Uncharted Catholic Man

By Craig and JonahReligion & Spirituality Christianity

Uncharted Catholic Man episodes

September 29, 2024 NFP: The Art of Dodging Kids and Conjugal Acts (Episode 253)
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00:00:30 - Unlocking a New Level: The Marquette Method
00:01:08 - Reflections on Father Ripperger and Tim Gordon
00:02:15 - The Fallout Between Timothy Gordon and Taylor Marshall
00:03:20 - Timothy Gordon's NFP Course Update
00:04:32 - @AnnulmentProof 's Unique Perspective on NFP
00:06:04 - Exploring the Marquette Method
00:06:35 - Understanding NFP and Ovulation
00:09:10 - Navigating the Challenges of NFP
00:10:45 - The Benefits of Extended Fertility Windows
00:11:30 - The Complexity of Sexual Ethics
00:12:00 - Chastity and Its Implications
00:19:48 - The Church's Teaching on Solo Acts
00:22:05 - The Realities of Married Life and Chastity
00:30:32 - The Burden of Rigid Rules
00:35:38 - Finding Balance in Catholic Life
00:39:55 - Trusting in God's Mercy
00:42:37 - Podcast Updates and Future Plans
00:45:15 - The Impact of Consistency on Viewership
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
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Marquette Method
NFP (Natural Family Planning)
Father Ripperger
Tim Gordon
Taylor Marshall
John Farrell
Humani Vitae
Onan
Solomon
King David
Catholic Church
Baltimore Catechism
CCD (Confraternity of Christian Doctrine
Catholic Twitter
Trad Wife
Scrupulosity
Sexual Deviance
Conjugal Act
Birth Control
Sexual Chastity
46 min
September 27, 2024 Ice Cream, Intimacy, and the "Fertile Window": Do we actually agree with Timothy Gordon on NFP?
(9.26.24 livestream replay)
Topics Covered:
Does intimacy improve communication or communication improve intimacy?
Love languages and their impact on intimacy and abstinence
Reflections on Timothy Gordon and Father Ripperger's discussion of NFP
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00:02:30 - Life in the Desert
00:03:30 - Improving Communication in Marriage
00:05:30 - Intimacy, abstinence, and the Five Love Languages
00:08:30 - Balancing Love Languages
00:10:30 - NFP and Marital Dynamics
00:12:30 - Timothy Gordon's Surprising Views on NFP
00:20:30 - NFP, Catholic Morality, and the "fertile window"
00:30:30 - The Challenges of NFP
00:40:30 - Couples that Abuse NFP and other imaginary things.
00:50:30 - Josephite Marriages
Timothy Gordon
Father Ripperger
Trent Horn
Pius XII
NFP (Natural Family Planning)
Josephite marriage
Lactobacillus ruteri
Kawasaki
Amish
kefir
raw milk
ice cream
five love languages
acts of service
quality time
physical touch
words of affirmation
gifts
infertility
biological component
marital intimacy
communication skills
marital relationship
grandparenting
fertility window
marital vows
psychological reasons
sociological reasons
financial reasons
Humanae Vitae
Grave Cause
Grave Reason
1 hr 21 min
September 22, 2024 Episode 252: Tied Up in Guilt: The Church's Endless War Against "Self-Abuse"
In this episode of the Uncharted Catholic Man podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities surrounding the topic of masturbation and its moral implications within the Catholic Church. They reflect on the teachings of St. Alphonsus Liguori and explore the historical context of sexual morality, questioning the burden of proof placed on couples regarding their intimate lives.
Join them as they discuss the humorous yet serious anecdotes about saints and their struggles, the lack of clarity in church teachings, and the impact of these teachings on modern marriages. They also touch on the differences in how male and female sexuality has been addressed historically and the challenges faced by couples trying to adhere to strict moral codes.
This episode aims to spark thoughtful discussion and encourage listeners to consider the nuances of sexual morality in the context of faith. Whether you're a devout Catholic or simply curious about the topic, this episode offers a unique perspective that you won't want to miss!
Topics Covered:
- The burden of proof on the Church regarding sexual morality
- Anecdotes about St. Alphonsus Liguori and other saints
- Historical context of masturbation and its moral implications
- The impact of strict teachings on modern marriages
- Differences in the treatment of male and female sexuality
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The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
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St. Alphonsus Liguori
Onan
St. Francis
St. Clement of Alexandria
Humanae Vitae
Casti Canubi
Veritatis Splendor
Catholic Church
44 min
September 18, 2024 Episode 251: From Covenant Church to Boston College: A Wicked Good Journey of Faith
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Craig welcomes Jonathan Heaps, the director of the Bernard J. Lonergan Institute at Seton Hall University, for an engaging discussion on the intersection of faith, philosophy, and morality within the Catholic tradition.
Jonathan shares his journey from evangelicalism to Catholicism, discussing intellectual struggles. The conversation covers evil as privation, sin, moral teachings, Catholic sexual morality, discernment in marriage, and Bernard Lonergan's insights on procreation and moral theology.
Guest's webpage: https://www.jonathanheaps.com/
Bernard J. Lonergan Institute at Seton Hall University: https://www.shu.edu/lonergan/
00:01:32 - Jonathan's Background
Jonathan shares his academic background, conversion to Catholicism, and early influences from evangelical traditions.
00:03:20 - Interdisciplinary Influences
Jonathan reflects on the impact of his philosophy education at an evangelical school and its connection to Catholic thought.
00:04:20 - Common Experiences of Converts
Craig and Jonathan discuss the shared experiences of individuals from non-Catholic backgrounds who convert to Catholicism.
00:06:24 - Crisis of Authority in Evangelicalism
Jonathan explains the challenges faced by evangelicals regarding the sufficiency of Scripture and the search for authority.
00:09:39 - Retention Rates of Converts
Discussion on the retention rates of converts to Catholicism and the factors influencing their commitment.
00:11:15 - Cradle Catholics vs. Converts
Craig shares his experience as a revert to Catholicism and the challenges of questioning traditional teachings.
00:12:01 - Catholic Sexual Morality
Exploration of the complexities and challenges surrounding Catholic sexual morality and the perception of rules.
00:15:40 - Comparing Evangelical and Catholic Ethics
Jonathan contrasts the sexual ethics of evangelical circles with Catholic teachings on marriage and procreation.
00:17:59 - Orthodoxy and Moral Theology
Discussion on the focus of moral theology in both Catholic and evangelical contexts, particularly regarding sexual ethics.
00:22:07 - Lonergan's Approach to Moral Theology
Jonathan introduces Lonergan's perspective on moral theology and the importance of understanding the good.
00:26:25 - Understanding Sin and Moral Good
Discussion on reframing the understanding of sin and moral obligations in light of Lonergan's teachings.
00:28:30 - Lonergan's Critique of Humanae Vitae
Jonathan summarizes Lonergan's private letter regarding Humanae Vitae and his views on the church's authority.
00:31:13 - The Shift in Scientific Understanding
Exploration of the differences between classical and modern scientific ideals and their implications for moral theology.
00:33:33 - Lonergan's Methodology
Jonathan discusses Lonergan's methodology in theology and the importance of engaging with contemporary culture.
00:36:42 - Moral Discernment and Concrete Good
The conversation shifts to the importance of moral discernment and the relationship between rules and concrete situations.
00:40:10 - The Challenge of Moral Fitness
Jonathan emphasizes the need for moral fitness and preparation to do good rather than merely avoiding bad actions.
00:43:39 - Jesus' Teachings on Morality
Discussion on the balance between Jesus' call to perfection and the burdens of moral living.
00:49:26 - Lonergan's Authentic Perspective
Jonathan shares insights on Lonergan's genuine perspective regarding church teachings and moral theology.
00:52:19 - Cultural Engagement and Tradition
Discussion on Lonergan's view of the church's engagement with modern culture and the evolution of moral understanding.
1 hr 7 min
September 15, 2024 Episode 250: Holding Firm: A Stimulating Look at the History of Masturbation in Catholic Thought.
In this milestone episode 250 of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into a topic that has sparked curiosity and debate throughout history: masturbation and Catholic teaching.
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Join us as we explore the historical context of the Church's stance on masturbation, referencing key documents like the Catechism of Trent and the 1999 Catechism of the Catholic Church. Discussing the significance of companionship in marriage, the moral implications of sexual pleasure, and the evolving understanding of human sexuality within the Church.
With a mix of humor and serious reflection, we dive deep into the surprising history of this taboo subject across cultures and religions, with particular emphasis on the evolution of thought in Catholic teaching.
Whether you're a long-time listener or new to our discussions, this episode promises to be enlightening and thought-provoking. Don't miss out on this stimulating conversation!
Topics Covered:
Historical perspectives on masturbation in the Church
The Catechism of Trent vs. the Catechism of the Catholic Church
The moral implications of sexual pleasure
The role of psychology in understanding sexual behavior and culpability
00:01:00 - Episode Milestone and Topic Introduction
Celebration of the 250th episode and introduction of masturbation and Catholic teaching.
00:01:30 - The Missionary to the Masturbators
00:02:10 - Overview of the Catechism of the Catholic Church
Introduction to section 2352 of the Catechism regarding masturbation.
00:02:40 - Constant Tradition and Moral Sense of the Faithful
Discussion on the Church's teaching that masturbation is intrinsically disordered.
00:04:00 - UCAT Catechism Insights
Exploration of the UCAT's perspective on masturbation and its implications.
00:06:00 - Loneliness and Isolation
Discussion on the dangers of isolation and addiction related to masturbation.
00:07:30 - Understanding Lust
Examination of Section 2351 and its definition of lust in relation to sexual pleasure.
00:09:00 - Clarifying Sexual Pleasure
Sexual pleasure and its moral implications for married Catholics.
00:10:30 - Persona Humana and Historical Context
Introduction to the document Persona Humana and its relevance to the discussion.
00:12:00 - Psychological Perspectives on Masturbation
What is the role of modern psychology views masturbation and its implications for moral responsibility according to the Church.
00:14:00 - Critique of Scientific Opinions
The Church's stance on the opinions of psychology and sociology regarding masturbation.
00:16:00 - Pastoral Considerations
How habitual behavior and psychological factors are considered in pastoral care.
00:18:00 - Culpability and Moral Responsibility
Exploration of how psychological factors can diminish culpability in cases of masturbation.
00:20:00 - Criticism of the 1992 Catechism's teaching on Masturbation
Introduction to critiques of the current teaching on masturbation and how Traditionalists believe it leads people astray
00:22:00 - Historical Church Teachings
Discussion on the historical context of Church teachings regarding masturbation
00:24:00 - The Role of Tradition in Teaching
Examination of how tradition influences current Church teachings on sexual morality.
00:26:00 - The Council of Trent and Its Teachings
Overview of the Council of Trent's catechism and its relevance to the topic.
00:28:00 - Exploring the Concept of Effeminacy
Discussion on the historical meaning of effeminacy and its implications for sexual morality.
00:30:00 - Sexual Activity and Reproductive Purposes
Insights into the Church's teachings on sexual activity and its intended purposes.
00:32:00 - Conclusion and Reflection
Wrap-up of the discussion and reflections on the teachings covered in the episode.
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1 hr 19 min
September 11, 2024 Episode 249: Magic Wands and Marital Debt: Speculative Theology Or Heresy?
00:00:47 - Wisdom from an Old Man: Marriage Analogy
00:01:35 - Kids Back in School
00:04:05 - The Wizard of Oz Fight
00:09:15 - Celebrating 500 Subscribers
00:11:33 - Wives and Murder Mysteries
00:14:50 - Trad boy incels
00:19:01 - Controversial Poll Results: Changing Catholic Sexual Morality
00:25:33 - Are Catholics Not Allowed To Discuss Things Anymore?
00:30:51 - Menopause: oasis or mirage?
00:32:56 - Why do you still Promote NFP?
00:35:32 - The Period of Rejection
00:37:59 - Can We Be Frustrated with God?
Welcome to Episode 249 of our podcast! Join Craig and Jonah as they dive into a lively discussion about marriage, parenting, and the complexities of Catholic sexual morality.
In this episode, they share amusing anecdotes about their family lives, including the challenges of bedtime routines and the joys of having kids back in school. Jonah recounts a humorous conversation with an old man who likens marriage to "eating soup with a fork," sparking a deeper conversation about relationships and expectations.
The duo also tackles the topic of Natural Family Planning (NFP) and its impact on their marriages, exploring the nuances of intimacy and communication. They discuss a recent Twitter poll that stirred up some controversy regarding changes to Catholic sexual morality, including birth control and IVF, and reflect on the reactions they received.
As they navigate through these topics, Craig and Jonah emphasize the importance of open dialogue and understanding in marriage, while also addressing the discomfort some may feel discussing these subjects.
Tune in for a thought-provoking and entertaining episode that blends humor with heartfelt insights on marriage, parenting, and faith!
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The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
47 min
September 08, 2024 Episode 248: "Give Me Intimacy Or Give Me Death". Tales from the Heart of the Uncharted Catholic Man
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
47 min
September 04, 2024 No regular UCM episode this week
Link to the Livestream: https://www.youtube.com/live/qegmuU6J_Jk?si=GPmPP9WcOWET0JUd
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
2 min
September 01, 2024 Episode 247: Inquisition of Catholic Man Before His Wedding. Mortuus Ambulans
00:10:10 - Marriage Preparation: Discussion about marriage preparation and reading materials like Casti Connubii and Aquinas.
00:17:40 - Marriage Prep Readings: Conversation about reading Fulton Sheen's "Three to Get Married" during marriage preparation.
00:20:35 - NFP Discussion: Discussion about Natural Family Planning methods and learning about it.
00:24:54 - Future Interviews: Plans for future interviews at different milestones in the marriage.
00:32:20 - Challenges of Marriage: Reflecting on the challenges of marriage and prioritizing the relationship.
00:37:48 - Communication Differences: Exploring differences in communication styles between men and women in marriage.
00:43:02 - Understanding Emotions: Discussion on understanding and supporting each other's emotions in marriage.
00:47:57 - Prioritizing Marriage: Importance of prioritizing the marriage relationship over other responsibilities.
00:52:11 - Reflecting on Marriage: Reflecting on the growth and strength gained from overcoming challenges in marriage.
In this episode, we had a candid and insightful conversation with Sam, a college senior who shared his experiences and thoughts on marriage, engagement, and relationship dynamics. Sam discussed his journey from being engaged to his fiancée, who also grew up in a traditional Catholic background, to their upcoming wedding and marriage preparations.
Sam shared how they met through an online group chat, developed a friendship before dating, and navigated a long-distance relationship. He highlighted the importance of being friends first and how it made the transition to dating smoother. The couple's engagement story was heartwarming, with Sam proposing after a morning mass and a heartfelt speech at a special Marian statue.
The conversation delved into their marriage preparation, including reading materials like Casti Connubii and Aquinas on the nature of marriage. Sam also touched on their decision to prioritize their relationship over potential challenges that may arise after having children. He emphasized the importance of communication, understanding each other's perspectives, and being prepared for the changes that come with marriage and family life.
The discussion also explored the differences in communication styles between men and women, the challenges of balancing work, family, and personal time, and the need to prioritize the marriage relationship amidst the demands of daily life. Sam shared his insights on being a supportive partner, listening without always trying to solve problems, and acknowledging that mistakes and conflicts are a natural part of any relationship.
Overall, the episode provided valuable insights into the complexities of relationships, the importance of communication and understanding, and the ongoing journey of growth and learning within a marriage. Sam's reflections on love, commitment, and the shared journey of carrying each other's crosses offered a poignant and relatable perspective on the joys and challenges of building a strong and lasting relationship.
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
1 hr 5 min
August 28, 2024 Episode 246: Why Men Crave Intimacy And Does Church Teaching Make the Conjugal Act a Need?
03:03 Do men need the conjugal act?
04:56 Does the Church force couples to make the conjugal act a need?
11:15 Twitter Poll: How many NFP couples are using "other acts"?
17:49 The Great Unknown of Catholic Marriage
19:27 Primacy of Conscience in Catholic Marriage
In this episode, Craig and Jonah dive into a candid discussion about the challenges and frustrations of navigating intimacy within a Catholic marriage, particularly in relation to Natural Family Planning (NFP). They share personal experiences, reflections, and insights on the impact of following strict guidelines versus following one's conscience in the context of marital intimacy.
The conversation delves into the complexities of balancing moral teachings with the realities of married life, highlighting the importance of communication, understanding, and mutual respect within a relationship. Craig and Jonah also touch on the evolution of their perspectives over time and the transformation they have witnessed in their marriages.
Join them as they explore the nuances of intimacy, the role of conscience in decision-making, and the pursuit of a thriving Catholic marriage amidst the challenges of NFP. Listen in for a thought-provoking discussion that sheds light on the intricacies of marital intimacy and the journey towards a fulfilling and harmonious relationship.
Don't miss out on this insightful episode filled with honesty, transparency, and valuable reflections on the complexities of Catholic marriage and intimacy. Tune in now for a candid conversation that delves into the heart of marital dynamics and the pursuit of a fulfilling relationship.
The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.
If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]
#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation
22 min