Sara Caplan is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con 2025 and Natalie was lucky enough to be in the audience. Natalie and Sara will talk about transphobia, the philosophy behind gender roles, and their experiences confronting people who are so rooted in their identity because of the gender roles they have committed to.

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Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content!

This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can ingrain yourself in a community of people who are as tired of tolerating misogyny as you are! Be prepared for this year to be filled with more bonus content than ever before and to be a place I celebrate all the things I've learned about myself as not only a podcaster, but as a writer as well!

BIG SPOILER ALERT: One of the last announcements for this episodes is that anyone who is a paid member of our Patreon community will be getting a handcrafted friendship bracelet from yours truly! You didn't think I had ran out of beads, did you?

To join in on the fun and to read our first newsletter, come join us on Patreon and make sure to say hi in our free chat once you're done signing up!

Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. 

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Chris Derosa (Fixing Famous People) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!

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Find Chris:
Instagram: thechrisderosa and fixingfamouspeople
Podcast: Fixing Famous People

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?


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While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.

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Find Kristen:
Podcast: The Daily Fail
Website: kristenmeinzer.com
Twitter: @kristenmeinzer I
Instagram: @k10meinzer

Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026!

Miss us already?

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Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the career of the Olsen Twins. They’ll chat about how Mary-Kate and Ashley are icons when it comes to building an empire while also keeping up your boundaries and how they were able to maintain control of their content. They will also get into how girlhood in the 90s was presented through the Olsen Twin movies and TV shows and the joys that came from having movies advertised specifically for middle school aged girls. 

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Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

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Podcast: Smash Hit 
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Amy Peters (Behind the Carnival Barkers) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our careers. Amy will be talking about her experiences of misogyny while working in tv and audio editing. Natalie will also bring in some stories from her time teaching and in other office jobs she’s had throughout the years. 

Support the Show:

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content!

We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.

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Behind the Carnival Barkers Podcast

Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like trying to talk to legislators about the importance of reproductive healthcare and the state of women’s health care in general. She will also give some helpful tips on how to get involved in your communities and local politics.

Support the Show:

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! 

https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.

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