When I asked a new member of the Triggerproof Community what she wanted help with, she said:

"I want to know how to break my pattern of attracting abusive men."

At first, I didn't want to do this video.

After all, we talk about relationships a lot in this community. 

And most people in their 30's and 40's will have a list of toxic relationship stories they're still haunted by and not even aware. 

And when I share the path to HEALING, many who are still feeling hurt from a past relationship get extremely triggered and start attacking me and calling me a "victim blamer."

If you are against taking responsibility to heal-- then you are best to avoid watching this.

I'm about to share exactly how to dismantle this pattern by first understanding 3 Major Blind Spots that allow abusive relationships to Thrive.

Imagine having a job where you help people through this shit every day.

That's exactly what we do here, and we found the solution.

Without learning this, you will find yourself with the same person again and again-- leaving one relationship after another-- with the same experience.

Watch this if you want to learn how to break the pattern.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

"Why can't I let go of these thoughts?"
"Why can't I ask for what I need in a relationship?  Why do I keep pleasing?"
"Why can't I let go of Toxic Patterns?"
"How can I love a daughter who's a Narcissist behaving in horrible ways?"
I asked you to share some questions in this community--- I am going to sum all of this up on todays TriggerProof Transmission.
By not owning this--we end up feeling like a victim to life. 
Mastering this one thing has us Creating the life and relationship experience exactly how we want.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

No one needs to tell you what needs to be done.

Your Rational mind "knows":
- That person is no good for you
- You have to make a decision sometime
- You need to "let go" of something.

But there's something stopping you that you are unaware of.

Without crossing this one specific barrier, we are forever repeating our stuck patterns in our relationships. Our triggers run our lives and stop us from creating the life we desire.

On this training I guide you on where to look and what to do to get what you want.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

WHY THERE ARE SO MANY NARCISSISTS
The answer might trigger you.
On today's transmission I take the time to answer some of your concerns from a recent fb thread:
- let go of blame and resentment
- How to handle a partner who can’t communicate and who shuts down
- Why Narcissism occurs
- Why you can’t find a meaningful relationship
- Coping with being Raised by a Narcissist
- Fear of abandonment
- Accepting the past
- My son is my biggest trigger
- How to heal the Inner Child and learn to use your voice
- Shutting down the inner Critic
What was the most relevant for you?

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

Meet Dominic. He taught me something profound.
It will make a difference for you too.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

Can't get your ex off your mind?

You might KNOW they weren't good for you, but if you haven't resolved the open loops in that previous relationship, it makes a healthy relationship in the "now" virtually impossible.

On today's transmission, I share what it is you need to do to actually move on so you can create the foundation for a new solid connection.

Without these 2 steps, a new healthy attachment is not possible as you're bringing in unresolved baggage.
On this video I show you what you need to do to fully get over someone.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

Just had a question from someone in the Triggerproof Facebook group that was so good I had to make a video. Please remember all you need to do is ask me a question and you might just get a video response. I'm here for you!
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"Nima--- I have watched your video on having a critical mother, which I was raised with. A screamer. Very subjective. Extremely volatile.
I’m now seeing these patterns in how I’ve managed the relationships with my children. So volatile and only now learning to respond instead of react.
My question is. How do I help my kids heal? How do I actually end generational trauma with my boys because I’m seeing it already manifest with sleep issues, eating issues, headaches, mood disorders.
I know it’s from when they were young and the horrible things they went through due to watching my husband and I fight (his addiction issues and my victimhood). The financial turmoils. My apathy at times and escaping through work or friendships to soothe my pain. I was an absent mother. Still am in some ways.
I would love your thoughts."

Here are 5 things to do that I guarantee will help them. 4 of them are easy-- the 5th one you will avoid and not want to do and make excuses.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

Most of the time we hear about toxic and co-dependent relationships and the horror stories surrounding them.

It’s not often you hear about what a Secure Attachment feels like.

How can we create it if we don't know what that actually feels like and have had zero guidance on this?

In today’s transmission, I share what we can aim for as we climb up the mountain towards creating and maintaining secure relationships, and the traits that are common in those we see who went from Insecure connections to healthy and secure. Not learning these foundations has us repeating our past over and over again.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

In today's Triggerproof Transmission I answer some specific questions from community members:-

-How do I reconnect with my pregnant fiance? We are disconnected.
- What can I do when I've triggered someone and brought up past wounds?
- When is a relationship worth saving?
- How Can I stop feeling guilty? Prepare for some tough love here with these questions, apologies in advance-
- I'm not in the mood to pussyfoot around.

In order to watch the Training on "Chronic Pain and Emotions", follow the link below: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqRoTFGy1xA

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.

Question from A member in this community:
"In the eagerness to fix-help other people with their issues, does this cause one to absorb their stuff?
I know probably unworthiness, guilt, perfectionist, abandonment- Emptiness leads to try to help others, I maybe wrong. I just wonder an an empath fits into this?"
In today's transmission I will trigger the F*** out of you if you're an empath and share some uncomfortable truths to face.

Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships

Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.

Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)

Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:

Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.