Triggered AF

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  • S3 EP17: Reparenting While Parenting

    Expect chills when listening to this episode with sociologist, author, strategist, and changemaker, Dr. Janice Johnson Dias. Speaking about intentional parenting in a world not built intentionally for your child, Dr. Janice discusses the detriment of colorblind parenting and how to create an environment for children to thrive using adversity as a tool. Tune in as she shares how majority culture has framed parenting and explains why if you want a great kid, you're going to have to be a great human first.

    KEY POINTS:

    - Who is Dr. Janice Johnson Dias, according to her?

    - What is parenting and its universal understandings?

    - The top three foundational principles to instill in our children

    - Why "do as I say not as I do" parenting is a thing of the past

    - Utilizing age-appropriate honesty

    - Are there dangers in oversharing with your children?

    - Raising black children in white spaces

    - How parenting is framed by structural conditions

    QUOTABLES:

    "We must recognize that parenting is a reflection of ourselves and that we must first attend to things about ourselves if we are going to be modestly successful in parenting. Parenting is about the child, yes, but it's far more about us."

    GUEST RESOURCES:

    Learn more about Dr. Janice Johnson Dias at thedrjanice.com

    IG | instagram.com/drjanicejohnson

    Grassrootscommunityfoundation.org

    Get your copy of Parent Like It Matters: How to Raise Joyful, Change-Making Girls on Amazon and where all books are sold!

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    Alechia Reese | instagram.com/alechiareese/

    Dani Foster | instagram.com/missdanifoster/

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    1 hr 31 min
  • S3 EP16: Villainous Victims

    A lot of us like to point the finger and say that everybody else is the problem, but we very rarely talk about when we're toxic and when we're the villain in someone else's story. So how can we better paint the whole picture, have those uncomfortable conversations, and show up in a way that does not hurt the ones we love?

    Tune in as Alechia and Dani share their own less than favorable traits and how to work through villain to victim to powerhouse who shows up in the world with truly good intentions.

    KEY POINTS:

    - Nobody wants to be the villain - so where are they?

    - What are your toxic traits?

    - How to exercise the apology muscle

    - When did we forget grace and compassion?

    - The value of remembering when you were the villain

    - Choosing the right thing, even when it's uncomfortable

    - Who do you want to be? How do you want to show up?

    QUOTABLES:

    "Victims sometimes forget when they were the villain."

    "Understand to every action there's an equal and opposite reaction. Whether you're being a villain or not a villain, you're being a safe place or an unsafe place, it goes back to the decisions that you make about how do you want to feel? And then how do you want others to feel when you walk out of a room?"

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    1 hr 17 min
  • S3 EP15: Manifesting Your Vision

    Your Triggered AF hosts welcome one of their favorite creators and woman who boldly lives out loud, Melissa Mitchell. An entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker, Melissa is a master manifesting artist who believes fiercely in authenticity, honoring the season you're in, and gratitude as the greatest downpayment for your future.

    Tune in as she drops some serious gems and gives you the permission to dream and receive. You are, as she says, just "one away".

    KEY POINTS:

    - "When I show up as myself, that's my entry fee"

    - What is the art of allowing?

    - Remaining focused on the destination but open to the route

    - Why it's not about being good, it's about being in alignment

    - Treat everything as it's the next biggest thing

    - The value of being a constant student of life

    - How you're one away from whatever it is you're waiting on

    QUOTABLES:

    "I just think being me, once I decided that was enough, it became the entry fee to a lot of things."

    "If you're really hungry for something, you'll show up like it is the best opportunity every single time."

    "When you're on the right path of gratitude, you become a magnet for more."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Learn more about Melissa Mitchell and her art at melissaamitchell.com

    IG | @abeillecreations

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    1 hr 7 min
  • S3 EP14: But Are You Satisfied

    It's a long and juicy one as your Triggered AF hosts welcome erotic educator, sex goddess, and Organic Loven founder Taylor Sparks. As an advocate for women finding their voices in the bedroom, speaking out, and owning their sexuality, tune in as she discusses everything sex. From mutual masturbation to getting out of your head during sex to epigenetic's role in your sexual preferences, tune in as Taylor Sparks asks you, are you satisfied?

    KEY POINTS:

    - Are you having orgasms?

    - Use your words - get curious and ask questions, even with yourself

    - Nature, nurture, and epigenetics when it comes to sex

    - Why masturbation is important

    - How can couples improve their communication around sex?

    - Intimacy does not have to be sexual

    - Is sexual health and overall wellness interrelated?

    - The benefit of organic intimate body products

    QUOTABLES:

    "Pleasure is the requirement. Orgasm is the end of the pleasure."

    "Sex is just sex, and it's okay for it to just be sex."

    "This is where sometimes people get things misconstrued because even in schools today, young adults, teenagers, they're taught about sex, but not about pleasure. That whole concept is left out."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Learn more about Taylor Sparks and the thousands of organic intimate products at organicloven.com

    Use coupon code TAF15 for 15% off anything at Organic Loven online!

    (excluding vacations and subscription boxes)

    PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    1 hr 43 min
  • S3 EP13: Me vs. Every Me

    Change is difficult, and we all know that letting go of what no longer serves us is no exception. But abundance requires you to say no to mediocrity, and in this episode, well-being advocate and affirmations artist Toni Jones urges you to stop believing that rejection, unworthiness, and insecurity are your home or a normal part of your life. Listen in as she guides you to feel it, integrate it, transcend it, and start loving every version of yourself.

    Join the conversation as Triggered AF and Toni Jones spearhead the awakened woman into the mainstream and ask you, "How do you want your life to feel"?

    KEY POINTS:

    - The difficulty in letting go of mediocrity

    - Healing is messy!

    - Love yourself the way God loves you - at every version of yourself

    - What would God do?

    - How Toni is living 1000 deaths

    - Why everything is a casualty when it comes to peace of mind

    - Learning to seek less and allow more

    - We're all the chosen ones. You just have to choose it.

    QUOTABLES:

    "I don't have to do all these routines and self-care rituals for the sun to come up. This nature and God just loves me as is so how about I match that same energy."

    "You can no longer believe that rejection, abandonment, unworthiness, and insecurity is your home, it's a norm like it's a part of your life. it's no longer that. You have to feel it to integrate it to transcend it."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Find Toni Jones' affirmation music on ITunes, Amazon, Spotify, and all major streaming platforms!

    Follow her on social media!

    IG | @iamtonijones

    FB | @IAMtonijonesIAM

    Twitter | IamToniJonesIam

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    Alechia Reese | instagram.com/alechiareese/

    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    1 hr 7 min
  • S3 EP12: The Glory of the Story

    Many believe that entrepreneurship is all glory, seeing the glitter and glamour of it all on social media. What many don't see though, as Rakia Reynolds puts it, is the deep, intentional, and often challenging story behind all of that glory.

    Tune in as your Triggered AF hosts welcome powerhouse and founder of Skai Blue Media, Rakia Reynolds, to discuss entrepreneurship, eliminating the external noise, and the many hats she wears as an educator, leader, and mentor. Listen in and learn how to tap into your creativity, build your legacy, and cultivate your life to have it all!

    KEY POINTS:

    - Who is Rakia Reynolds?

    - No comparisons - you have your own unique path to glory

    - How you can have it all, without doing it all

    - What is your vision statement?

    - The key to pushing past perceived limitations

    - Tap into your creativity!

    QUOTABLES:

    "I would hashtag "story behind the glory" because a lot of folks believe that entrepreneurship is all of this glory, but you don't really know the story. And it's tough."

    "Where do you want to go, where do you want to be, and what does it look like physically, mentally, physiologically? What is that feeling? Do you feel it in your heart? Do you feel it in your stomach? Do you feel it in your arms and in your hands? That's where we should be leaning into."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Follow Rakia Reynolds ongoing story on social media!

    IG | @rekiareynolds - instagram.com/rakiareynolds

    Twitter | @rekiareynolds - twitter.com/RakiaReynolds

    FB | facebook.com/RakiaReynolds

    Linkedin | linkedin.com/in/rakia-reynolds-24a2871a

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    Alechia Reese | instagram.com/alechiareese/

    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    40 min
  • S3 EP11: Owning Every Stage

    Artist development and performance expert KJ Rose sits down with Alechia and Dani to share her journey from pharmaceuticals to vocalist to working with Grammy Award-winning artists! Listen in as she exposes her personal process and urges you to find your tribe and where your unique spirit is served.

    "Don't lose twice" and tune in for KJ Rose's tips to own every stage, meeting, or boardroom.

    KEY POINTS:

    - Go where you're celebrated, not tolerated

    - Is it confidence or arrogance?

    - "They don't know, what they don't know"

    - How to overcome stage fright

    - KJ's professional pivots

    - Surrendering and staying grounded

    - Lessons from "The Rose Effect"

    QUOTABLES:

    "I've heard, you doing too much. Then it took me a while to discover that I was just in the wrong place because that same too much was just enough for the next person."

    "Confidence, I always say, is a choice every day to activate the best parts of yourself."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Find "The Rose Effect: Eight Steps to Delivering the Performance of Your Life" on Amazon and where all books are sold.

    Learn more about KJ Rose and her work at ​​roseeffect.com

    IG | @kjroseeffect - instagram.com/kjroseeffect

    Twitter | @kjrosemusic - twitter.com/kjrosemusic

    FB | facebook.com/KJ-Rose-43658661450

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    1 hr 19 min
  • S3 EP10: The Beauty in Seeing Yourself

    With so much conversation around physical appearance, beauty standards, and the effects of social media on image, Triggered AF welcomes beauty influencer and force to be reckoned with, Yuliya Lee.

    Tune in as Yuliya and your hosts discuss the pressure to look perfect, when they felt the most and the least beautiful, and why beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. As Yuliya explains, if your inside doesn't feel beautiful, worthy, or confident, no matter how many times you go under the knife or make changes, it's not going to change how you feel.

    Don't miss this sincere dialogue on the truth behind beauty, influencers, and what we can do to stop the perpetuation of unrealistic, unattainable, and downright bizarre beauty standards flooding social media today. #filterfree

    KEY POINTS:

    - How do you define beauty?

    - Why you must go all-in!

    - Follow trends in your own unique way

    - Social media's standard of beauty

    - When do you feel your most and least beautiful?

    - The "pretty privilege" and pedestal

    - What does it really take to be an influencer?

    QUOTABLES:

    "Perfection is such an individual thing. So I honestly never tried to be perfect. Maybe that's the key point. I was trying to be true to myself, and do what I feel is right in my own way."

    "I've seen so many beautiful women who are empty. So beautiful physically, but they're so empty and it's so sad."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Stay connected with Yuliya Lee at:

    IG | @asianqueen1 - instagram.com/asianqueen1

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    59 min
  • S3 EP9: It Goes Down in the DM

    We've all been there: single, scrolling through social media, pausing on someone attractive, and hesitating to reach out to avoid looking thirsty. Or creating profiles on dating apps to only delete them a week later. With so many misconceptions around online dating, your Triggered AF hosts welcome entrepreneur, inventor, light-worker, and overall powerhouse, Dawn Dickson-Akpoghene, to discuss finding love online and what it looks like to be a powerful woman in a relationship.

    Don't miss this empowering conversation on the do's and don'ts of online dating, converting an online connection offline, and why it's okay to step into the version of yourself that attracts the things you want on your own terms.

    KEY POINTS:

    - Do you follow the G-code?

    - It's not about balance, it's about prioritization

    - How do you define being a wife?

    - Ask the questions!

    - Dawn Dickson's tips for dating intentionally

    - Removing the stigma around online dating

    QUOTABLES:

    ​​"It's no longer that you can date who's in your town, social media and dating apps has widened your pool. So there's nothing wrong with doing that. But there is a way to do it intentionally and get what you're looking for."

    "Lead with yourself. Lead with who you are at all times."

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Learn more about Dawn Dickson-Akpoghene at dawndickson.me

    Started in the DM: Using Social Media to Find the One: Startedinthedm.com

    IG | @dawnwdickson - instagram.com/dawnwdickson

    Twitter | @THEDawnDickson - twitter.com/THEDawnDickson

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    56 min
  • S3 EP8: Making Big Asks

    For many women, it is often easier to show up for someone else rather than themselves. When it comes to those "big asks" and things that require us to step into our self-worth and higher selves, we may feel unworthy or even start smelling like fear. This is where chief activator and lifestyle business coach, Lucinda Cross, comes in!

    Tune in as Lucinda shares her glory story from incarceration to CEO, empowering women to forgo expectations and tap into what they really want and need. Don't miss this straight-talking powerhouse and start choosing you in all areas of life, because "It's a me season."

    KEY POINTS:

    - Women are trained from a young age to accept what they're given

    - The significance of the word activate to Lucinda Cross

    - Lucinda's glory story - connecting to women through authenticity

    - Your energy is the real currency

    - What is the biggest inhibitor to our desires?

    - Find your purpose every day

    - Why sisterships are vital to your life

    QUOTABLES:

    "It's always a waiting game for us to accept what we're given versus going after what we deserve and desire."

    "I didn't realize how many women wake up and voluntarily incarcerate themselves mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually."

    "We're constantly told we need to do more of something to get clear, when you don't. Clarity will give you everything and ask for nothing"

    GUEST RESOURCES

    Learn more about Lucinda Cross and work at: Lucindacross.com

    IG | instagram.com/lucindacross

    PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

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    Dani Foster | instagram.com/danifostercoaching/

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    47 min

About Triggered AF

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Triggered AF identifying personal triggers in order to spark healing. Our conversational discussions cultivate deep, loving and safe spaces that facilitate real transformation. Alechia and Dani understand that healing is not a one size fits or fix all. From going against the grain on common issues in our community to open dialogue about different perspectives in relationships, friendships, business, parenting, and overall ADULT-ING.