Truth & Transformation

Hey lovelies, this week I'm talking about Pussy after being inspired to talk about this whilst listening to the book Pussy, A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer, Mama Gena. Not sponsored just inspired ♥ Your pussy is such a portal to your intuition and joy. Not to mention pleasure. When we get to know our pussy and what turns us on then not only do we have better sex, better masturbation sessions, we also have a better more pleasurable life. A one that turns us on and feels damn good. So get to know your pussy, self-pleasure all the way. It truly is the portal for deepening your intuition, having more flow in life and joy in life. So much healing is done here. After many traumatic sexual experiences and sexual trauma, I was so disconnected from healing, pleasure, joy and my pussy.

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An unpolished raw podcast about unearthing the crap that holds us back. Aimed at women who want it all and wanna feel damn good about themselves. We will talk openly about struggles, the highs and lows of life, sex, family, relationships, emotions, healing, mindset, dreams, spirituality, bisexuality, vulnerability, authenticity, money and so much more – in fact, nothing is really off the table. If it’s holding you back from the life you want we will talk about it.

If you wanna feel damn good we need to talk about the real stuff so that’s what we are doing here.

I believe when we love ourselves our life really transforms in the most beautiful ways and when we don’t love ourselves we don’t feel enough or fulfilled. This is a podcast to bridge the gap.

It’s a podcast about feeling good about you, living life in your truth, on your terms.

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I'm your host Kirsty Dee, a self-love warrior, soon to be the author of the book Woo Wise Woman and an empowerment coach for women. I work with women to help them to love themselves and feel damn good about themselves.

Woo Wise Woman is a self- help book for women who desire to feel damn good about themselves. A no-BS approach to self-love guiding and empowering women to feel their best and to enjoy life. In a world where we are taught to fit in changing the rules changes your life. This is a book about owning your woo and living in your truth.

Find me on IG at @KirstyDeeShares or Kirsty Dee on Facebook/ Choose To Rise Group also on Facebook. My website for coaching, my latest offerings (WellGust), other programmes and all the jazz is at kirstydee.com

Thank you for being here, may you be authentically you and create and live a life you love. 

Namaste,

Kirsty Dee xxx 

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Hey lovely, it's not your job to keep others happy. Not even your partner, kids, family or inlaws. This leads to codependency. This leads to people-pleasing and being burnt out. This leads to your worth being outside of you and in another's hands. This causes disempowerment for you and for whoever you're trying to make happy. This is often a trauma response. Your loved ones will not perish if you love and take care of yourself. In fact, they will see and learn they can create their own happiness and joy. Be willing to disappoint some people especially family.  This doesn't mean you will, this means you have to be willing too so that you feel and live free without being indebted to another deciding your worth based on how happy they are with you.  

Often we need to make others happy to feel of any worth and so when we can't we don't feel enough.  It's time to break the cycle. For you and your loved ones. So we can all actually lived truly empowered.

You got this ♥

If you'd like to hire me as your coach my website details etc are all below. 

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An unpolished raw podcast about unearthing the crap that holds us back. Aimed at women who want it all and wanna feel damn good about themselves. We will talk openly about struggles, the highs and lows of life, sex, family, relationships, emotions, healing, mindset, dreams, spirituality, bisexuality, vulnerability, authenticity, money and so much more – in fact, nothing is really off the table. If it’s holding you back from the life you want we will talk about it.

If you wanna feel damn good we need to talk about the real stuff so that’s what we are doing here.

I believe when we love ourselves our life really transforms in the most beautiful ways and when we don’t love ourselves we don’t feel enough or fulfilled. This is a podcast to bridge the gap.

It’s a podcast about feeling good about you, living life in your truth, on your terms.

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I'm your host Kirsty Dee, a self-love warrior, soon to be the author of the book Woo Wise Woman and an empowerment coach for women. I work with women to help them to love themselves and feel damn good about themselves.

Woo Wise Woman is a self- help book for women who desire to feel damn good about themselves. A no-BS approach to self-love guiding and empowering women to feel their best and to enjoy life. In a world where we are taught to fit in changing the rules changes your life. This is a book about owning your woo and living in your truth.

Find me on IG at @KirstyDeeShares or Kirsty Dee on Facebook/ Choose To Rise Group also on Facebook. My website for coaching, programmes and all my offerings is at kirstydee.com

Thank you for being here, may you be authentically you and create and live a life you love. 

Namaste,

Kirsty Dee xxx

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Hey lovely, in this episode I'm talking about how no one is self-made and how doing it all on our own is deeply damaging. Allowing yourself to receive, to take care of you is abundance. It's one of the most loving things we can do. Learning to have boundaries, to say no, serves us as well as others. We can be a total powerhouse, feel empowered and liberated and receive abundantly so. We can have self-agency, validate ourselves and we can take responsibility for our future and allow ourselves to be fully supported. To have relationships where we feel supported and nourished. 

We don't have to do it all. We never did. That's the lie. Trying to do it all leads to burn out and resentment. 

Be good to you. 
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An unpolished raw podcast about unearthing the crap that holds us back. Aimed at women who want it all and wanna feel damn good about themselves. We will talk openly about struggles, the highs and lows of life, sex, family, relationships, emotions, healing, mindset, dreams, spirituality, bisexuality, vulnerability, authenticity, money and so much more – in fact, nothing is really off the table. If it’s holding you back from the life you want we will talk about it.

If you wanna feel damn good we need to talk about the real stuff so that’s what we are doing here.

I believe when we love ourselves our life really transforms in the most beautiful ways and when we don’t love ourselves we don’t feel enough or fulfilled. This is a podcast to bridge the gap.

It’s a podcast about feeling good about you, living life in your truth, on your terms.

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I'm your host Kirsty Dee, a self-love warrior, soon to be the author of the book Woo Wise Woman and an empowerment coach for women. I work with women to help them to love themselves and feel damn good about themselves.

Woo Wise Woman is a self- help book for women who desire to feel damn good about themselves. A no-BS approach to self-love guiding and empowering women to feel their best and to enjoy life. In a world where we are taught to fit in changing the rules changes your life. This is a book about owning your woo and living in your truth.

Find me on IG at @KirstyDeeShares or Kirsty Dee on Facebook/ Choose To Rise Group also on Facebook. My website for coaching, programmes and all my offerings is at kirstydee.com

Thank you for being here, may you be authentically you and create and live a life you love. 

Namaste,

Kirsty Dee xxx

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Hey lovely, in this episode I'm talking self-love and you feeling good enough and emotional empowerment. I talk about self-validation and a little on codependency.  I basically talk about how self-love is the relationship to yourself. I go into emotional intelligence briefly and mindset. Chatting how we were taught from society about social-emotional etiquette so we started giving our emotions an expiration date and how that can lead to us feeling a burden. Emotions like anger, sadness, frustration and feeling hurt all wanna feel seen and validated. When we push those things down they start roaring to be heard. This is how we end up repeating the same 'negative' cycles in life. This is how cycles of shame repeat. 

We find evidence for what we believe in - even if it's disempowering. That's what our brain/mind or the ego we can call it does (inner critic, bully within - whatever term resonates for you). We burn out in those cycles and become people-pleasers, always feeling we have to save the day and we become perfectionists. We feel shame for not being over things so we start to feel the fear of not being enough. We put our worth outside of us so our self-esteem and self-worth of course plummet. 

When we break these cycles, when we truly start loving ourselves we start to feel good about ourselves and life and we start experiencing more joy.

Our life changes and transforms when the relationship with ourself does ♥ 

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An unpolished raw podcast about unearthing the crap that holds us back. Aimed at women who want it all and wanna feel damn good about themselves. We will talk openly about struggles, the highs and lows of life, sex, family, relationships, emotions, healing, mindset, dreams, spirituality, bisexuality, vulnerability, authenticity, money and so much more – in fact, nothing is really off the table. If it’s holding you back from the life you want we will talk about it.

If you wanna feel damn good we need to talk about the real stuff so that’s what we are doing here.

I believe when we love ourselves our life really transforms in the most beautiful ways and when we don’t love ourselves we don’t feel enough or fulfilled. This is a podcast to bridge the gap.

It’s a podcast about feeling good about you, living life in your truth, on your terms.

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I'm your host Kirsty Dee, a self-love warrior, soon to be the author of the book Woo Wise Woman and an empowerment coach for women. I work with women to help them to love themselves and feel damn good about themselves.

Woo Wise Woman is a self- help book for women who desire to feel damn good about themselves. A no-BS approach to self-love guiding and empowering women to feel their best and to enjoy life. In a world where we are taught to fit in changing the rules changes your life. This is a book about owning your woo and living in your truth.

Find me on IG at @KirstyDeeShares or Kirsty Dee on Facebook/ Choose To Rise Group also on Facebook. My website for coaching, programmes and all my offerings is at kirstydee.com

Thank you for being here, may you be authentically you and create and live a life you love. 

Namaste,

Kirsty Dee xxx

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In this episode, I'm joined with my husband Tony Pony. We talk love, me coming out as a bisexual woman and being married to a man whilst having a phenomenal marriage/long term relationship. We talk about having relationships that nourish your soul and where it's safe to be in your truth. We share the things that have helped us imperfectly have a strong, healthy and happy relationship. We also talk about bisexual erasure and stereotypes of being a bisexual woman married to a man. We also talk about telling our children about coming out as bisexual. 

We briefly talk about human design and a 2.4 profile as well as loneliness and mental health. 

Mainly though we talk about love and navigating and having strong, healthy and happy relationships. As well as you loving yourself. 
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An unpolished raw podcast about unearthing the crap that holds us back. Aimed at women who want it all and wanna feel damn good about themselves. We will talk openly about struggles, the highs and lows of life, sex, family, relationships, emotions, healing, mindset, dreams, spirituality, bisexuality, vulnerability, authenticity, money and so much more – in fact, nothing is really off the table. If it’s holding you back from the life you want we will talk about it.

If you wanna feel damn good we need to talk about the real stuff so that’s what we are doing here.

I believe when we love ourselves our life really transforms in the most beautiful ways and when we don’t love ourselves we don’t feel enough or fulfilled. This is a podcast to bridge the gap.

It’s a podcast about feeling good about you, living life in your truth, on your terms.

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I'm your host Kirsty Dee, a self-love warrior, soon to be the author of the book Woo Wise Woman and an empowerment coach for women. I work with women to help them to love themselves and feel damn good about themselves. 

Woo Wise Woman is a self- help book for women who desire to feel damn good about themselves. A no-BS approach to self-love guiding and empowering women to feel their best and to enjoy life. In a world where we are taught to fit in changing the rules changes your life. This is a book about owning your woo and living in your truth.

Find me on IG at @KirstyDeeShares or Kirsty Dee on Facebook/ Choose To Rise Group also on Facebook. My website for coaching, programmes and all my offerings is at kirstydee.com

Thank you for being here, may you be authentically you and create and live a life that you love. 

Namaste,

Kirsty Dee xxx

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Welcome to my very first podcast episode, today I'm talking living in your truth as I share a truth that I haven't yet spoken about and why it's taken me so long to do so. 

THE SELF-LOVE NO BS PODCAST WITH KIRSTY DEE

An unpolished raw podcast about unearthing the crap that holds us back. Aimed at women who want it all and wanna feel damn good about themselves. We will talk openly about struggles, the highs and lows of life, sex, family, relationships, emotions, healing, mindset, dreams, spirituality, vulnerability, money and so much more - in fact, nothing is really off the table. If it's holding you back from the life you want we will talk about it.

If you wanna feel damn good we need to talk about the real stuff so that's what we are doing here.

I believe when we love ourselves our life really transforms in the most beautiful ways and when we don't love ourselves we don't feel enough or fulfilled. This is a podcast to bridge the gap.

It's a podcast about feeling good about you, living life in your truth, on your terms. 

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In this episode, I talk about being bisexual and married to a man and how our truth brings us more joy. 

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