Uncharted Catholic Man

By Craig and JonahReligion & Spirituality Christianity

Uncharted Catholic Man episodes

February 02, 2025 Is Catholic Morality The Cure Or The Culprit For Sexual Wounds In Marriage? (episode 271)
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00:00:30 - Introduction and Marital Disputes
00:00:52 - Ice Fishing Plans and Neighbor's Chores
00:01:18 - Communication Gaps in Relationships
00:02:00 - Christmas Gift Disappointments
00:03:21 - Understanding Spousal Needs
00:04:19 - The Role of Humor in Marital Disputes
00:05:09 - Discussion on Sexual Wounds and Healing
00:06:09 - Introduction to Renzo and Monica Ortega
00:11:05 - The Importance of Communication in Podcasting
00:15:20 - Struggles with Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
00:16:51 - The Impact of Infertility on Relationships
00:18:32 - Balancing Physical Needs and Emotional Connection
00:21:22 - The Role of Theology of the Body
00:23:36 - Navigating Guilt and Intimacy
00:25:22 - The Complexity of Marital Intimacy
00:28:25 - The Importance of Intimacy for Marriage
00:30:36 - The Challenges of Catholic Marriages
00:32:31 - The Role of Intimacy in Thriving Marriages
Join Craig and Jonah in this engaging episode as they dive into the complexities of marital communication and the humorous disputes that arise in relationships. From ice fishing plans gone awry to the unexpected gifts that can lead to misunderstandings, they explore the nuances of how couples express their feelings and needs.
The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss insights from the podcast "To Become Family" featuring Renzo and Monica Ortega, who share their experiences with intimacy, sexual wounds, and the challenges of maintaining a healthy marriage. Craig and Jonah reflect on the importance of open communication and the impact of societal expectations on marital intimacy.
Tune in for a candid discussion about the realities of marriage, the struggles couples face, and the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments.
47 min
January 19, 2025 Should The Church Ordain Gay Priests? + NFP Mile High Adventures | Episode 269
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00:00:30 - Coyote Mating Season
00:01:00 - Strange Dreams and Time Travel
00:05:20 - Trip Concerns and Family Planning
00:06:50 - Baby Clothes and Sentimental Value
00:08:30 - NFP Challenges with Kids
00:12:00 - Italian Bishops and Homosexuality in the Priesthood
00:15:00 - Chastity and the Priesthood
00:17:30 - Concerns About Sexuality and the Priesthood
00:19:00 - The Impact of Sexual Orientation on Chastity
00:21:30 - The Church's Stance on Gay Priests
00:22:00 - The Complexity of Sexuality in the Church
00:24:30 - Declining Mass Attendance
00:25:00 - Birth Control and Church Teachings
00:27:30 - Personal Experiences with Family Planning
00:28:00 - The Role of Empathy in Church Teachings
00:30:30 - Fundamental Option and Family Planning
00:31:00 - The Impact of Tradition on Modern Life
00:33:30 - Menopause and Family Planning
00:34:00 - The Oldest Recorded Pregnancies
00:36:30 - Reflections on Aging and Parenthood
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
51 min
January 12, 2025 Episode 268: This One Time, at Catholic Camp: Talking to Kids about the Birds, the Bees, and NFP
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00:00:30 - Confession and Family Dynamics
Discussion about a missed confession and family responsibilities.
00:01:30 - Eucharistic Adoration Experience
Sharing a personal experience during Eucharistic Adoration and a meaningful encounter.
00:05:30 - Reflections on Marriage
Exploring the significance of commitment in marriage and personal reflections.
00:07:30 - NFP Challenges
Discussing the complexities and challenges of Natural Family Planning (NFP) in daily life.
00:12:30 - Travel and Family Life
Navigating travel plans and their impact on family dynamics.
00:15:30 - Planning for the Future
A couple's approach to planning their year and setting goals for their marriage.
00:19:30 - Talking to Kids About Sex
Addressing the challenges of discussing sexual education with children in a Catholic context.
00:23:30 - Struggles with Church Teachings
Personal reflections on disagreements with church teachings and the implications for parenting.
00:25:30 - The Nature of Sin and Justice
Debating the nature of sin, justice, and God's mercy in relation to human actions.
00:30:30 - The Role of Prayer
Discussing the importance of prayer in maintaining a relationship with God and avoiding scrupulosity.
00:35:30 - The Trad Movement Concerns
Concerns about the traditionalist movement within the church and its implications for future generations.
00:40:30 - Mel Gibson's Controversial Views
Discussion about Mel Gibson's views on the Catholic Church and his personal life.
00:45:30 - Reflections on Wealth and Struggles
Contemplating the challenges faced by wealthy individuals and the nature of suffering.
00:52:30 - Faith and Natural Disasters
Exploring the intersection of faith, judgment, and natural disasters in the context of personal stories.
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
1 hr 6 min
January 05, 2025 Episode 267: Natural Family Planning: So Easy a Caveman Could Do It.
In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive into a variety of thought-provoking topics, including the dynamics of marriage, the impact of family structure on success, and the challenges of parenting. They reflect on their own experiences with family life, discussing the balance between raising children and maintaining a healthy relationship with their spouses.
The conversation takes a turn as they explore the nuances of Natural Family Planning (NFP) and its effects on intimacy and desire within marriage. They address the question of whether NFP can create hesitancy in women to initiate intimacy due to the fear of unintended pregnancies. Craig and Jonah share personal anecdotes and insights, making this episode relatable for anyone navigating the complexities of family life and relationships.
Join us for a candid discussion filled with humor, personal stories, and valuable insights into marriage, parenting, and the realities of using NFP.
Topics Covered:
- The impact of family structure on children's success
- The dynamics of marriage and emotional well-being
- The challenges of parenting in large families
- Natural Family Planning and its effects on intimacy
- The importance of communication and understanding in relationships
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! We’d love to hear your experiences and perspectives on these topics.
Thank you for tuning in!
Timestamps:
00:00:30 - Introduction and Live Streaming
00:01:44 - High School Memories and Unique Stories
00:03:21 - Impact of Parental Marital Status on Success
00:04:07 - Cold vs. Hostile Environments for Children
00:04:57 - The Role of Love in Marriage
00:06:15 - Current Marital Happiness and Dynamics
00:09:33 - The Challenges of Parenting and Family Size
00:11:29 - Reflections on Having Children
00:12:35 - Advice on Timing for Marriage and Kids
00:16:36 - The Stigma of Waiting to Have Children
00:19:46 - Encouraging Couples to Wait Before Starting a Family
00:20:35 - Discussion on Early Marriage and Parenthood
00:22:44 - The Changing Landscape of Marriage and Family
00:25:49 - NFP, Female Desire, and Initiation
00:31:24 - The Dynamics of NFP and Intimacy
00:35:25 - Humor in Marriage and Parenting
00:41:38 - Theoretical Changes to Human Reproduction
00:47:29 - Closing Thoughts and Future Polls
52 min
December 29, 2024 Episode 266: Confession Dilemmas, Christmas Miracles, and Abundant Abstinence.
Welcome to another episode of the Uncharted Catholic Man podcast! Join Craig and Jonah as they reflect on their Christmas experiences, including family traditions, the challenges of raising kids in the faith, and the unique dynamics of confession.
In this episode, they discuss:
- Jonah's family's Christmas celebrations and the joy of spending time together.
- The differences in how men and women experience confession and the complexities of discussing sin.
- The importance of building trust and personal connections with children, especially during their teenage years.
- The challenges of using Natural Family Planning (NFP) and the realities of married life.
- The need for open conversations about faith, relationships, and the struggles that come with them.
- They also touch on the importance of community and support, especially for those navigating the complexities of Catholic teachings in modern life.
Tune in for a candid discussion filled with humor, insights, and relatable experiences that many families face. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and join our Discord community for more engaging conversations!
Email us: [email protected]
Thanks for listening, and have a great day!
00:00:00 - Holiday Reflections
00:01:00 - Christmas Eve Mass
00:02:00 - Confession Experience
00:04:00 - Different Perspectives on Sin
00:06:00 - Raising Kids in the Faith
00:08:00 - Quality Time with Kids
00:12:00 - Christmas Day Celebrations
00:16:00 - Santa Traditions
00:19:00 - NFP and Family Planning
00:24:00 - Engaging with Different Perspectives
00:30:00 - Need for Open Dialogue
00:35:00 - Community and Support
00:40:00 - Reflections on Life Experiences
00:46:00 - Grumbling and Gratitude
Christmas
Mass
Confession
Catechism
NFP (Natural Family Planning)
John Farrell
Christopher West
Matt Fradd
49 min
December 22, 2024 Episode 265: Are Women Treated Unfairly in Confession?
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Welcome to another episode of our podcast with Craig and Jonah! In this lively discussion, we dive into a variety of topics, starting with Jonah's amusing grocery store encounter that leads to a conversation about societal norms and perceptions.
We explore the dynamics of marriage, intimacy, and the challenges many couples face, particularly in the context of Catholic teachings on Natural Family Planning (NFP) and the expectations surrounding it. Craig and Jonah share their personal experiences and insights on the struggles of maintaining intimacy while navigating the complexities of family life.
The conversation takes a thought-provoking turn as they discuss the traditional views on celibacy versus marriage, referencing the Council of Trent and the implications of these teachings in modern relationships. They also touch on the unique challenges faced by men and women in the context of confession and the differing experiences that come with it.
Join us for a candid and humorous exploration of these important topics, as we aim to shed light on the realities of marriage, intimacy, and faith in today's world.
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00:00 - Introduction
00:23 - Grocery store encounter
01:37 - Marriage and intimacy challenges
03:28 - Traditional views on NFP
07:00 - Celibacy vs. marriage discussion
20:08 - Confession experiences
30:06 - The complexities of St. Joseph and the Virgin Mary
43:23 - Conclusion and holiday wishes
Thank you for listening, and we hope you enjoy the episode!
47 min
December 15, 2024 Surviving The Desert Of Desire: Navigating NFP With A Relentless Toddler. (Episode 264)
Join Craig and Jonah in this episode as they dive into the complexities of modern relationships, parenting, and the challenges of intimacy amidst the chaos of family life. Jonah shares his experience of watching a thought-provoking movie about an AI robot that complicates marital dynamics, leading to a discussion on the implications of technology in our personal lives.
The duo also explores the realities of Natural Family Planning (NFP) and the struggles that come with it, especially when raising energetic young children. They candidly discuss the ups and downs of intimacy, the impact of parenting on relationships, and the humorous yet relatable moments that arise in family conversations about how babies are made.
Tune in for a mix of laughter, reflection, and real talk about navigating marriage and parenthood in today's world. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!
Topics Covered:
- The plot of the movie "Subservient" and its implications
- The role of AI in modern relationships
- Navigating intimacy while parenting young children
- The realities of Natural Family Planning
- Humorous family moments and conversations about sex education
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Timestamps:
00:00:30 - Introduction and Streaming Dilemma
00:01:30 - Movie Review: Subservient
00:03:00 - Ethics of AI Relationships
00:04:30 - Intimacy and Parenthood
00:06:30 - The Reality of Parenting
00:09:30 - The Role of AI in Parenting
00:11:30 - Choosing Between AI Options
00:13:00 - Struggles with NFP
00:15:30 - Upcoming Trip and Weaning
00:18:30 - Travel Plans and Family Dynamics
00:20:30 - The Seasons of Parenting
00:22:30 - The Challenge of Intimacy
00:25:30 - Quality of Relationships
00:30:30 - Children's Curiosity About Life
00:37:30 - Navigating Conversations with Kids
00:38:30 - Conclusion and Encouragement
Craig
Jonah
Netflix
Subservient (movie)
Megan Fox
AI robot
NFP (Natural Family Planning)
Pope
Catholic Church
Children
Sperm
Egg
Y chromosome
X chromosome
Birth control
Contraception
Christopher West
40 min
December 08, 2024 Episode 263: The Great Catholic Abstinence Experiment: Will He Make It to the End?
Join Craig and Jonah in this insightful episode as they dive deep into the journey of self-mastery and abstinence. Craig shares his personal experience of overcoming temptations and the surprising benefits he's discovered along the way.
In this episode, they discuss:
- The challenges and triumphs of a 20-day total abstinence trial
- The psychological aspects of self-control and belief
- The impact of abstinence on marriage and intimacy
- Strategies for navigating the complexities of Natural Family Planning (NFP)
- The importance of communication and setting expectations with partners
Whether you're curious about self-mastery, navigating relationships, or simply looking for inspiration, this episode offers valuable insights and a candid look at the struggles and victories of personal growth.
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more episodes! Share your thoughts in the comments below—have you ever tried a similar challenge?
Thank you for listening!
Timestamps:
00:00:00 - Beginning
00:01:17 - Progress on Abstinence Trial
00:02:20 - Stubbornness and Self-Mastery
00:03:44 - Temptation and Self-Control
00:04:47 - Communication with Spouse
00:07:56 - Challenges of NFP and Intimacy
00:10:48 - Reflections on the Abstinence Experience
00:12:31 - Desire for Intimacy
00:13:38 - Benefits of Intimacy in Marriage
00:19:52 - Navigating the Ceasefire
00:20:47 - Suggestions for Improving NFP
00:25:46 - Prioritizing Intimacy
00:30:29 - Future Plans and Potential Ceasefire
00:32:38 - The Power of Self-Mastery
00:34:03 - Reflections on Past Failures
00:39:37 - Group Support for Future Trials
00:45:50 - Final Thoughts on Intimacy and Self-Mastery
00:47:13 - Conclusion and Encouragement
48 min
December 01, 2024 Episode 262: NFP: Path of Sacrifice or Cult of Suffering?
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Article discussed: https://chrisdamian.substack.com/p/nfp-culture-sometimes-resembles-a
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
51 min
November 24, 2024 Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?
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As the Uncharted Catholic Man embarks on a personal quest for self-discovery, he reveals his decision to undertake a two-month period of celibacy, exploring the impact it has on his relationship with his wife. Join us as we discuss the ups and downs of NFP, the struggles of abstinence, and the unexpected benefits of taking a break from physical intimacy.
Tune in for a lighthearted yet insightful conversation about love, parenting, and the quest for balance in a busy family life. Will he succeed in his challenge? Find out as they share their experiences and thoughts on relationships, intimacy, and the journey of parenthood.
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!
Topics Covered:
Follow on Twitter for live updates on the journey! https://x.com/CraigOnan/status/1857795947578716463
00:00:00 - Beginning
00:00:30 - Introduction and Family Birthdays
00:01:37 - Funny Birthday Story
00:02:44 - Understanding Women's Psychology
00:03:06 - Quest for Self-Discovery
00:05:20 - Midlife NFP Crisis
00:06:06 - Active Use of NFP
00:07:15 - Challenges of NFP
00:09:12 - Struggles with a Two-Year-Old
00:12:30 - Mental Strain of Abstinence
00:14:40 - Celibacy vs. NFP
00:17:45 - Discussing the Decision with Wife
00:20:47 - Wife's Reaction to Celibacy
00:22:31 - Accountability and Commitment
00:25:44 - Physical and Mental Challenges
00:26:56 - Weird Dreams During Abstinence
00:30:42 - Positive Changes in Relationship
00:32:14 - Importance of Date Nights
00:34:10 - Addressing Relationship Issues
00:37:37 - Concerns About Long-Term Abstinence
00:40:50 - Spiritual and Psychological Aspects
00:42:11 - Future Plans and Predictions
00:45:47 - Reflections on NFP and Relationships
00:50:17 - Public Commitment to Celibacy
00:51:44 - Conclusion and Next Steps
Craig
Jonah
John Farrell
Twitter
NFP (Natural Family Planning)
Marquette method
PMAS (Post-Marital Act Syndrome)
DMT (Dimethyltryptamine)
Christopher West
celibacy
postpartum
Happy Wife School
two months
date night
children
marriage
intimacy
relationship
53 min