True You Podcast

True You Podcast

By Bill Tierney and Martin KettelhutEducationSelf-Improvement
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True You Podcast episodes

  • Episode 20: Fear and Anxiety

    In this episode, Bill and Marty share personal stories and insights about anxiety, its roots in fear, and how to manage it effectively. Bill recounts his lifelong battle with anxiety and how he found solace and transformation through various methods, including internal family systems and the Byron Katie method. Marty complements the discussion with reflections on his academic and personal experiences with anxiety. 


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast
    00:59 Personal Experiences with Anxiety
    03:30 Educational Backgrounds and Anxiety
    08:25 Exploring Anxiety in Different Contexts
    10:57 The Science and Semiotics of Anxiety
    21:05 Summarizing Our Progress
    21:35 Understanding Anxiety
    23:08 Personal Responsibility and Transformation
    30:33 Practical Steps to Manage Anxiety
    31:31 The Importance of Presence
    38:21 Internal Family Systems and Overcoming Suffering
    39:41 A Heartwarming Story and Conclusion


    Links and Resources:

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    43 min
  • Episode 19: Impatience

    In this episode, Bill and Marty explore the impact of impatience in our lives and the role of AI in addressing heart-centered coaching. Marty shares a personal story about dealing with roofing contractors that illustrates the challenges of managing impatience and how feelings of respect and powerlessness play into our reactions. The duo also discuss practical strategies for identifying triggers, acknowledging feelings, and setting realistic goals, all while emphasizing the importance of practicing mindfulness and maintaining a reflective mindset. 


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
    00:13 Discussing the Blog Article 'Impatient'
    01:03 AI and Heart-Centered Coaching
    02:18 Real-Life Example of Impatience
    06:11 Analyzing the Example and Coaching Insights
    10:40 Identifying Triggers and Acknowledging Feelings
    20:07 Reflecting on Experiences and Practicing Pausing
    25:02 Setting Realistic Goals and Final Thoughts
    27:45 Conclusion and Call to Action


    Links and Resources:

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    31 min
  • Episode 18: The Myth of Maintenance

    In this episode, Marty and Bill discuss the importance of constant growth and personal development. Bill talks about his past experiences, including his journey of sobriety, and how personal growth has been a pivotal part of his life. They explore the concept of maintaining personal development and the pitfalls of simply trying to maintain without growing. They touch upon the idea of revisiting past successes to reignite growth, the importance of vulnerability, and the role of contentment and courage in personal transformation. They also emphasize the significance of following inner guidance and the necessity of sometimes taking detours to explore new paths. 


    Chapters:

    00:00 Welcome Back to the True You Podcast
    00:43 Discussing Books and Influences
    01:40 Writing a Memoir: A Journey of Self-Discovery
    02:57 Maintaining Personal Growth and Development
    05:14 The Importance of Spiritual Life in Personal Growth
    21:37 The Role of Courage and Contentment in Growth
    25:29 Resting on Your Laurels: The Danger of Complacency
    26:00 Finding the Next Challenge: Growth and Transformation
    26:29 The Role of Friction in Personal Growth
    27:18 Pursuing New Goals: From Triathlons to Writing
    29:21 Financial Security and Its Impact on Happiness
    32:39 The Importance of Trust and Vulnerability
    34:29 Navigating Life's Detours: Personal Development
    39:02 The Value of Personal Development and Learning
    42:50 Aligning with Your Inner Guidance
    46:05 The Power of Perspective: Overcoming Suffering
    49:13 Conclusion: Embracing Growth and Truth


    Links and Resources:

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    50 min
  • Episode 17: Waking Up

    In this episode, Bill and Marty unpack what it means to be Self-led as a person, a business, and even a society. They explore how trauma shapes our inner parts, how self-awareness begins, and why lasting recovery is about healing what's underneath addiction. Bill shares his personal experience with 12-step recovery, the shift that happened through Byron Katie's work, and the journey from doing his best to simply being his best. It's a thoughtful and honest conversation about inner change, leadership, and how real transformation starts within.

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast
    00:28 Diving into Today's Topic
    01:08 Visionary Thinkers and Their Influence
    04:10 Understanding Self-Led vs. Parts-Led
    09:27 Exploring the Concept of Self
    19:03 Personal Experiences and Reflections
    21:13 The Path to a Self-Led Society
    23:59 Exploring Self-Led Companies
    24:16 Qualities of a Self-Led Company
    24:51 Compassion and Capacity in Leadership
    25:37 Curiosity and Courage in the Workplace
    26:47 Understanding the Concept of Self
    29:26 Addiction and Recovery Insights
    33:23 Personal Journeys to Self-Awareness
    34:51 The Role of Self-Awareness in Leadership
    38:03 Divine Guidance and Self-Discovery
    42:50 Effort vs. Being in Self-Led Lives
    44:00 Final Thoughts and Wrap-Up

    Links and Resources:

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    45 min
  • Episode 16: Recovery and Transformation

    In this episode, hosts Bill and Marty explore their unique approaches to coaching. Bill shares his experience with Internal Family Systems (IFS) and his Compassionate Results Guidebook, while Marty discusses his ontological leadership coaching. Together, they address how trauma affects everyone and the transformation possible through IFS and other modalities. Bill also reflects on his 42 years of sobriety, discussing the limitations of the 12-step program for him, and the profound impact of discovering Byron Katie's work. The conversation shifts into a discussion on emotional sobriety, the process of transformation, and the power of changing one’s mindset.

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Background
    00:26 Exploring Internal Family Systems (IFS)
    01:42 The Role of Trauma in Coaching
    03:46 Personal Experiences with Trauma
    04:51 Understanding and Defining Trauma
    05:14 Impact of Childhood Experiences
    06:16 Coaching Through Trauma
    07:16 Scientific Approach to Coaching
    09:30 Historical Context of Trauma
    12:50 Generational Trauma and Healing
    14:50 Personal Transformation and Recovery
    23:38 The Power of Perspective Shift
    28:02 Effective Methods for Transformation
    29:49 Struggling with Belief and Recovery
    31:22 Questioning the 12-Step Program
    32:36 Defining Personal Recovery
    33:45 Emotional Sobriety and Personal Growth
    36:37 Discovering Byron Katie's Work
    44:36 Finding a New Concept of God
    52:04 Integrating IFS and 12-Step Programs
    53:02 Final Thoughts and Reflections

    Links and Resources:

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    55 min
  • Episode 15: Cancel Culture - Beliefs, Fears, and Values

    In this episode, Bill and Marty explore the complexities of living authentically in the era of cancel culture and how societal pressures and fears impact our ability to express our true selves. They share personal stories and analyze the historical context of belief systems affecting today's world. The conversation also touches on the potential of higher ideals and the role of vision boards in overcoming limiting beliefs. 


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome
    00:15 Invitation to Join the Conversation
    01:34 The True You: Living in Accord with Your Nature
    02:08 The Impact of Cancel Culture
    16:22 Historical Context and Generational Beliefs
    18:30 Personal Stories and Reflections
    24:43 Exploring Cancel Culture Further
    27:38 Facing Social Media Backlash
    28:07 Examples of Misunderstanding and Labeling
    28:47 The Impact of Being Canceled
    29:27 Darryl Davis and Challenging Beliefs
    30:59 Fear and Authenticity
    34:31 Vision Boards and Future Planning
    36:49 Exploring Beliefs and Values
    45:40 The Role of Religion and Higher Ideals
    48:04 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections


    Links and Resources:

    • No Apologies by Katherine Brodsky - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1634312503

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    49 min
  • Episode 14: Jerry Waxler

    In this episode of the True You Podcast, hosts Bill Tierney and Marty chat with special guest Jerry Waxler, a seasoned therapist and memoir writer. They explore Jerry's journey from addiction recovery to becoming a memoir coach. Jerry emphasizes the therapeutic power of memoir writing, its ability to reframe past experiences, articulate emotions, and foster a deeper understanding of oneself. The discussion highlights how writing can be a transformative process, aligning with principles from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the 12-step recovery programs.


    About Jerry Waxler:

    Jerry Waxler hit bottom early in adulthood and began a long climb through recovery, self-help, therapy, and wisdom traditions. At fifty, he returned to school to become a therapist, only to discover that to help others, he had to keep growing. Memoir reading provided insight into the vast library of human experience offered in memoirs. And writing his own memoirs helped him rebuild shattered segments of his past. His continued interest in Twelve Step recovery, and his ongoing research into the many branches of psychotherapy, led him to Internal Family Systems, which he sees as a pinnacle of his journey toward mental wholeness. Now, 54 years sober, Jerry’s life work is helping others grow through therapy, writing, and the transformative power of turning private memories into shared stories.

    Contact Jerry:

    Website: www.jerrywaxler.com


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:46 Jerry Waxler's Journey and Memoir Writing

    01:58 The Impact of Memoir Writing

    04:19 The Evolution of Memoir as a Genre

    08:22 Memoir Writing and Emotional Exploration

    10:08 Therapeutic Aspects of Memoir Writing

    19:56 Articulating Emotions Through Writing

    24:39 The Challenge of Writing Emotions

    25:33 Understanding the Memoir Genre

    27:45 The Redemptive Arc in Memoirs

    30:40 Connecting Through Stories

    33:34 Memoirs as a Tool for Self-Discovery

    39:52 Unblending and Healing Through Writing

    47:34 Reducing Shame Through Storytelling

    51:28 Final Thoughts and Contact Information


    Links and Resources:

    • Imminent: Inside the Pentagon's Hunt for UFOs by Luis Elizondo - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063235560

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 

    55 min
  • Episode 13: Pau and Alex

    In this episode, Bill and Marty engage in a deep conversation with guests Pau Wojnar and Alex Pedori of IFS Collective. They discuss the nuances of relationships, the importance of communication, and their unique techniques for navigating misunderstandings. Pau shares insights from his work as a trauma-informed coach and his background in ethnography, while Alex discusses his journey from engineering to AI specialization and movement teaching.


    About Pau:
    Certified Level 3 IFS Practitioner mixing coaching and trauma work

    Background in anthropology/ ethnography research, coaching, non-violent communication

    Core personal and professional research areas include Relationships, Sexuality and Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy

    Considering going back to school to become a licensed therapist

    Contact Pau:

    Website: ifs-collective.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ligress
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/paulinawojnar/

    About Alex:

    Alessandro -Alex for shorts and ease- Pedori.

    He believes that "tell me about yourself and your bio" is the fastest route to emptying your mind, potentially enlightenment.

    He has been a lead technologist specializing in AI, a movement teacher, organized meditation retreats, taught workshops.

    He also offers IFS-based sessions, focusing either in life satisfaction, or deeper blockages.

    He is not sure what to do as a grown up, but this sounds good so far.

    Contact Alex:

    Substack: https://substack.com/@alignyourlife/posts

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pedori

    GitHub: https://github.com/ischender/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alessandro.pedori


    Chapters:

    00:00 Welcome and Introductions

    00:29 Meet Pau: Background and Expertise

    03:29 Meet Alex: Background and Expertise

    04:22 The Unconference and Initial Connections

    05:29 The True You: Exploring Relationships

    07:46 How Alex and Pau Met

    18:13 Navigating Misunderstandings and Communication

    23:27 Techniques for Relationship Building

    28:34 The Importance of Listening in Relationships

    29:02 Personal Journey: Learning to Communicate

    30:43 Overcoming Relationship Challenges

    33:18 Strategies for Managing Conflict

    43:11 The Role of Self-Energy in Relationships

    46:25 Introduction to the Unconference

    52:40 How to Get Involved with the IFS Collective

    Links and Resources:

    • IFS-Collective - www.ifs-collective.com
    • Parts Work: An Illustrated Guide to Your Inner Life by Tom Holmes - https://www.amazon.com/Parts-Work-Illustrated-Guide-Inner/dp/0979889715
    • Concrescence Institute - https://concrescenceinstitute.com/

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 

    57 min
  • Episode 12: Laurie Chancey

    In this episode, hosts Bill and Marty welcome back Laurie Chancey, a level two IFS (Internal Family Systems) practitioner. Laurie shares insights from her extensive journey into IFS healing and spiritual work, revealing how her past lives and spiritual guides have influenced her somatic awareness. Laurie recounts fascinating experiences with past life traumas, spiritual guides, and the importance of somatic awareness in the healing process. The discussion also touches on the ethical use of consciousness medicines like ketamine in IFS practice.


    About Laurie Chancey:

    L2 IFS Practitioner, Laurie Chancey Coaching

    Administrative Director and Teacher, Concrescence Institute

    Previous job: community college sociology professor

    MA in Sociology

    From Louisiana, lives in Metro Atlanta, GA


    Contact Laurie:

    Website: https://lauriechancey.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriechanceyifs


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Reintroduction

    02:38 Laurie's Journey with IFS

    06:15 Encountering Past Lives

    14:17 Healing Through Guides and Spirituality

    26:47 Practical Applications and Client Experiences

    31:07 Reflecting on a Year of Healing

    31:31 Understanding the True Self

    33:16 Exploring Past Lives and Ancestry

    34:23 Skepticism and Personal Experience

    36:43 Unburdening the Skeptical Part

    37:42 Night Terrors and Unattached Burdens

    40:49 The Importance of Witnessing in IFS

    44:06 Visual vs. Somatic Awareness in IFS

    48:10 The Role of Ketamine in IFS

    53:04 Introducing the Compressions Institute

    56:43 Upcoming Projects and Farewell


    Links and Resources:

    • Parts Work: An Illustrated Guide to Your Inner Life by Tom Holmes - https://www.amazon.com/Parts-Work-Illustrated-Guide-Inner/dp/0979889715

    • Concrescence Institute - https://concrescenceinstitute.com/

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    59 min
  • Episode 11: Values and Stress

    In this episode, the coaches engage in a valuable discussion about the inner family systems (IFS) model and the concept of the true Self. They explore everyday stressors and how they can indicate a misalignment with one's true nature. The talk touches on the definition of stress, both mechanical and psychological, and provides examples from personal and professional life. Towards the end, the hosts discuss the importance of recognizing and re-prioritizing values to reduce stress and align with one's true self. Upcoming guests and topics for future episodes are also highlighted.


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast

    01:33 Understanding the True Self

    03:56 Exploring the Concept of Stress

    07:52 Real-Life Examples of Stress

    10:43 Aligning Values and Priorities

    24:42 Upcoming Guests and Conclusion


    Links and Resources:

    • True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠⁠ 

    • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠⁠  

    • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠⁠ 

    • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    • Contact Bill - ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠


    🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠⁠ 

    ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠⁠

    🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠⁠

    📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠⁠

    ➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠⁠

    📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠⁠

    🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! 


    #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults

    28 min

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True You Podcast is all about reconnecting with your authentic self—the version of you that’s in flow, where life feels effortless and aligned. In moments of struggle, when everything feels like an…