Too Old For This Sh*t

Today with Goddess Carroll, founder of Sunseed Community which practices collective healing with body-energy work, including somatic abolition. We discuss topics from sex to who we are as a human species. As serious as it gets at times, the episode is filled with giggles and laughs.



We cover:

• Decolonising our minds and our bodies.

• Ancestral vs generational trauma as in nature versus nurture.

• Our thoughts on the terminologies of diversity, equity and inclusion and the faults we see in having to use those terms at all.

• Being careful not to reverse-shame ‘default’ bodies as in skinny and white because no one chooses how they’re born.

• Not putting ourselves in a box, regardless of what anybody says.

• How we are all connected.

• Soulful sex versus performative disconnected sex.

• Dismantling relationship anarchy.

• We end the conversation with a philosophical chat about life.




Reference mentioned in this episode: Sonya Renee Taylor’s book: The Body Is Not an Apology.



Find Goddess: www.sunseedcommunity.com & sunseedcommunitypodcast.buzzsprout.com & FB/IG: @Sunseedcommunity




Music by Peter Walsingham

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Today with Epiphany Jordan, author of the book: Somebody Hold Me, we talk about platonic touch.



We cover:

• What got her into the world of platonic touch.

• How come we miss out on tender touch, when not in a sexual relationship.

• The role of touch on our health, in particular our immune & nervous systems.

• Differences in how touch is perceived in different cultures and across times.

• The hypocritical standpoints on nudity and touch in certain western cultures.

• Why platonic touch is so misunderstood and so taboo.

• The concept of ‘excarnation’ by Irish Philosopher Richard Kearney.

• Cultural myths that discourage nurturing human touch.

• Touch hunger: Are we, as women, more afraid of platonic touch?

• Sometimes we just don’t want certain people to touch us and how to handle it, especially in the yoga and spiritual industries; where it can be considered ‘closed hearted’ if we don’t want to hug everybody.

• Boundaries.

• Permission vs consent.

• Alternative solutions for single people to replace a hug with.



References mentioned in this episode: Richard Kearney & Tea Consent & Betty Martin



Find Epiphany: nurturinghumantouch.com/ & 

Her book: Somebody Hold Me: The Single Person's Guide to Nurturing Human Touch


Music by Peter Walsingham

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Today with Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, Jerry Souter who’s back for a second time, we cover:

• How to, as a cis-woman, date safely both physically and emotionally.

• Recognising red flags.

• Love bombing versus when a healthy man knows very early on you’re the one.

• Being the muse, not the mother.

• What are feminine & masculine energies and how that’s not gender specific.

• We are still fierce when we’re feminine, and being angry at times is a very acceptable part of that.

• How to stand your ground when you’re a very feminine woman.




Find Jerry: www.jerrysouter.com IG: @thejerrysouter 





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When being broke pushed her to the idea of doing a yard sale, Haley realised the only items of value (other than her phone and laptop) were gifts from her exes, that’s how the idea of her play and subsequent book ‘The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale’ came to be.

With the help of a mathematician, she created a formula [for the Cost of Love] that takes into account all the ways we invest or don’t, into our romantic relationships and spit out an accurate price for the material things we’re left with when the romance dies.



We go over:

• Can you put a price on love?

• Is love worth the heartbreaks and disappointments?

• The concept of sunk- cost bias (or pot committed in poker) applied to relationships.

• Why stay-at-home wives and mothers should not be free labour.

• How very traditional men understand the value a woman brings to their lives.

• You cannot control what people are going to think about you.


Find Haley: haleymcgee.ca


Her book: The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale




Music by Peter Walsingham

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Savannah Hauk has two lives: One with a job in IT as Chuck and an other as an author, podcaster, advocate & spokesperson for Crossdressers & the Non-Binary community as Savannah, today Savannah takes us into her world of cross dressing and dual gender.



In this episode we cover:

• Masculine & Feminine Personas.

• The journey of how Savannah came to full expression.

• Difference between a drag queen, a cross dresser, transitioning and dual gender.

• Coming out to your partner as a crossdresser and being open to people’s questions and first reactions and allowing them to process it.

• Safety issues as a crossdresser.

• What we should know as women if our male partner comes out to us as a crossdresser.

• The communities that both the crossdresser and their (non-crossdressing) partner need to build around them.




Find Savannah: https://livingwithcrossdressing.com & social: @savannahhauk



Her books: Living with Crossdressing: Discovering Your True Identity & Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal




Music by Peter Walsingham

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