Is your January off to a rough start? Did you set New Year's Resolutions or goals for the month, and then all the sudden it's February 1st, you're looking back and you're feeling some type of way about the progress you did, or didn't, make?   Don't worry, we have all been there.  What's in the past doesn't matter now, it's what you do next that matters!    Join Kyla & Chelsey as they discuss a few strategies for moving forward when you don't hit the goals you set for yourself.   Remember what we always say, it's not about the destination, it's about the journey you take to get wherever it is that you're going.   Grow through what you go through!    If you enjoyed this episode, we encourage you to share it on your social media, tag us in it and leave us a written review on Apple podcasts. We LOVE being able to engage with, get to know and learn from our listeners and we want to be sure we keep the relationship a two way street - so we look forward to hearing from more of you <3

On this week's episode, join the girls as Kyla and Chelsey discuss a topic that's harder than most to talk about.

  As you listen, you will hear stories of times that both of the girls have found themselves suffering from victim mentality and the effects it has had on their lives, both personally and professionally.   They discuss victim mentality in the workplace, in social media and in personal lives and how problematic it can become if one doesn't get help for it directly.    They go on to talk about personal development and how it saved them, but also how you have to be deliberate in making sure that the personal development you're doing is actually targeted towards specific problems you're dealing with in your life.    "At the heart of the victim's wounded emotions is the feeling of powerlessness, feeling unable to make healthy choices in circumstances and relationships."   The cry of a victim's heart is often, "Have mercy on me, Lord, for I am faint; heal me, Lord, for my bones are in agony." - Psalm 6:2   If you enjoyed this episode, we encourage you to share it on your social media, tag us in it and leave us a written review on Apple podcasts. We LOVE being able to engage with, get to know and learn from our listeners and we want to be sure we keep the relationship a two way street - so we look forward to hearing from more of you <3
 

Follow the bouncing ball! 

  After an unexpected two week hiatus, Kyla & Chelsey are back and per usual, they've got a lot to say.   As the girls talk goal setting and walk through their own processes when it comes to goal setting, they talk about different goals they have for the year, how they plan to get there and discuss some different goal setting strategies you can implement yourself!   Chesley shares a strategy she likes to implement when setting goals of her own and how you can decide if your goal is a "good" goal and that's by determining whether or not it's a SMART goal. What does that mean? A SMART goal is a goal that is specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-bound.   Goal setting helps motivate you to turn your vision of this future into your reality.   The girls discuss how setting goals helps trigger new behavior to help guide your focus and maintain your momentum.   If you have followed along with this week's episode, please leave us a written review. We love to engage with our listeners so if you're not already following both Kyla ( @kylagrass_ ) and Chelsey ( @chelseyyy_n ) on Instagram, go give them both a follow and say hello!    Thank you so much, from the bottom of our hearts, for being on this journey along with us <3

On this week’s episode, join Kyla & Chelsey as they talk about some of the hardest things and moments in their lives that have brought them to the point in life where they now see their past (and current) struggles as their main source of motivation.    They touch on how they know oftentimes people think that motivation is some new, catchy thing that has to be refreshed each and every day for someone to stay consistent and keep pushing forward toward their goals, but Kyla & Chelsey share with us a different perspective.    Have you ever been in the check out line, checking your bank account balance and adding up your grocery total to see if you need to put something back? Have you ever been in the checkout line and your card gets declined - where you either have to make a desperate phone call for your spouse to transfer money or you have to leave your goods and walk away? Have you ever started a workout program because you despise the way you look, so you think you’re starting it to punish your body and yourself into getting into shape?   Have you ever struggled for money in the way that you’re selling belongings on the side, asking for odd and end jobs to help make a little cash, or donating plasma just because it pays well?    We’ve all been there, in one way or another, and most of us have been there in multiple ways.    Listen as Kyla & Chelsey give their advice for how to get through these times mixed with a little encouragement as to how you can too.    If you haven’t already, please leave a written review on Apple Podcast! If you’re listening to this episode, share it to your social media and tag Kyla & Chelsey so they can see!    IG: @kylagrass_ & @chelseyyy_n 

On this week’s episode of UnapologeticallyHER, join the girls as they talk about the all too common I’ll just wait until the first of the year mentality.    What’s the significance of waiting until the first of the year? Is a “clean slate” really a thing? What’s the difference between today and a random Thursday two weeks from now?    Short answer? Nothing. When you tell yourself you’re going to start something at the beginning of the new year, especially a few weeks out, then that’s nothing more than an excuse to procrastinate.    Whether you’re starting a business, a workout program, cleaning up your nutrition habits or making another don’t wait, it’s not benefiting you or anyone else!    Make sure you follow us on Instagram @kylagrass_ and @chelseyyy_n

On this week's episode, Kyla & Chelsey dive into something they have learned over the last several years and that is how important it is to discover your why.

  They're not talking about the surface level 'why' where you say it's because you "want to look good" or "want to feel good" or "be around for a long time for your kids" why. They're talking about that deep why, the one that keeps you awake at night, the one that if you think about it long enough it will bring tears to your eyes to imagine accomplishing exactly what you're going after.   Chelsey shared a quote, "Nothing gives a person inner wholeness and peace like a distinct understanding of where they are going." by Thomas Oppong, and the girls discuss what they think of this quote and how it is applicable to life.    Kyla & Chelsey discuss the thought that people who have a sense of purpose are often seen as unstoppable, capable of shaping their lives however they want, and that having an unclear why often leaves people unmotivated and unfulfilled, wasting a lot of time.   They touch on their love for the book The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy.   They share several great takeaways worth listening to and taking note on, so give this episode a listen and let them know what you think!   If you enjoyed this episode, they would love it if you would take a few moments of time to leave them a review on the Apple Podcast app and/or share a story with your friends on your Instagram. Both girls discuss how valuable these reviews are and how great they make them feel when people take the time to share their enjoyment of the UnapologeticallyHER Podcast <3 

Join us this week as Kyla & Chelsey dive into the topic of raising a business and raising babies at the same time.    In all the years the girls have been mom’s, one of the things they’ve noticed most consistently is that when a mom is told to do something for herself, it’s almost always meant as a surface level form of “self care”.    For both Kyla & Chelsey, it was something they had to figure out and navigate on their own. They wanted more than time alone to go to the store, a pedicure or a night out with friends.    From first hand experience, the girls discovered that what they actually needed - was something FOR themselves. Something that sparked creativity. Something that sparked passion. Something that fueled their hearts and set their souls on fire. Something that was FOR them - not their families - just them.    Ultimately, as with anything else, that something is going to benefit their families, of course, but that’s not what they mean when they say that as mom’s it’s so important to do/have something for themselves.    Tune in to this weeks episode to hear more!   Let them know what you think of this weeks episode. Share the episode and tag the girls on your Instagram story. Leave them a written review. Shoot them a DM!    Let them know you’re listening! 

After a lengthy series about marriage the girls, Kyla & Chelsey, are back this week to change the subject and talk about a topic near and dear to their hearts.    Join them as they share their hearts, their experiences, ask questions and while trying to understand other perspectives, help give you honest and truthful information based off their experiences.    It’s 2021, social selling is huge and such a wonderful opportunity for so many people to bring an income into their lives. Listen as Kyla & Chelsey talk about the benefits of social selling, bust some myths surrounding it and explain that social selling shouldn’t just be acceptable for in/famous influencers online.    It’s time to stop the judgement and full send your support for woman and men everywhere, including the ones who have taken this concept of social selling and changed their lives and the lives of their families.    Listen as we go over details for a little holiday giveaway and don’t forget to enter for your chance to win!    Remember you can always find us on Instagram at @kylagrass_ and @chelseyyy_n and our DM’s are ALWAYS open     If you enjoyed this podcast, please give us 5 stars and write a written review. We truly love our platform to bring you guys this podcast each week and would love to hear your feedback/support! 

Have you ever looked at a couple who have been together X number of years and wondered how they've managed to stay together for all those years?

  Join Kyla & Chelsey as their good friends Ashley & Ryan Allen pop in to talk about their marriage and how they've managed to overcome adversity over the years.   Ashley, you may remember, has been on the podcast before, and the girls wanted to bring her back to tell the story of her and Ryan's marriage, things they've been through, and battles they've gone through that have allowed their marriage to withstand the test of time.   You can find Ashley on Instagram at @ashleyanallen and on her podcast, The FUELher Podcast. The FUELher Podcast   The podcast Ashely briefly spoke about is titled, The Hustle Sanely Podcast, with host Jess Massey. The Hustle Sanely Podcast   If you enjoyed this episode, please go show our girl some love and let us know what you thought!   --

 

Join us this week as Chelsey is joined by special guest, her husband, Christian and they chat through how to keep the spark alive in marriage amongst everything else they have going on.    If you know the Nicodemus family, you know they lead a busy life full of all the things they love.    It’s been a learning curve over the last 10 years as they’ve had to navigate many life changes and keep their marriage alive to survive it all.    Listen as they run through some tips, rather suggestions, to help you learn some of the things they’ve learned along the way, without the trial and error portion.    It’s not perfect, and it never will be, but perfection isn’t ever the goal - the goal is to be healthy and happy, and that part, I think they’ve gotten down