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This week we’re boosting your morale like a b*tch. Skip to 4:30 if you wanna get straight into it. We’re sharing our extremely wet ’n’ juicy tips on how to feel instantly better right about now, because we’re SICK of fluffy notions and want actual, real practical ones to inject into our lives. These are our feel-good tips to get you feeling WELL again. Tips include how to watch your mouth (with yourself), making big plans to get you excited for the rest of the year, and yeah… getting a hobby! Not a d*ck, a hobby!

Virtual intimacy? Let’s get into it. Relationships... friendships... & anything from a 'hello' hug to a full on SHAG. The cuddle hormone oxytocin is hard to resist. The truth is, we're all a bit hesitant about actually seeing people & feeling emotionally thrown, but that just comes with the territory. Yup, we're here to talk about how not touching each other is changing the ways in which we're close, and how we're making up for it, by being intimate in other ways. No, we’re not talking about those airborne vaginal vibrations… we’re talking about having deeper conversations, checking in with each other, and having to confront feelings more because there’s no hiding sh*t on the phone like you can in real life. Also, skip to 15 mins in to hear us get into phone sex and how f*cking terrible it is. Especially when you’re trying to SEXT while you’re getting at your clit, because let’s be honest, that is not even possible!

We’re BACK! With new wet ’n’ juicy intel on how to be your most effective #workfromhome self, all considered. You’re doing a great job already babe, after all… you’re still alive & you haven’t died of boredom yet. But with things getting weirder by the sec, we wanted to give you the 411 on how you can work from home for the long-hall, without spending 6 out of 8 of those hours picking your face in the mirror, daydreaming, scrolling, and wandering off for wanks at lunch. Enough is enough. Our top tips on how to fix up your work (from home) ethic... include how to set up a routine that’s mostly play, with a little bit of work dashed in, you know, just for fun. Here’s how we’re doing it, but be warned, this minisode is packed with much, more more:

Have you been an irrational tired b*tch lately? Us too! Turns out that because there’s no way to blow off steam right now, we all are. NGL, while our top priority is to come out the other side of this looking tanned and cute as part of our ‘back to school’ vibe, this week we’re talking about the side effects of being in isolation, and f*ck, the list isn’t short. As per usual, we’re not here to patronise you about how to cope, we’re here to agree with you about how it actually IS. We want to be busy, but we don’t want to be busy, which is it? Yes we’re getting used to this ’new normal’, but there’s still something about all this that feels soooo creepy & off. Amen, sister. 

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Is it likely you’ll eat your partner for lunch soon, you know, as part of a cute panini situation? Are you missing someone like crazy? Are you wanking 10x a day to compensate? Are you feeling alone because you can’t date right now? Are you with someone who you’re fast realising is a massive douchebag? Don’t sweat it babe, we’re BACK to give you the quarantine advice we wish we’d take ourselves. Except it’s not patronising or sh*t non-realistic advice, it’s just honest & comforting, like a hot cup of cocoa. Baby G hasn’t seen her boyfriend for nearly 6 weeks, so she spills the beans on how to be in a relationship when you’re apart in isolation. Meanwhile, China is currently single but the virtual prowl, so you’ll get all the goodies on how to deal with being alone during this 'stuck at home' hellfest too. We’ve got it all covered babe, so strap the f*ck in & let us be your best friend for an hour…

Also, you guys submitted a bunch of your love & relationship woes in quarantine on our Instagram, so we’re here to answer them. Here’s the lowdown:

From 6 mins - 36 mins we’ll discuss the GOOD and EVIL of being in a relationship during quarantine. Your confessions included:

From 36 mins to 57 mins, we’re getting into being single and/or heartbroken during quarantine, and how the hell to handle that. Your confessions included:

During this week’s episode we also gave you a few key resources to get into after listening. The first one was the ‘We’re Not Really Strangers’ game. It’s a purpose driven card game and movement all about empowering meaningful connections. Three carefully crafted levels of questions and wildcards that allow you to deepen your existing relationships and create new ones: https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/

The second resource was Amy Garner’s ‘how to heal a broken heart’ guide, including a relationship cord-cutting meditation that we swear by and have done after every single heartbreak to get over it more quickly. She’s the best there is, so follow the guide like it’s gospel: https://helloamygarner.com/heal-a-broken-heart-how-to/

Why is it so hard to hold down regular FaceTime with your friends, and why does it feel like they’re drifting away from you? Are your friends going to learn to live without you? Will it EVER be the same again? Yet at the same time, how the f*ck do we not take it personally when people don’t leap at the chance to FT us? And why are you feeling anxious as hell about talking virtually? Ah girl, that’s because video calling is like a f*cking interrogation room where you can’t hide your face & the spotlight is on you. Don't worry... we’ve got a bunch of tips for you to get a hold of your friendships + your comms during quarantine. We'll talk breaking the seal & so much more (listen to the whole ep to find out).

Also, why is sh*t getting under our skin so much? We’ll get into how irritable we are with whoever we’re living with & exactly why that is. Emotions are high as f*ck right now, and you've got to stop laying on the self-blame thicker than a cheap moisturiser. The secret to all your problems right now is building a routine that matches the people you live with, so you stop fantasising about cutting them up into tiny little pieces. We'll tell you how to do this and so much more... listen in!

This week we’re back on form, chatting sh*t about sh*t about SH*T. We wanted to get to the nibbly root of what happiness ‘is’, and treading the fine line between wanting enough and wanting too much. Just like Jesus with the loaf, right? We’ll get to it (HAHAHA). Yes, let’s work out how we juggle immediate gratification, vs playing the long game with our goals (which let’s be honest, is hard as f*ck). We’ll talk about how we’re going for our biggest dreams & goals in this trying time, and how not to kill ourselves over the self-inflicted pressure of doing too much... vs just living in the now and finding our zen. We’re dropping so many goodies, get them in the girl-brain bank, asap!!!

Also, China would like to apologise for calling you ‘mother-f*ckers' at 41 mins. Totally uncalled for. You are beautiful, radiant darlings of the future. And don’t forget it!

Whether you’re single or not, this is your manual to how to get him... to get you! Because duh, the world revolves around us. They just need reminding! Also, why can’t we put our best friends in men’s bodies, because that would be the dream relationship?! Meanwhile, in REAL life… please can we put our romantic emotions in a dumpster, because we have the most mental & irrational thoughts about our love lives. All we want is for men to take responsibility for the sh*t they do, then grovel, so why don’t they? Why do we keep expecting them to soothe us, when they aren’t f*cking made that way? Babe, there isn’t this special pool of men that’s ‘different’. So let’s learn how the f*ck they work instead of stewing on sh*t for weeks, then letting it out in a blind rage. No wonder they act surprised! Let us be your love guru this week, babe.

*Pls note the guy China refers to as ‘the guy she’s dating’ is now (metaphorically ofc) dead and buried. R.I.P buddy.

If you’re working from home because of this horse-sh*t virus, girl… we got you. In this episode we’ll cover exactly why working from home is so hard on our mental health, why you’re not the only one feeling lonely, and all the things you can do to make it through in one piece. Yep, this is a super hands-on episode, where we’ll give you a bunch of actual WFH hacks to combat the loneliness, monotony, and wanting to working in your day PJs before you switch out to your night PJs, because that sh*t ain’t healthy.