-find-rest-for-your-soul-even-when-life-feels-heavy/id1472947590?i=1000775750627

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399. How to Find Rest for Your Soul (Even When Life Feels Heavy)

One of the greatest gifts God has been teaching me lately is this:

Life can be heavy without becoming unbearable.

This conversation came after one of those days where Stevie and I had a really hard conversation sitting in the middle of the lake…and then we surfed afterward. It felt strange at first, almost like we shouldn't be allowed to laugh after crying.

But maybe that's exactly what Jesus meant when He said His yoke is easy and His burden is light.

He doesn't always remove the hard thing.

He carries the weight of it with us.

If you've been carrying around tomorrow's worries, living under the weight of uncertainty, or feeling like your soul is just tired, I hope this episode reminds you that rest isn't the absence of burdens.

It's trusting that you don't have to carry them alone.

In this episode we talk about:

What "rest for your soul" actually means

Jesus' invitation to carry life's burdens differently

Holding grief and joy at the same time

Why fun isn't something you earn

Finding renewal in ordinary moments

Practical rhythms that help lighten your emotional load

The importance of creating beauty even in difficult seasons

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Your brain was designed to solve problems.

But if you don't intentionally give it something meaningful to focus on, it will create problems where none need to exist.

In this episode, Dr. Edie Wadsworth shares why creating something beautiful—even during difficult seasons—can completely change the way you experience your life.

From knitting a sweater through hospital waiting rooms to planting tomatoes, learning new skills, and setting simple 90-day goals, this conversation is an invitation to stop letting your brain default to criticism and instead give it something life-giving to build.

If you've been overthinking, worrying, criticizing yourself, or feeling stuck, this episode is the gentle reset your mind may need.

Why your brain naturally looks for problems

How criticism becomes your brain's default when it lacks purpose

Why creating beauty is a powerful antidote to anxiety

The story behind Edie's beloved Frankie Sweater

Why 90-day goals work so well

Simple ideas to create a more magical summer

How to redirect your mind toward what matters most

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397. Love as Your True Identity (Not Just Something You Do)

One of the biggest misconceptions about personal growth is that it's all about becoming more productive, more successful, or more accomplished.

But what if the real goal is becoming more loving?

In this episode, I'm sharing a special teaching from inside Life Mentoring School about what it really means to live from your true self. When we begin receiving God's love instead of striving to earn it, everything changes—from the way we see ourselves to the way we show up in our relationships, our homes, and even the ordinary moments of everyday life.

We also talk about why love isn't pretending everything is okay. True love is willing to feel deeply, tell the truth, grieve honestly, and still hold onto hope.

I hope this conversation encourages you to slow down, soften your heart, and remember who you already are.

Why love is the highest expression of your true self

The difference between living from fear and living from love

How your "ordinary Tuesday" reveals what you're really practicing

Why vulnerability is essential for authentic love

Learning to create from desire instead of resentment

What it means to nurture the people and places God has entrusted to you

How to see beauty and hope even in difficult seasons

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A few years ago, I taught a podcast episode called How I Created My House of Joy. At the time, I had no idea that phrase would eventually become the name of this podcast—or the framework that would shape so much of what I teach.

Because here's what I've come to believe:

We're all building a house.

Not just the physical place where we live, but the life we're living inside of every day.

The question is: Are we building it on purpose?

In this episode, we're talking about the foundations that create the experience of your life—and how your thoughts, emotions, habits, and daily decisions are shaping your future whether you realize it or not.

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or disappointed with where you are, I hope this conversation reminds you that your story isn't finished. You can start rebuilding today.

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This episode is completely unserious... and maybe our most controversial one yet.

Today we're sharing 20 ridiculous hills we're willing to die on—from overhead lights and matching hangers to fish, airport outfits, sunscreen, camping, butter, knitting, scary movies, and everything in between.

Some of these opinions are deeply held. Some are probably wrong. And some we may completely change our minds about next year.

But for today?

We said what we said.

Come laugh with us and then tell us the hills you're willing to die on.

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