To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

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  • Raising a Son
    Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Julia Washington joins us to speak on what it is like to raise a son in a world where misogyny is very present and you’re trying to not have one more misogynist on your hands. Topics will include allowing sons space to talk freely about emotions, fathers’ roles in a misogynistic mindset, the hurtful stereotypes that sons have in our society, and how we can do everything to set them up to have an anti-misogynistic mindset but the world is still the world we live in.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Find Julia:
    On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
    Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous
    Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club
    1 hr 6 min
  • Raising a Daughter
    Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Elizabeth Kyle joins us again to speak on what it is like to raise a daughter in a world where misogyny is very present. Topics will include demonstrating boundary setting, things we remember about being raised as daughters, and gender norms within our society’s structure.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

    Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Follow Elizabeth on Instagram!
    1 hr 5 min
  • Patreon Teaser March 2024 The Feminist Icons and Lisa Frankenstein
    The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we celebrated International Women's Month! Our Team Tolerator Check-In was a movie review of Lisa Frankenstein.

    For our Misogyny Meltdown, we focused on highlighting feminist icons. You should expect:

    • Me delivering you some reminders of the accomplishments of strong women.

    • A game where we're testing how well JD Ross knows his icons.

    • A conversation with Julia Washington and Alrinthea Carter on the representation of historical women in media.
    In order to get the full videos and audio episodes for the Misogynist Meltdown and Team Tolerator Check-In You have to join us on Patreon!

    Each tier is running a free trial! And all of our blog posts and other resources are free and can be found here.

    Follow our free tier for trailers and other extra content for the main feed episodes!

    Make sure to follow the show on Instagram and Tiktok!
    27 min
  • Hormonal Birth Control
    Ellen Moore (The Slut Show With Ellen Moore) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off hormonal birth control. The discussion will dive into possible effects hormonal birth control has on the body, women’s treatment when it comes to reproductive health, reproductive agency, and how capitalism is tied into the way we are spoken to about medications.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.
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    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Find Ellen:
    The Slut Show Episode on Birth Control
    Ellen’s Article on Birth Control
    Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore @byellenmoore
    57 min
  • Love is Blind S6 (Part 2)
    This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie.Make sure you have listened to last week’s episode covering cast members who didn’t find love, Amy/Johnny, Brittany/Kenneth, and Chelsea/Jimmy.

    On this episode we will be covering the following couples:

    Laura, Jeramey, and Sarah Ann: Who doesn’t love a good ol’ fashioned love triangle? This trio allowed us to talk about the ramifications of the oversexualization of black women with something called a “bean dip”. We also discussed how Sarah Ann and Jeramey tried to deliver us a masterclass in gaslighting and just fell short.

    AD and Clay: We discuss how cheating isn’t hereditary and how therapy is important before you go on a dating show trying to find your one true love. AD deserved so much better and we will also pay our respects by crowning her the best part of the season.

    Thanks for giving us the chance to chat about this crazy season! We will also close the episode with our normal life lessons and manifestations section.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, March's episode celebrated International Women's Month!

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Find Julia:
    On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
    Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous
    Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club
    38 min
  • Love is Blind S6 (Part 1)
    The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a two-part giant episode on what I thought was Netflix’s clearest indicator that they have a lot of work when it comes to making sure their programming doesn’t perpetuate internalized misogyny.

    On this episode we will be covering the following cast members:
    The Pod Dwellers
    Matthew- Was he a robot? Did he use ChatGPT to script his dates? What is his responsibility to udience members to make me believe he has the emotional investment needed for this kind of experiment?

    Trevor: Trevor had us heartbroken and ready to root for him. Then, some texts surfaced that made us realize that we had fallen victim to another man’s lies and games.

    Jessica: We will use Jessica’s story as an avenue to talk about the realities of single mothers who are trying to date and what their place is when it comes to reality tv.

    The Couples
    Amy and Johnny: They offer us a chance to talk about birth control and who is responsible for knowing the most about it in a partnership.

    Brittany and Kenneth: They gave us a chance to dive into the challenges mixed couples can face early on in their relationship.

    Chelsea and Jimmy: Insecurities are heightened at the start of a new relationship and we got the chance to talk about the aftermath of being faced with those insecurities. We also briefly touch on the criticism Chelsea faced after likening herself to Megan Fox.

    We will be back next week with the Jeramey, Laura, and Sarah Ann love triangle and wrap up with AD and Clay!

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. February is all about love and March celebrated International Women's History Month.

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Find Julia:
    On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
    Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous
    Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club
    1 hr 2 min
  • Patreon Teaser Feb 2024 Romance, Candles, Bachelor Nation, and Creative Burnout
    Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview of our Team Tolerator Check-In with JD Ross.

    The Misogyny Meltdown: Romance, Candles, and Bachelor Nation had us celebrating love and Valentine's Day!


    What can you expect from this episode:

    Some comedic relief about my love life.

    A celebration of romantic comedy tropes.

    An educational candle demonstration from Julia Washington!

    And Chris DeRosa and I saving lives by reminding everyone there's better tv out there than anything Bachelor Nation will give us. 


    Find the video trailer for the Misogyny Meltdown here!

    For our Team Tolerator Check-In, I was joined by JD Ross from Weirdwide to talk about creative burnout! We will talk about how the winter blues affected our motivation to continue creating and what our goals are for the future. We also give even more stories and context about the incel episode JD and I had on the main feed.

    To claim your free trial for the Patreon so you can enjoy the full bonus episodes from last month, click here.

    Guest's Socials: 

    Julia Washington: @thejuliawashington and @popculturemakesmejealous  
    Shop Julia's Candles 
    Chris DeRosa: @thechrisderosa and @fixingfamouspeople 
    JD Ross: @dudeistweirdo


    20 min
  • The Royal Family
    Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.We're celebrating Women's International History Month for March!

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Find Kristen:
    Podcast: The Daily Fail
    Website: kristenmeinzer.com
    Twitter: @kristenmeinzer I
    Instagram: @k10meinzer
    1 hr 7 min
  • I'm The Gaming Industry Expert Here!
    Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story where her expertise on the company she worked for and the games she helps market was argued against and she left the frustrating conversation unable to convince the man on the other side of the conversation she was right. There will also be conversation around how we help bring marginalized voices to the table, the vulnerability it takes to stick up for yourself and your talents, and the emotional/mental labor that is involved when we are constantly asked to model to men how to not be misogynist and how we expect respect when it comes to the things we know.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, for March we will be celebrating International Womens History Month

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    You can find the “Oh My Horror” 2024 movie challenge here.
    1 hr 6 min
  • Dungeons and Dragons Lore
    Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of The Slovenly Trulls podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming. Shardae and Lyssa will bring their expertise on specific tropes written into the lore and playing guides published by Wizards of the Coast that serve as a reminder that the game has some inherent rules and story pieces that are rooted in misogyny, racism, and other oppressive systems. The three women will then celebrate some of the game masters and live play streams who are doing the work to rewrite the narrative that only white men know how to play D&D and enjoy it. Those examples include Dimension 20, Critical Role, DesiQuest, and specific people like Aabria Iyengar.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love and in March we will be celebrating International Women's Month!

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!
    Find Shardae and Lyssa:
    Podcast: The Slovenly Trulls
    Instagram: @slovenlytrulls
    TikTok: @slovenlytrulls
    1 hr 20 min

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