Truth & Transformation

Hey lovelies, this week we are chatting about the sisterhood wound and creating deep meaningful friendships and relationships. I chat about friendship breakdowns, being ghosted, and playing to love and be loved VS trying to protect yourself from getting hurt and rejected. I also talk about boundaries and when to walk away and also looking at our triggers, jealousy, feeling less than others, comparing ourselves, etc. 

Enjoy the episode,

Kirsty xx

Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com (all events and my offerings can be found here that were mentioned in this podcast episode)
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
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Hey lovelies, this week we chat communiction that heals & connects. We talk about getting defensive, criticising, 'I' language over 'You' language, taking responsibility for your emotions and behaviour, expectations, how what we say and what the other hears is different, repair work, healthy entitlement, emotional regulation, getting to the root of things and what's underneath it all (aka fear, anxiety, ptsd, the desire to be seen/heard etc) and how validation is really important (which does mean agreeing necessarily).  

This is part of the new series with Tony, WTF Midlife Truths.

Hope you enjoy it,

Kirsty xx
Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com
Work with me (events and 1:1 mentoring etc): https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares

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Hey lovelies, this week I chat about being 'sensitive' & 'emotional' as a gift, the superpower of it, and reparenting yourself. I talk about boundaries and how it never felt like a gift as I didn't have the skills to navigate my feelings, especially when they were big and heavy. I chat about being an empath, aka hypervigilant and complex PTSD, and how it can show up for me as a fawn response, people pleasing to stay safe, and learning to use my sensitivity and emotions in a way that served and benefitted me.  

Enjoy the episode,

Kirsty xx

Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com (all events and my offerings can be found here that were mentioned in this podcast episode)
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares 

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Hey lovelies, today we discuss the mental load and how it impacts on your relationships. We chat about the invisble and unpaid labor that often falls on women's hands, particulaly mums to manage the household and kids and navigating sharing the mental load to strengthen your relationship. 

This is part of the new series with Tony, WTF Midlife Truths.

Hope you enjoy it,

Kirsty xx
Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares

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Hey lovelies, today we are chatting about freedom and the courage to be authentic and not self-censor yourself.  I chat about my experiences and how I often take on the feelings of others as my responsibility. Where codependancy and the fawn / fawning trauma response and hypervilgance shows up for me. The trying to get it 'right' to please others. I talk about acceptance and how freedom is within relationships and the courage to be vulnerable and to be truly seen. 

Enjoy the episode,

Kirsty xx

Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com (all events and my offerings can be found here that were mentioned in this podcast episode)
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares 

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Hey lovelies, today we talk body confidence, insecurities & aging. We talk about how our bodies have changed, our insecurities, weight gain, comparison, grey hairs, hair loss, body shaming, skinny & fat shaming, society conditioning, and being told I'm not a 'real' woman, etc.

This is part of the new series with Tony, WTF Midlife Truths.

Hope you enjoy it,

Kirsty xx
Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares

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Hello lovelies, today we are chatting patterns and grieving not being in life where you wanted to be. I chat about resistance, regular grieving, motivation, using resistance as the fuel, looking at patterns, fulfillment, emotions, and how yes it's not all about the destination, and also it's not 'just' about the journey either. 

Enjoy the episode,

Kirsty xx

Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com (all events and my offerings can be found here that were mentioned in this podcast episode)
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares 

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Hey lovelies, this week we are chatting life goals, priorities, Tony talks about wanting a better work life balance. I talk about my dreams and vision. Things we are working towards in our marriage. 

This is part of the new series with Tony, WTF Midlife Truths.

Hope you enjoy it,

Kirsty xx
Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares

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Hello lovelies, today we are chatting processing emotions, human design, and self-acceptance. I chat about regulating emotions in a mind, body, and soul way. How we intellectualise our emotions, how that is part of it, and then feel them and believing in more. The soul piece. I also chat about human design, being a sacral manifesting generator (MG), and the 2.4 profile line and how it helped me accept myself and how I parented. It also helped me parent my kids (who are both pure manifestors). Knowing this helped me to accept things that I thought of as flaws about myself, like my need to hermit and also be a social butterfly. To be a walking talking contradiction and integrate that coz what if we truly are designed perfectly? 

Enjoy the episode,

Kirsty xx

Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares 

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Hello lovelies, today we are chatting about emotional capacity and tips to improve your relationships. We talk about transitioning from work, communication, and complacency, the four horsemen of the apocalypse, criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling ( according to couples therapist Dr. John Gottman), and looking at your triggers. 

This is part of the new series with Tony, WTF Midlife Truths.

Hope you enjoy it,

Kirsty xx
Helpful links:

Website: kirstydee.com
Work with me: https://kirstydee.com/shop/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KirstyDeeUTuber
Instagram/TikTok @KirstyDeeShares

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