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We live in a world of great uncertainty, with a lot of things that can worry us or leave us living life feeling despondent or anxious, at the very least. Inevitably, we will be impacted by these energies that are prevalent around the globe and need to consciously say a great big YES to being there for ourselves, recognising that we matter, our happiness matters and consciously choosing to live our lives fully and create endless possibilities for ourselves.
Host Helen Lee would love to support you to do this at powerful monthly sessions on Zoom, where she personally coaches you and facilitates breakthroughs for you that you can sustain and even go beyond with an incredible Key to Mastery she will share with you as well. You can check out all the details at www.transformandthrive.club and sign up there as well. If you have questions regarding when the next live session is, etc, you can email her at [email protected] She will help you reinvent yourself and recreate your life and thrive as greatly as you are ready for!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘Yes indeed. We have the opportunity to reinvent ourselves and even co-create a whole new world together.’
'We are all transmuters and receivers of information and we do this in different ways.'
‘So it is most useful for us to examine ourselves regularly and be there for ourselves in this introspective and conscious way.’
‘That’s what I’m working on right now, for myself, in preparation for the role and work that I have ahead of me to serve our world in the process of the immense transition and transformation in the decade ahead.’
‘Do share my podcasts episodes with others around you. Do spend time going inward and looking at what in your life is working and what is not. Then examine why you feel they are working or not working.’
‘Many get despondent, experiencing all this first hand, or watching it occurring before our very eyes. Be it outmoded demonstrations of power over others being perpetrated, as in a powerful country attacking its neighbour for example.’
‘Be there for you when you expand your light, raise your vibration and level of consciousness, you create differently. You create new things of much higher frequency.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
A common theme worldwide is a lack of security. Many feel unsafe in this current world dynamic where one powerful country attacks its neighbour. Other factors that make us feel uneasy are the pandemic, which makes us worry for our health, and its accompanying economic effects, that make us fear financial ruin.
In earlier episodes Host Helen Lee has spoken of the huge increase in anxiety and depression and how surrendering can be the start of moving into the Invincible Love within us, the Creative Power of all of Existence, which carries the gift of certainty, strength, clarity, patience and a whole lot more along with it.
In this episode, Helen shares a conversational exercise you can adopt or adapt for yourself. It is a conversation between the highest aspects of who you are - your Soul and/or the Universe or Pure Consciousness - and your human or personality self. It is aimed at taking you from any angst, fear or worry, etc you may be experiencing, towards feeling loved and supported by your own loving and powerful Authentic Self, and thereby igniting the True Greatness within you.
It will take much more than this to fully own your Greatness but it will remind your human self that you do not have to feel alone, that there is a part of you that is wise and lovingly powerful, and always there for you. This means that you already have what it takes to thrive at this time and your sense of security and certainty is within you, for you to access and align or merge with.
To increasingly expand your True Greatness and allow your Authentic Self to guide and support you, and possibly even to lead you, more and more, come join our monthly Zoom sessions where I personally coach and facilitate shifts for you and give you a Key to Mastery to sustain these shifts and go to incrementally higher levels of Self Mastery. For more details and to sign up: www.transformandthrive.club
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘Abundance is here. This applies to all kind of abundance. Money, health, a great sense of security, and anything else you may need right now. So, breathe, relax and listen.’
‘I tell her, “I understand, darling, how hard it has been for you, what you’ve been through, just how brave you have been all these years and how amazingly strong, and yes, Amazonic she has been and that its okay to cry”’
‘We need to let go of control. Dare to let everything fall apart in order to totally recalibrate and be your Greatest Self.’
‘Humanity is ascending. All this means is that we are going beyond our human selves, the selves that you have been all your life on Earth here.’
‘There is no God or Goddess outside of ourselves. Meaning we are not separate from whichever God we believe in, or the Universe, Pure Consciousness, or Vastness. Whatever label we wish to give to this Creative Power of all of Existence.’
‘The Consciousness of God, or the Divine already lies within us. It is simply Pure Consciousness which is pure love, divine grace, infinite Creative Power which contains everything we need to thrive.’
‘Ask yourself: "Where do I hurt in my body? What is upsetting me emotionally? What is underneath this emotion that I feel? How can I heal myself and my pain, physical, emotional or energetic?" And take such amazing and loving care of yourself. Own your fears and go beyond them.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
Join Host Helen Lee and Dr John Gray in part two of this incredible interview. If you missed part one, do tune into and listen to episode 20 first and then continue with this episode. Don't miss out on any of the valuable information and wisdom shared in both!
John Gray is the author of the ultimate relationship book, Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. This book is now more than 20 years old, yet it still appears in hot lists across the globe. John has gone on to write many more relationship books, including his most recent Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World
and also has a substantial career as a speaker and relationship counsellor. Join both John and Helen again in part two of this interview where they delve deep into the societal impacts on relationships today, understanding the power of spirituality and much, much more!
John talks about porn, masturbation, sex, celibacy, hormones, self mastery, emotional mastery, self reflection, brain development, spiritual awareness, his years as a Hindu monk when he was the Maharishi's personal assistant, the great awakening, transforming and thriving through relationships.
And the most useful message that Helen thinks John shared in this conversation with her is that the more we change at this time, "the more we will suffer less”, as there will be great suffering in the years ahead. This is precisely why Helen created “Transform & Thrive”both as a podcast and membership club early this year, to support individuals and organisations worldwide to truly change and flourish, and help others to do the same.
This message can be found at the very end of this episode, along with the simple and powerful process he kindly gifted Helen and her listeners. The process involves our raising our hands with the palms facing outwards and later, shifting both hands to partially facing each other. This interview was conducted over Zoom video which will be included in the youtube video version of this podcast to be launched later on.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
"When a man can understand a woman, who he doesn't understand and now he understands her better, he becomes more whole. When a woman can accept and appreciate a man for things that she maybe doesn't appreciate before, she becomes more whole.'
'Another form of help that you (Helen) have mentioned that is missing in the world today which could be a major crux of the problem allows us to go in the wrong direction, is lack of spiritual intelligence.'
'Spiritual intelligence says to a woman, "I am not alone." That's the biggest oestrogen producer in the world. Spiritual awareness in a man increases testosterone because he feels "I have to be a good person to be loved by God"....It is the ultimate coach, it is a belief that there is a higher power that knows more than you and will reward you when you do good.'
'I am a spiritual teacher as well but I teach through love.'
"What I need is different to what she needs"
"If you don't have emotional intelligence then when your partner upsets you, you think they have to change. No, you have to change your emotions then your partner will change [their behaviour]."
So there is gender intelligence in my book. Most people change overnight sometimes with my books because it’s just a correction of “Oh, I didn’t realise what was most important to her” and she goes “Oh I didn’t realise. I thought I was doing something to make him feel better and it was actually making him feel worse. I misunderstood his behaviour. He’s just in his cave, it’s not that he’s mad at me.”’
‘So you have to know what you’re attracted to and why you’re attracted to it. Don’t even think about having sex with a man until you can be naked mentally and emotionally. Then you can become naked physically, otherwise it’s an inappropriate desire.’
‘That’s the female side of everybody that says “Hey, do this for me“. The male side of us says “hey, I’m gonna do this for you.” And women have a male and female side. The female is weak today. For men, the male is weak today.’
‘God’s there. The divine is there. In Christian terms that’s the Holy Spirit now filling us up. Coming through the fingertips. It’s just like a switch, an antennae to pull the energy in.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
Dr John Gray, the internationally famous American relationship expert is best known for his book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. Host Helen Lee is both delighted and most appreciative to be able to share the invaluable content he generously provided during a 1.5hr interview on his truths that would help people transform and thrive today.
Especially as John is someone who has repeatedly appeared on Oprah, The Dr Oz Show, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America and many other US programs. And Barbara Walters also hosted a 3hr special with him. He certainly shared a substantial amount of knowledge and wisdom during his conversation with Helen on spiritual, emotional, gender and relationship intelligence.
He has also been featured in Time, Forbes USA Today and People. In fact, USA Today even listed his book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus as one of the top ten most influential books of the last quarter of a century. In hardcover, it was the #1 best-selling book of the 1990’s. Translated into about 45 languages in more than 100 countries, John’s book amazingly continues to be a best seller till today, with more than 15 million copies sold to date!
Furthermore, John has written more than 20 books in the meantime and the most recent is Beyond Mars & Venus: Relationship Skills for Our Complex Modern World.
The most useful message that Helen thinks John shared in this conversation with her is that the more we change at this time, "the more we will suffer less”, as there will be great suffering in the years ahead. This is precisely why Helen created “Transform & Thrive”both as a podcast and membership club early this year, to support individuals and organisations worldwide to truly change and flourish, and help others to do the same.
This message was at the very end of the interview which you will find in Episode 21 This interview was divided into two episodes), along with the simple and powerful process he kindly gifted Helen and her listeners. This will be out next Monday, April 25th. Meanwhile, check out the great wealth of knowledge and wisdom John Gray pours out, right from the beginning in this episode.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘Whenever you’re in pain, when anybody is in pain, their thinking is in the wrong direction. And that’s what’s going on in the world, their thinking is in the wrong direction. So people are experiencing more pain and more addiction to avoid their pain.’
'Fulfilment of desire is always temporary but the journey of having a desire, the process of getting what you want without doubting yourself and doubting the process and demanding that you have that thing right now, otherwise you can't be happy, that's something we have control over.'
'We all come from trauma, there is no question about it. Even if you came from what was normal in the past, it would be traumatic today because we have so much more wisdom. We deserve so much more, we know that."
‘I grew up in Houston, Texas and Texas was pretty much like the rest of the country, just maybe a little bit more tough. And six boys, we were unruly, mom's going to say “I’m going to tell your dad” and we would stop because if we didn’t stop or we did something to bother her, not cooperative, not supportive, "I'm going to tell your father" and father would come home and say bend over and took out his belt, and you’d get whipped. That was normal.'
‘I know the darker it gets the deeper it goes and the more ecstasy I’ll feel later. After my wife’s death, it’s four years now and it’s still there. I go for a walk to the forest to a little waterfall and the trees are so tall and I go into a heightened state of ecstasy and meditation.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
Host Helen Lee feels very strongly about our focussing on co-creating the world we want to live in, rather than the current reality. If we want a world of Peace & Plenty, Joy & Freedom for All, not only all human beings but all living things, then that's what we need to focus on. We need to be aware of all that is happening around us but not get too caught up in the darkness and chaos that is part of the necessary dismantling of all that is part of the Old and belongs to the past.
In earlier episodes, she has talked about the Sixth Golden Age that has been said will occur in 2032. All the signs have been there for many who can tune in energetically that this is true, and so is the prediction of the great awakening of humanity, which she has also talked about in various episodes (in detail). It is therefore logical that for all this to transpire, everything that is outmoded within ourselves and the whole world has to go. This means there will be challenges ahead as we get upgraded - systems within our human bodies at all levels (physical, emotional, mental, energetic and spiritual) and without worldwide (government, finance, business, culture, etc).
Hence, we need to take extreme care of ourselves at all levels and be our most powerful and wisest self, our Greatest Self that has to be far greater than the human self we have primarily identified with and operated from for centuries. Hence, her podcast including this episode is devoted towards supporting everyone (individuals and organisations) to transform as greatly as they are willing to and thrive more and more - together.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘I have explained at length in various episodes what I mean by this “higher power”, or “universal power”. It is present within all of us, in all living things in fact. It is the essence of who we are, of all living things and even all situations involving that which is alive and therefore carries this very same essence.’
‘We are merely surrendering to ourselves. To the highest aspects of who we all are. Unless you are someone who fervently believes that God or a particular master is not only outside of you but also separate from you. If that is an intrinsic part of your belief system and serves you very well, please keep that.’
‘What does letting go look like? If you hold on very tightly, for dear life, to an object, any object, with both your hands, for instance, you are going to get very tired and stressed out after a while.’
‘I have been facilitating great shifts in this manner for almost ten years. After a year of gruelling challenges which I have described as being like direct training by Spirit, not all incredible mystical experiences are filled with light, I had one that had golden light emerge from me to fill up my entire bedroom 22 years ago.’
‘We can’t make a small child come to us just because we want to do something good for the child. Likewise, we let the small “s” come to the big “S” and the biggest “S” within ourselves by educating and gaining trust by loving and appreciating, understanding and encouraging.’
‘I recently came across something posted by a Chinese Qigong master who lives in the US. It said “All energy is vibration. Every cell in your body, every thought in your mind, every feeling you have, every action you choose to take is vibrating at a certain frequency. And you can change the vibration.”
'We are most definitely going through a time that calls for a great deal of courage, tenacity and clarity to remain clear, strong and unwavering.'
‘Where there is harmony, sharing and caring. Cooperating and working with Nature, creativity, and love. A totally different world where there is nothing to kill or die for.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
[email protected]
Host Helen Lee speaks with author, educator and business innovator Sarah McCrum, whom she interviewed and featured in Episode 12 on “Money & Our Relationship with Money”. In this episode, Helen discusses with Sarah about the energy of 2022, the challenges and opportunities it offers. She also confirms with Sarah - as per her insights - that the money system will still continue to shift such that order will be created from the chaos it’s currently in, in spite of the war in Ukraine and the economic sanctions on Russia, and the ensuing global price hikes.
A large part of this second conversation with Sarah is devoted to the subject of liberating humanity. Sarah speaks about “seeing the essence” as one of the keys of freeing people. To Helen, this is essentially about humanity being our Observer Selves, where we can then shift from the fear that our human selves inherently hold to the great Love that our higher Observer Selves comprise.
This Love is the Creative Power that Helen often speaks of in her various podcast episodes. Helen also always refers to this Love as the all-powerful "Invincible Love" that is very different from human love.
Sarah is relaunching her book “Love Money, Money Loves You”. You can download the first 4 chapters here:
https://helenlee--sarah mccrum.thrivecart.com/thank-you-money/620e07c5fa761/
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘I think it's important to talk a little bit about the energy of this year, that’s what I was responding to. I made a video about it just after the Chinese New Year because I trained for a long time with Chinese masters so I tend to be tuned into the Chinese years.’ – Sarah
‘She decided not to panic. And she decided simply to see the essence of the water. It was quite beautiful how she described it. It's like she saw literally into the essence of this water that was raging down the river and was probably most likely to break the levee, and it was like the water softened in some way.’ – Sarah
‘Actually we have this power all along. It's just that it's coming to the fore now where we can do it en masse.’ – Helen
‘It’s a genuinely different rhythm of action. Each year has its own energy and so what’s the rhythm? What’s the natural pattern of this year which might be different, was very different from last year.’ – Sarah
‘This year, there is a far greater potential, far greater opportunity. For me, the solution (to the many challenges) is stepping into and merging with Soul and Soul tells us what to do, us, as in the human self.’ – Helen
'People who are free are the most committed, most disciplined, most purposeful, most creative, most active people on the planet. So that's a beautiful kind of freedom. And that's the opportunity and the invitation.' - Sarah
‘I’m seeing the energy that’s behind that business and this kind of movement towards a better economic system. I'm seeing that rise as fast as it looks like it's very messy, I’m seeing this other energy rise.’ – Sarah
‘I have a great trust in the entire process...the universal process. I feel that everything is being divinely orchestrated and that there is a method to this seeming madness and that we are taken care of, actually. I think, however, enough of us have to take personal responsibility’, we have to step up and that is what will make the difference. That is what will allow the grace to come. That's what will speed up the process and make it gentler for all of us.' – Helen
‘I think sometimes we shy away from responsibility. I have also felt the same thing I felt sometimes “this is too big for me I can’t do this, I just want to run away.” But I notice when we actually step towards it, it gets more and more fun and more and more fulfilling in the moment.’ - Sarah
'I know I would enjoy being able to support people to also embrace this idea of being on this path and contributing to co-creating this whole new world by being our Greatest Self.' - Helen
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
This particular episode is dedicated towards supporting you to find a way of feeling good, no matter what is happening around you. Greatness lies within all of us. Access it by moving into a state of inner coherence where head and heart are in alignment and you are able to spontaneously and naturally demonstrate unconflicted behaviour.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘Today I would add that because we all carry so much density which was necessary to be here on Earth and as the vibrations of our planet have been raised since 2012 and are still rising we need to now raise our own frequencies as well.’
‘And with the urgency of all that is occurring all around us and the levels of anxiety and fear going up, I would highly recommend merging with the Soul and Higher Consciousness, the Light and perfection of who we (all) already are but don’t know how to systematically access and be.’
‘We need to keep course correcting, with zero judgment of ourselves and tons of self compassion and encouragement instead.’
‘There is an urgency now for all of us to consciously begin this process, but by the same token, do so from a place of great love and respect for yourself.’
‘It shows up in the violence we perpetrate on others. From mild to severe abuse and killings and war, when we rob others of their freedom in some shape or form, to some extent or other and in ways that are unjust and unkind or mean and even cruel at times.’
‘Learn to take life and challenges one day at a time, one step at a time. Just put one foot in front of the other, it takes the worry and burden from your mind and the stress from your entire being.’
‘Many hearts come together and create one feeling. It can change the world and you will see just how much. But it is only a miracle until we understand the science. Then, it is no longer a miracle, it becomes a technology.’
‘The U.S. Air Force used better equipment to replicate this great experiment and this time, the results were published in the scientific journal called “Nature”, when they found undeniable proof of its existence. Yet these findings and powerful knowledge never made the headlines of every media publication, as they should have, and they were never incorporated in Western science (till more recent years) and (widely) made use of by the public anywhere in the world.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss [email protected]
Host Helen Lee speaks with relationship expert, "leading personality in the personal growth and spiritual consciousness movement" and author of 11 books, Arielle Ford about our human need to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly. Arielle even goes so far to say that we are here on Earth to learn how to do this. And Helen totally agrees and talks about embracing the imperfection of our human self from the perfection of who we really are, the highest aspects of who we are, which she is advocating as a solution for these times of great uncertainty. She says that this is necessary not only for couples but all relationships, both personal and professional.
With all that has been happening in the last couple of years - including the pandemic and now, the war in Ukraine - people are more stressed and anxious, and all the more, we need to bring greater love and understanding, caring and consideration, acceptance and kindness to all interactions and relationships, while firmly drawing and keeping healthy boundaries at the same time.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘The whole idea of perfection is just a big fat lie, it’s just a myth. None of us is perfect, you know you’re not perfect, I know I’m not perfect, and yet we are constantly striving for perfection in ourselves, in our bodies, in our kids, in our careers, and everybody around us, which leaves us in a state of upset, anger and disappointment because we can’t get to this thing that doesn’t exist called perfection.’ - Arielle
‘We have to learn to communicate with kindness and with empathy and with compassion instead of screaming, yelling, bitching, moaning and complaining.’ - Arielle
‘It’s like keeping a covenant, a commitment, a great bond, right?’ – Helen
‘I tell people right now I believe we are in the middle of a 7.5 billion person nervous breakdown. We’re all anxious. Even if you’re somebody who is normally very chill and you’re not high anxiety, the fact that we co-exist in the unified field together (means) that you may not be a nervous wreck, but because pretty much everybody (around you) is, you are reacting and vibrating at the frequency of crazy.’ – Arielle
'The main thing that I am advocating for the whole world is to merge our human self with the highest aspects of who we are. We already have the perfection within us. To me, it's a matter of loving and embracing the human self exactly as we are and merging it with the Soul and the Spirit that we are as well'and which we have not focused on.' - Helen
‘What would you give to trip over a wet towel when they’re no longer with you?’ – Arielle
‘About merging with soul and the highest aspects of who we are. When this really happens it's not only that you can come easily from a place of certainty from within yourself, you also more effortlessly move into ease and grace.’ - Helen
‘What’s true is that the blood that runs through the Russians is the same blood that runs through the Ukrainians, it’s the same blood that runs through you and me.’ – Arielle
'You don't need any tools, once you have merged (with the highest aspects of who you are), that's your go to, it's your support, it's your leader, it's your own inner coach, it's everything, it's your rock, it's your source of Higher Intelligence or wisdom, of comfort, of joy, of playfulness, everything really.'
ABOUT THE GUEST
Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 30 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a celebrated love and relationship expert, author, and speaker.
Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of eleven books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She has also written many groundbreaking books including Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate: A Practical Guide To Happily Ever After and Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships.
www.soulmatesecret.com
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
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In spite of the conflict playing out in Ukraine, Host Helen Lee says that we are still moving towards the great awakening of humanity to a much higher level of consciousness which unites us. She explains that what we are seeing is merely the visible world and the prediction made through scientific, spiritual and cultural means remain absolute. Our collective lower vibrational programs and emotions effect the balance of our world causing conflict, yet there are still people in greater and greater numbers reaching for the higher aspects of themselves to take charge. And all the various crises we are facing and those that have yet to show up will force us to transform, firstly for our own wellbeing and survival, and then, our thriving.
We need to be strong, clear and well at all levels, as Helen already spelt out in earlier episodes at the very beginning of this year. And to do that, she sincerely and resolutely feels that the most practical and powerful way in these increasingly challenging and uncertain times, is to merge our human selves with the highest aspects of who we all are - our Soul and Spirit or Consciousness.
She offers what she calls a sure-fire solution she has successfully used with thousands of individuals worldwide and multinationals in Asia Pacific. You can check out: www.transformandthrive.club and be personally coached by her in live Zoom group sessions as well as receive multimedia coaching every month, if you are a member. She specially reduced her fees to a mere fraction of her usual charges to support people globally at this time - to transform and thrive as much and quickly as they are ready for.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘The inner conflict that people still carry means that their behaviour is also conflicted. They have not, as yet, come to a place within themselves where they are very clear and very strong as we are all being propelled and compelled to be from this year onwards.’
‘We would all be free, flourishing and enjoying an abundant life on a planet where there is peace and plenty for all. Not only all humans but all that live and breathe.’
‘I have been speaking about, and teaching this for decades now, and created this podcast to share the knowledge with a wider audience because the time is right. People are more ready to hear this and to explore or even embrace and embody it.’
‘A useful but sometimes painful gift I have is feeling all energies. I just felt a sharp stab in my back, at the back of my heart centre, from someone who wrote about peace. It’s useful because I know where people are really at. I also feel viral energies on my skin. When I first realised what they actually were I learnt to recognise them and a variety of ways to clear them including taking large doses of a silver solution when they first show up to kill the virus.’
'But if a virus is meant to support you (yes, they actually can do that), to help us to shift, you will get it repeatedly. It gets us to slow down and an energetic upgrade is possible when this happens. And there are many upgrades planned for us at this time.'
‘We are all equally responsible for conflicts that show up in other parts of the world because we are all adding to this energy every day. More on some days than other days. Imagine all that energy collectively showing up in another country and we have war in our midst.’
'So, if we truly want peace, let it begin with us, inside us. If we want to move towards abundance, let us realise we are Abundance itself. If we want to move towards Unity Consciousness, let us come into union within ourselves. This means consciously creating greater balance and harmony within ourselves.'
‘After lifetime upon lifetime, century upon century of humanity experiencing so much pain and struggle, darkness and despair, slaughter, plunder and rape, greed, lies and deceit, disempowerment and subjugation, all of which is relived through books and movies and in our own life in a small way, or to a great extent or somewhere in between.’
‘You get to pick what resonates with you, what your Soul is here to do. Don’t choose, however, from your mind that comes from lack and limitation, but from the highest aspects of who you are.’
‘Since 2013 I’ve also been facilitating for others to directly experience their own Souls and the Pure Consciousness, or great Vastness that they, we all are. That’s nine years now, almost ten. However, people can experience these super high levels of themselves and the perfection of who they really are, and still return to mainly identifying with and functioning from their human self.’
‘The journey I will take you on, with your permission, is to support you to increasingly shift into being, actually being your Greatest Self. You can experience being that immediately, but you will need time to integrate with your Greatest Self.’
‘Just because it is time, and the entire Universe and all of Heaven really want to support you too. I'm a veteran at this and will expertly, powerfully, lovingly do so. Come join our powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls each month or if you prefer, have one-on-one sessions with me so you can live a life of great freedom and joy, peace and plenty.’
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching, check out and sign up here:
www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
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Host Helen Lee speaks with Neil Jacobs, CEO of Six Senses: Luxury Resorts, Hotels and Spas, who has been in the super high-end resorts and hotel industry for 40 years and now talks about a potential future of "democratising wellness" and bringing it to the people. As well as engaging in sustainability in a way that is meaningful, after further incorporating it as a culture for Six Senses which has been doing so for the last 3 decades.
Among other things, Helen and Neil also discuss the idea of deliberately adopting love in business; and offering emotional hospitality to guests worldwide i.e. successfully combining commercialism with consciousness. Under Neil's leadership, Six Senses was also invited to be part of the Harvard Medical School's advisory board on "Environmental Wellness" some years ago, having made enough of an impact in the field of wellness worldwide in the last 10 years.
Neil was also President of Starwood Capital Group and Senior Vice President Operations Asia Pacific for Four Seasons which constituted some 40% of the prestigious group at the time of much expansion then. He is still busy opening properties - this time for Six Senses, in spite of the pandemic, always with a focus on sustainability, wellness and human connection, and in sync with nature and all that is natural.
In addition, Helen and Neil discuss the impact of the pandemic on the tourism industry, humanity in general and how people cope.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘When Covid hit it was kind of a shock to the system and everybody was saying to me “Oh, you must be going crazy, you’re not out there”. But actually, it was for me personally a very special time. It allowed me to regain control of my life and improve my health and do many of the things both physically and spiritually that perhaps I’d been away from for too long.’ - Neil
‘It was quite remarkable to notice in New York how it had slowed down, and how much nicer and more considerate people were to each other. I think that’s a global thing, I think that’s kind of a global phenomenon, that people just manage to get in touch with their humanity, empathy and compassion which fundamentally exist in all of us.’ – Neil
‘Wonderful to hear that from you, someone who has travelled all over the world pretty much all of the time, right? So it's not only a reset that you experience for yourself but also, do you see it as a reset for all of humanity?’ – Helen
‘We can touch people's hearts. We call it emotional hospitality. We never talk about Asian hospitality although we grew up in Asia. It’s about how we call our employees hosts, how they are able to connect every single day with our guests on, perhaps, a deeper level than is often the case in hospitality.’ – Neil
‘Every property has a fire ritual. Fire is special in most cultures. It talks to so many different things ; ‘out with old, in with the new’ and it can be very touching.’ – Neil
‘To find a solution that can’t be exactly the same but makes wellness, perhaps to a lesser extent sustainability because everyone can engage in that, more accessible to a wider group of consumers is forefront in my mind. As to how to do that, do we create another brand? There’s lots of ways to go about it.’ – Neil
‘What about your expertise and experience in consciously creating cultures? That’s an asset and expertise you can lend lots of people all over the world, right? Either within the tourism industry or beyond. What would you do with that?’ – Helen
'It also needs thought leaders and that's where you fit.' - Neil to Helen
‘Meditation can also lead nowhere for some. To me, it's not just about sitting down and going inward. Going inward to what end? Again, it has to be intentional. The simple, so-called strategy, is to be in alignment with the highest aspects of who we are, to tap into what’s already there that we are not utilising. It's a very practical thing.' – Helen
ABOUT THE GUEST
Neil Jacobs has been in the super high-end hotel industry for the last 40 years and is still going strong, busy opening beautiful hotels, resorts and spas for Six Senses Group which he has been CEO of, for the last ten years.
He was previously President of Starwood Capital Group as well as Senior Vice President Operations Asia Pacific for Four Seasons, which was then about 40% of Four Seasons.
ABOUT THE HOST HELEN LEE
Founder & Principal Coach of Lee Heiss Coaching, Helen Lee coached thousands of clients worldwide and multinationals in Asia-Pacific in the last three decades. She created a powerful ontological coaching methodology that ignites the true greatness or invincibility in people. Thoroughly tested and honed over 20 years, this methodology consistently and rapidly produces desired results.
Helen was also a journalist who later ran her own communications consultancies in Australia and Asia.The Business Times listed her in its “Who’s Who of Women Shaping Singapore” while The Straits Times named her “The Leader Prodder” in a feature on Singapore’s top coaches.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To become a member of the Transform and Thrive Club and benefit from monthly powerful live sessions on Zoom video calls and multimedia coaching: www.transformandthrive.club
CONTACT METHOD
www.leeheiss.com
www.facebook.com/leeheiss
www.facebook.com/transformingpeopleworldwide
www.instagram.com/helenleeheiss
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