How are you in your relationships? Sometimes we lose ourselves or forget our dreams as we invest in a life with ourselves and another person. Society projects this "perfect" life on us that involves marriage and children and simply no other way, than that. You got it, in order to be "happy" and "successful" in life you must get married and have children. YUP. We've all heard it before and probably still do. But why can't we just be happy with ourselves? As an individual. Why does marriage get pushed on us as the only way to define happiness vs someone who is single, thriving, and bad ass will get viewed as unhappy. Or even worse get asked, "omg why aren't you married yet?!"