Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me

Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me

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  • Let's Stop Blaming Ourselves

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    In this episode, Brenda and Sara share their experiences with narcissistic abuse, focusing on the themes of self-blame, the struggle for self-validation, and the complexities of family dynamics. They discuss the emotional toll of living with a narcissist, the impact on their children, and the journey towards recovery and empowerment. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing manipulation and the need for support in healing from trauma. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of narcissistic abuse, exploring the facade that abusers often maintain in public, the cyclical nature of abuse, and the challenges faced by survivors in recognizing their self-worth. They discuss the hope for change in abusers, the difficulties of therapy for those with narcissistic traits, and the importance of listening to one's intuition. The conversation emphasizes the need for support and understanding among survivors, highlighting that they are not alone in their experiences.

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

    Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

    The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

    We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

    Follow for support and resources:
    Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
    TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
    Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
    Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


    37 min
  • Victim Blaming and the Complexity of Leaving

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     This conversation dives into the complexities of manipulation and control in relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional toll it takes on us. Sara and Brenda share personal experiences of self-blame, the impact of apologies, and the struggle to break free from toxic dynamics. Sara and Brenda reflect on choices made in the past, the importance of teaching children about respect and opinions, and the challenges of victim blaming. The discussion emphasizes the need for forgiveness and acceptance of one's past while recognizing the role of children in the healing process.

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

    Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

    The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

    We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

    Follow for support and resources:
    Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
    TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
    Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
    Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


    27 min
  • Finding Your New Normal After Trauma

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker,' Brenda and Sarah discuss their experiences with narcissistic abuse and the long journey of healing. They explore the complexities of recovery, the importance of validation, and the challenges of recognizing narcissistic behavior. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-acceptance and finding a new normal after trauma, as well as navigating new relationships with caution and awareness. Ultimately, they aim to reassure listeners that they are not alone in their struggles and that healing is possible.

    narcissistic abuse, healing, validation, self-acceptance, new normal, relationships, trauma, recovery, mental health, support

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

    Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

    The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

    We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

    Follow for support and resources:
    Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
    TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
    Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
    Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


    25 min
  • You're Not Alone, You're Not Crazy

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    In this episode, Brenda and Sara share their experiences with narcissistic relationships, focusing on the impact of extended family, the roots of narcissism, and the challenges of parenting in such dynamics. They discuss the cognitive dissonance that often occurs in these relationships, the cycle of abuse and love bombing, and the importance of accountability, especially in the context of addiction. The conversation aims to provide support and understanding to those who have faced similar situations, emphasizing that listeners are not alone in their struggles.

     narcissism, narcissistic abuse, family dynamics, healing journey, accountability, cognitive dissonance, love bombing, addiction recovery, trauma bond, relationships

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

    Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

    The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

    We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

    Follow for support and resources:
    Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
    TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
    Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
    Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


    24 min
  • Understanding Narcissistic Rage - Why do their eyes get so dark??

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker', Brenda and Sara delve into their experiences with narcissistic relationships, discussing the nuances of narcissistic rage, the impact on parenting, and the challenges faced by children of narcissistic parents. They explore the self-serving nature of narcissists, the fear and control dynamics in abusive relationships, and the importance of breaking the cycle of abuse for future generations.

    narcissism, narcissistic abuse, relationships, parenting, trauma, recovery, mental health, emotional abuse, self-care, healing

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

    Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

    The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

    We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

    Follow for support and resources:
    Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
    TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
    Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
    Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


    13 min
  • The Beginning - For Each of Us

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker,' hosts Brenda and Sara share their personal experiences with narcissistic relationships, exploring the early signs, the cycle of love bombing, and the emotional manipulation they faced. They discuss the impact of these relationships on their self-esteem and the challenges of moving on to new relationships while recognizing old patterns. The conversation highlights the importance of healing and support in recovery from narcissistic abuse. 

    narcissism, healing, relationships, love bombing, manipulation, therapy, recovery, trauma bond, emotional abuse, support groups

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


    27 min
  • Am I Making This Sh*t Up??

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    In this episode, Brenda and Sarah share their experiences with narcissistic relationships, exploring the complexities of emotional abuse, self-doubt, and the impact of childhood on their perceptions. They discuss the manipulative behaviors of narcissists, the role of addiction, and the importance of recognizing one's own reality amidst gaslighting. The conversation emphasizes the journey of healing and the significance of friendship in overcoming trauma. 


    narcissism, relationships, trauma bond, self-doubt, gaslighting, addiction, recovery, healing, emotional abuse, friendship

    Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
    is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

    Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

    The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

    We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

    Follow for support and resources:
    Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
    TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
    Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
    Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


    30 min
  • Episode 2 - "Am I Making This Sh*t Up?"

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker', Brenda and Sara delve into the complex and often painful experiences of surviving narcissistic abuse. They share personal stories that highlight the self-doubt and manipulation that often accompany such relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one's feelings and trusting one's instincts. The conversation also touches on the healing journey, the impact of family dynamics, and the process of reclaiming one's identity after leaving an abusive partner. Understanding self-doubt, manipulation and control in relationships, and family dynamics when a narcissistic is part of the equation.

    narcissistic abuse, self-doubt, manipulation, healing journey, family dynamics, trauma bond, emotional abuse, recovery, mental health, relationships

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


    39 min
  • The Beginning - For Each Of Us

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    In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker', hosts Brenda and Sara share their personal experiences with narcissistic relationships, exploring the early signs, the cycle of love bombing, and the emotional manipulation they faced. They discuss the impact of each their relationships with their shared narcissist on their self-esteem and the challenges of moving on to new relationships while recognizing old patterns. The conversation highlights the importance of healing and support in recovery from narcissistic abuse.

    Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.


    27 min

About Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me

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Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist’s Ex and Me is a bold and deeply personal podcast where two women, both survivors of the same narcissistic partner, come together to share their…