Kristen is 43 and finds herself in a time of tremendous personal growth. She found herself dating someone whose better than others, yet, not quite right either.

She had common thoughts like "if I only I could change him, than he'd be marriage material..." hoping for something that was highly unlikely. 

Her man didn't make many promises but he did seem to lead her on and ask for more than she was comfortable giving ... only to soon thereafter say "I'm sorry, I wish I could be that man for you, but I can't".

Book-ended between the place of longing, biological and spiritual pressures and self-confidence, she gradually built up the inner-strength needed to tell him NO MORE.

It's a tough spot - where loneliness begs for relief, and your heart is quick to ignore the gentle voice of intuition warning you of danger.

This year or so of dating someone, however, was not without purpose. She had some positive take aways. Most important of all, Kristen has become a stronger individual, a stronger woman and a stronger partner for the man that will choose her and only her!

They were never an "official" couple. They met on a dating app and for Elise, there were a lot of firsts: the first partner that was a woman, the first person that accepted her ace identity with understanding, the first woman she was genuinely sexually attracted too...

Over a year went by before it was clear this wasn't going to evolve into something more. Not a bite of reality Elise wanted to digest. Though they've cut off all communication, Elise hasn't found the closure she needs to fully move on. 

The conversation goes beyond the topic of her breakup. We talked about dating and she discovered her lack of attraction to men, how she navigated a breakup with her first boyfriend. We talked about learning to accept yourself with all the different ways we try to fit in to the world and so much more!

By the end of our conversation, we find the core of what's holding her back and how she can find liberty! Listen to hear what happens.

Sometimes our first relationship leaves a near eternal impact on our day to day in the here and now. Annie's first love started out as a Dragon ball z character. This unlikely match evolved from mystery, to pen pals and eventually to love. 

They had a long distance relationship between Florida and Connecticut. With the distance it took time to get to see and embrace the inherent inter-personal problems. In spite of the romance, the trust and friendship - deep down they knew it wasn't going to work. 

Even when we might know the truth, it doesn't mean we're willing to see it. Two years after their breakup, while spring cleaning, the truth hit home like a ton of bricks. Listen as Annie and I discuss the next steps to gain closure.

Keri and I mined through a life changing relationship she had with an abusive ex-boyfriend. Her gut told her no but her infatuation ignored that still-small voice deep inside. 

It's been awhile a since they were together yet there are still lingering injuries from what happened between them. This conversation is rich with heart-felt memories, insights, wisdom, lessons learned and encouragement! 

You will find a piece of yourself somewhere along the way in our chat. Listen and allow your heart to be uplifted and inspired - and - find your way through suffering to hope!

Kerry and I's conversation flowed with casual ease and laughter. Can you start over in your mid-30's as a divorcee and single Mom? Yes!

What about navigating the mystery and terrors of online dating? Kerry shares about diving in, finding new liberties and navigating the disappointments and hopes of possible new relationships. 

Listen to be entertained and inspired.

Jason is a soft spoken and responsible young man whose ultimate goal was to keep a smile on his girl’s face. 

He shares about how he comprised his own values by allowing his girlfriend to talk him into group sex. 

Disclaimer, he talks openly about their sexuality. This was a tough story to hear, Jason struggles with standing up for himself. Listening to someone get repeatedly taken advantage of is painful. There are a lot of lessons learned and with Jason’s humble mindset and desire for personal growth - you’ll find yourself rooting for his success!

Lindsey's story is sharp with wisdom, moments of relatability and insight. In less than a year's time with her boyfriend, she thought they would get married. 

After one fight, he said "he wanted out". Was that just emotion or did he mean it? They stayed together, but it was rocky, eventually leaving them estranged.

Lindsey found herself in second and shorter unhealthy relationship leaving her wrecked with questions. Questions that have led to healing, positive life changes and hope!

Stacey is 44, an Asian refugee who grew up in New Zealand and made his way to America. Our conversation is casual and insightful. As an Asian man, sharing feelings and opening up about personal experiences is out of the ordinary. 

He fell in love with Sarah, they thought they would marry but ended up going their separate ways. Stacey shares about how their mindsets, world views and cultural differences kept them from taking the next step. He hard on himself and lives with the guilt of hurting her.  It's been three years, of course he thinks of her, but he know sees the most painful heartache of his life as one the greatest life experiences he's been through - setting him on a higher path of life and love. 

Chris found a match that gave him hope he'd soon be starting a family of his own. Resilient to overcome the challenges of a long distance relationship, they tried their best to make 'til death do us part' happen. 

However, there were significant choices each of them had to make independently, faster then they could manage mentally and emotionally. The pressures of building a life together collided through a proposal, his lady buying a house and Chris accepting a new job in a whole new state. Even though she said yes, their other choices cemented them in a perpetual long distance situation. 

It just wasn't working and now they're moving on - or at least - trying to. Listen to hear Chris's journey and the insights he gains to help him let go.

She's 43 years old and is now breaking new ground for her self-discovery. 

The catalyst, meeting "the teacher", a man who is everything she could hope for but not everything she expects.

We get to hear her story as she's in the tick of her recent breakup, still uncertain if she's doing the right thing.

In this conversation, we explore how her faith as a Christian conflicted with her love for an atheist. We find out it's not their spiritual differences that keep them apart. FEAR, is the all too common culprit. Listen with compassion and an open mind as not all stories end conclusively.

Perhaps, there is more for us to find out regarding Mel's future love life.