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  • Part 2 and final part of neurodiversity dating questions
    “Autistic people may display a range of strengths and abilities that can be directly related to their diagnosis, including:
    Learning to read at a very early age (known as hyperlexia).
    Memorising and learning information quickly.
    Thinking and learning in a visual way.
    Logical thinking ability.
    May excel (if able) in academic areas such as science, engineering and mathematics as they are technical and logical subjects that do not heavily rely on social interaction.
    Having an extraordinarily good memory (being able to remember facts for a long period of time).
    Being precise and detail orientated.
    Exceptional honesty and reliability.
    Being dependable in regards to schedules and routines.
    Having an excellent sense of direction.
    Be very punctual.
    Strong adherence to rules.
    Able to concentrate for long periods of time when motivated.
    A drive for perfection and order.
    A capability for alternate problem solving.
    A rare freshness and sense of wonderment.” -https://www.altogetherautism.org.nz/strengths-and-abilities-in-autism/
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    1 hr 7 min
  • Part 1 of neurodiversity dating questions
    “1. Are you working on your chosen field?
    2. How many hours a week do you work? Would you consider yourself a workaholic?
    3. What does your job entail?
    4. What is your dream job?
    5. Have you ever been called a workaholic?
    6. What is your retirement plan? What do you plan to do when you stop working?
    7. Have you ever been fired?
    8. Have you ever quit a job suddenly? Have you changed jobs a lot?
    9. Do you consider your work a career or just a job?
    10. Has your work ever been a factor in the breakup of a relationship?” -https://hackspirit.com/questions-to-ask-before-marriage/
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    50 min
  • Autism mom dating and autism dating part 1
    “Neurodiversity describes the idea that people experience and interact with the world around them in many different ways; there is no one "right" way of thinking, learning, and behaving, and differences are not viewed as deficits.
    The word neurodiversity refers to the diversity of all people, but it is often used in the context of autism spectrum disorder (ASD), as well as other neurological or developmental conditions such as ADHD or learning disabilities. The neurodiversity movement emerged during the 1990s, aiming to increase acceptance and inclusion of all people while embracing neurological differences. Through online platforms, more and more autistic people were able to connect and form a self-advocacy movement. At the same time, Judy Singer, an Australian sociologist, coined the term neurodiversity to promote equality and inclusion of "neurological minorities." While it is primarily a social justice movement, neurodiversity research and education is increasingly important in how clinicians view and address certain disabilities and neurological conditions.
    Words matter in neurodiversity
    Neurodiversity advocates encourage inclusive, nonjudgmental language. While many disability advocacy organizations prefer person-first language ("a person with autism," "a person with Down syndrome"), some research has found that the majority of the autistic community prefers identity-first language ("an autistic person"). Therefore, rather than making assumptions, it is best to ask directly about a person's preferred language, and how they want to be addressed. Knowledge about neurodiversity and respectful language is also important for clinicians, so they can address the mental and physical health of people with neurodevelopmental differences.” -https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/what-is-neurodiversity-202111232645
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    41 min
  • My callings require me to mostly don’t date by circumstances & by choice. I love being greyromantic.
    “I very rarely date and I very rarely have sex because most people are not equipped at all to handle my black extraordinary, my autism extraordinary, my abuse-survivor-thriver extraordinary, and my sexual minority extraordinary self. They (most people) are obsessed with weak commitments, personal peace being pursued without concern for the world’s chaos, making deception “acceptable”, having strength without feeling, pursuing personal needs to everyone’s detriment, abusive power, happiness at any cost, pride and personal independence to the extremes. I am “seen, but not heard” according to most individuals who refuse to affirm me with me.” Antonio Myers.
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    48 min
  • My callings require me to be mostly celibate by circumstances & by choice. I love my graysexuality.
    “I went from being rape cultured as a child; to having a highly overactive libido as a younger man; to being of celibacy for the majority of my time as an intercontinental public figure. I experience alloromanticism and allosexuality when it comes to extraordinary misfits like me. Most people, I feel aromanticism and asexuality when it comes to most people in the world who are societal copycats.” -Antonio Myers.
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    1 hr 2 min
  • Collapsed sexual boundaries, rigid sexual boundaries, and healthy sexual boundaries.
    “4.
    Sexual boundaries
    Healthy sexual boundaries include consent, agreement, respect, understanding of preferences and desires, and privacy.
    Healthy sexual boundaries include:
    Asking for consent
    Discussing and asking for what pleases you
    Requesting condom use if you want it
    Discussing contraception
    Saying no to things that you do not like or that hurt you
    Protecting the privacy of the other person
    This might sound like:
    "Do you want to have sex now?"
    "Is this comfortable for you?"
    "Tell me what you like."
    "Tell me what you don't like."
    "I don't like that. Let's try something different."
    "I don't want to have sex tonight. Can we cuddle instead?"
    "I am really into [insert desire here]. Is that something you would feel comfortable with?"
    Sexual boundary violations include:
    Sulking, punishing, or getting angry if someone does not want to have sex
    Not asking for consent
    Pressure to engage in unwanted sexual acts
    Unwanted sexual comments
    Leering
    Lying about contraceptive use
    Lying about your health history
    Criticizing the other person's sexual preferences
    Unwanted touch, assault, or rape.” -Mindbodygreen.
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    55 min
  • Sexual verbal communication skills, nonverbal sexual communication skills, sexual interpersonal communication skills!
    “Full-body orgasms, full-heart orgasms, full-soul orgasms, full-mind orgasms, and full-memories orgasms do exist. Full-touch orgasms, full-taste orgasms, full-sight orgasms, full-hearing orgasms, and full-smell orgasms also exist. I acknowledge that personality orgasms and temperament orgasms are pleasurable. I hate sexual emotionalism and sexual denialism. I haven’t attended any sex conferences and sex conventions because no one thought to invite me. I haven’t attended any porn conventions and porn conferences because again, no one thought to invite me.” -Antonio Myers.
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    2 hr 55 min
  • Many compound trauma survivors would admit their frustrations to me with the adult film industry.
    “Modern sex therapy often integrates psychotherapeutic techniques and medical ones,[2] such as Viagra (sildenafil) and Cialis (tadalafil) to increase erectile response and Paxil (paroxetine) to treat premature ejaculation. Sex therapists assist those experiencing problems in overcoming them, in doing so possibly regaining an active sex life. The transformative approach to sex therapy aims to understand the psychological, biological, pharmacological, relational, and contextual aspects of sexual problems.[3]
    Sex therapy requires rigorous evaluation that includes a medical and psychological examination. The reason is that sexual dysfunction may have a somatic base or a psychogenic basis. A clear example is erectile dysfunction (sometimes still called "impotence"), whose causes may include circulatory problems and performance anxiety. Sex therapy is frequently short term, with duration depending on the causes for therapy.[4]
    Sex therapy can be provided by licensed psychologists or physicians, who have undergone training and become certified.[4] These trainings and certifications usually begin with a master's degree, and internship, and a license. This can take up to two years, and longer if a doctoral degree is desired.
    Certified sex therapists do not have sexual contact with their clients.[4] Sex therapy is distinct from sex surrogates. Whereas sex therapists discuss and instruct clients in sex-based exercises to be performed at home between sessions, sexual surrogates participate in the exercises with their clients as part of helping them to practice and develop improved skills. Therapists and surrogates sometimes collaborate on cases.” -Wikipedia.
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    1 hr 1 min
  • My water-to wine sexuality
    “My sexuality is undergoing purification, refining, clarifying, clarification, cleansing, straining, sifting, filtering, filtration, rarefaction, distillation, concentration, processing, treatment, treating, and rectification. My sexuality is also undergoing the removal of impurities and unwanted elements from myself as the substance.” -Antonio Myers.
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    1 hr 1 min

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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.