Trust in Joy

I took a 5 day workshop about a new way to set goals. A pivotal piece was learning about a domino goal. It’s FANTASTIC for those of us that can find ourselves questioning what is the next right step to take, because, isn’t it all important?

Actually, no.

A domino goal is the one thing you do, in a category of your life, that once achieved, will open other opportunities and knock other smaller goals as you reach it.

Watch (or listen to) the video above to hear how to figure out your domino goal in 3 steps, with the help of our little robot friend, ChatGPT. 🤖

🌟 Episode quote: “The main thing, is to keep the main thing, the main thing.” —Stephen Covey

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Lucy, my youngest daughter, hugged me upon stepping into her room. (This is so my kid who finds it a treat to see her room go through a deep clean and major edit. 😊) Ani liked her refreshed room too, but wasn't as over-the-moon like her 6 year old sister. Mess—like having markers, pants and old tests in her sock drawer doesn't bother her! But it makes me itch!)

I've had a Nordstrom paper bag in the back of my closet for...2 years! And it's been in 3 closets! It's astounding for a person who edits people's wardrobes for a living.

Inside this bag was a smaller bag full of bras. C'mon, you used to have the Victoria Secret's push up bras; we all did at one point! These were from my 20s and I probably haven't worn them since then! But they're in good shape. Maybe there's a woman who would like these bras. Thankfully, there are a handful of organizations that accept and distribute this type of clothing, such as I Support the Girls and Free The Girls. You can donate these in store, at Soma and Aerie. Yes!

This got me thinking about how many other brands have this model—recycling or reusing a product they sell (even if not their product), like the swimsuit donation program at J.Crew. I love when I see brands putting in effort to empower customers/make a dent in a problem etc.

This 5 minute video shows some of the pieces that were inside that bag—including the ridiculous combo I'm wearing. Hooray to edited closets and no more donation bags in your home! (but maybe still in your car 🙃)

P.S. Want your wardrobe edited?! I’ve opened up my calendar for Closet Detoxes. You can book a virtual session or an in-person session (the latter for Detroiters and Ann Arborites).

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It's December—you're making gift giving and everything else needed to get done, a priority.   YET, you want to like what you're wearing to all the things this month. From casual get togethers to dressier parties, let's knock out some very cool, very authentically YOU outfits.   Imagine not having to think about what to wear! It's all set.  

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When have you gotten support from an unlikely source?   Support is all around! And it may come to you in unexpected ways—like how I received that home cooked meal I was craving.    "Start manifesting the life you actually want"—TBM To Be Magnetic's Authenticity Challenge has begun. As a member for several years, I can say that it's during these community challenges where the biggest shifts happen.    Use code: LENA to receive 15% off   Tobemagnetic.com    Hotel in Rome: 15 Keys Hotel   Kids Safe Phones & Watches, Get a free phone or watch through 12/2. Gabb Wireless

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The Tapping Solution

Jennifer Kolari—Connected Parenting

 

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Time carved out for yourself, aka a solo date, can look like intentionally going down a rabbit hole—doing a deep dive on a topic that interests you. This episode explores astrocartology which is  a type of astrology that shows how different places can affect your life based on your birth chart, using lines to indicate where certain planets have the most influence.    On her Hinge profile, my friend changed her U.S location to London because she had always wanted to travel there. Next thing you know, she's having a blast chatting with a Brit and...   Listen to find out!   Quick guide: Your sun line --> where you feel most like yourself Your Venus line --> love, beauty, success Your AC & MC lines---> ideal travel!   For more details of the chart   Kid-safe phones. No contract required. Gabb's holiday promo: a free phone and 50% off kid-safe watches. Gabb Wireless   Look amazing in your clothes. Fall personal styling promotion   Clothes picked by a stylist  

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Do you try to set up the single man or woman you know?    I'm curious if you agree with me—feeling the opposite about the stigma of single women & men and also, couples. Here I talk about:

• me not wanting to date—unless there's a “zing” 
• why I'm not onboard with sex with strangers (commonly encouraged advice given to those who are post-divorce)
• is it easier for women to be alone than men?

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From tops, to bottoms and accessories, 

you'll know what is best for you–

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I'm doing what my kid self enjoyed in the summer, now as an adult—and seeing if my kids enjoy it too—because we lead by example and everything in life is an experiment.

Also, try ChatGPT to plan your next trip!

 

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tacos, tequila, friends embarrassed by college photos, a rainbow and the significance of "123" 

  a short and sweet video recapping Tina Gill's memorial in Colorado   Would love to hear from you! You can send a voice note here:

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