How do you begin recognizing red flags or unhealthy relationship patterns, why is it important to listen to your friends when they don't like your new relationship, how much should we be drinking on our first dates...?
Sharon is a clinical therapist and life coach, and this week we talk about:
Why some of us attract unavailable people
Why it’s important to establish ritual in relationships, especially with long-term relationships
Why having friends who will be honest with you when you first start dating someone is important
How to avoid ending up in unhealthy or abusive relationships
Why it’s important to not over-drink on dates
Why to keep a date journal
How we get schemas from the relationships we were around as kids, and sometimes we re-enact the similar dynamic to reconcile the pain we experienced growing up
Greiving our breakups and creating healthy rituals that bring us back to joySharons' Breathwork Practice - breathing exercise inhale for 4, pause for 7, exhale for 8 — when we exhale for longer than we inhale it resets our nervous system (8-10 rounds)
Books mentioned in this episode:
Getting the love you want
You can find Sharon at @sitwithsharon on Instagram! She has free worksheets, to slide into her DMs.
You can find me https://www.instagram.com/hellolaurenhawk