Uncharted Catholic Man

Craig sits down with Cristina, a Colombian native and cradle Catholic, to discuss her journey through faith, family, and the complexities of Catholic teachings on contraception and natural family planning (NFP).

Cristina shares her experiences of moving to the U.S., raising a family, and navigating the challenges of traditional Catholic values in a modern context. She reflects on her upbringing in a conservative family, her husband’s evolving relationship with faith, and the impact of culture on their views about family planning.

Throughout the conversation, they explore the emotional and spiritual struggles surrounding contraception, the importance of open communication in marriage, and the role of conscience in making family decisions. Cristina also shares insights from her family dynamics, including her siblings' varied approaches to NFP and contraception, and the influence of their upbringing on their choices.

Topics Covered:

Cristina's background and family life

The impact of cultural differences on Catholic teachings

The journey of faith and family planning

Personal struggles with contraception and NFP

Insights from family dynamics and sibling experiences

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00:00:00 - Beginning

00:00:30 - Contraception Mentality and Abortion Concerns

00:01:16 - Introduction of Cristina

00:01:44 - Cristina's Background and Family Life

00:03:37 - Husband's Catholic Background

00:05:00 - Differences in Religious Upbringing

00:07:38 - Husband's Practical Approach to Faith

00:08:56 - Contraception Debate in Marriage

00:10:54 - Mother's Perspective on Family Planning

00:12:31 - Cultural Context of Marriage in Colombia

00:15:28 - Access to Contraception in Poor Communities

00:16:46 - Government Intervention in Family Planning

00:18:30 - Religious Awareness of Contraceptive Use

00:19:46 - Socioeconomic Factors in Family Size

00:20:55 - Financial Stability and Family Planning

00:23:15 - Siblings' Approaches to Family and Faith

00:24:34 - NFP and Family Dynamics

00:27:06 - Sister's Experience with NFP

00:29:05 - Brother's Attitude Towards Contraception

00:30:15 - Sister's Adoption Journey

00:32:15 - Marriage Preparation in Colombia

00:35:19 - Expectations Going into Marriage

00:36:34 - First Pregnancy Experience

00:39:24 - Struggles with Catholic Teachings on Contraception

00:41:37 - Evolution of Thoughts on Family Planning

00:45:25 - Desire for More Children

00:47:29 - Confession and NFP Guidance

00:49:47 - Conversations with Priests on Family Planning

00:52:33 - Struggles with Church Teachings

00:53:37 - Reflections on Natural Law and Church Doctrine

Contraception

JP II (Pope John Paul II)

Colombia

South America

Catholic

Opus Dei

Regnum Christi

NFP (Natural Family Planning)

Paul VI

Gestational diabetes

C-section

Couple to Couple League

Turning Point (book)

Confession

Preeclampsia

Celibate

Family planning

Natural law

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Craig and Jonah welcome back Father Carr to discuss the complexities of conscience, morality, and the teachings of the Church. They dive deep into the often contentious topic of contraception, exploring how individuals can form their consciences in relation to Church teachings.

Father Carr emphasizes the importance of understanding the nuances of sin, culpability, and the role of spiritual advisors in navigating difficult moral decisions. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding hell and the motivations behind following Church teachings, challenging the notion that fear should be the primary driver of faith.

Join us as we unpack these critical issues, including:

The role of conscience in moral decision-making

The Church's teachings on contraception and NFP (Natural Family Planning)

The importance of spiritual guidance and confession

The balance between the letter of the law and the spirit of the law

Insights into the historical context of heaven and hell from a Jewish perspective

Whether you're grappling with personal moral dilemmas or seeking a deeper understanding of Catholic teachings, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below

00:00:00 - Beginning

00:00:30 - Introduction to Conscience and Contraception

00:01:13 - Welcome Back, Father Carr

00:02:08 - Understanding Mortal Sin

00:03:04 - Fear of Hell and Its Impact

00:06:27 - Psychology of Motivation

00:07:28 - Scriptural References to Hell

00:08:50 - Narrow vs. Wide Path

00:10:02 - Historical Views on Heaven and Hell

00:10:34 - Fatima and Its Messages

00:12:36 - Understanding Private Revelation

00:15:35 - Struggles with Sexual Morality

00:18:51 - The Role of Confession

00:21:48 - Forming Conscience

00:23:54 - Conscience vs. Church Teaching

00:27:55 - Culpability and Sin

00:30:41 - Humanae Vitae and Contraception

00:32:30 - Personal Context in Church Teachings

00:36:20 - The Challenge of NFP

00:40:30 - Intrinsic Evil

00:43:38 - The Spirit of the Law vs. The Letter of the Law

00:49:10 - The Role of Prayer

00:50:39 - Communication from the Church

00:52:18 - Upcoming Projects and Interviews

The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]

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Contraception

NFP (Natural Family Planning)

Father Carr

Ralph Martin

Saint Augustine

Saint Faustina

Sister Leonora

Daughters of St. Paul

Fatima

Baltimore Catechism

Humanae Vitae

Catholic Church

God

Jesus

Massachusetts

Harvard University

MIT (Massachusetts Institute of Technology)

CatholicAudioMedia.com

WROL (Radio Station)

Divine Mercy Shrine

Saint Maximilian Kolbe

Twitter

Discord

Catholic spirituality

Blasphemy

Mortal sin

Spiritual advisor

Grace

Eternal life

Hell

Heaven

Procreation

Unitive

Sacrament

Spirituality

www.unchartedcatholicman.com

In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities of marriage, intimacy, and the challenges that come with navigating relationships in a Catholic context. They discuss the struggles of balancing desire and abstinence, particularly during periods of Natural Family Planning (NFP), and how these dynamics can create tension in a marriage.

Craig shares his recent experience with fasting and how it impacted his desire for intimacy, leading to a candid conversation about the differences between men and women in these situations. The duo reflects on the teachings of St. Paul regarding marriage and the difficulties of serving both God and a spouse, while also exploring the implications of polygamy and societal expectations.

Join us as we unpack the emotional rollercoaster of married life, the constant push and pull of desire, and the quest for understanding in a relationship. Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode offers insights into the realities of love, commitment, and the unique challenges faced by couples today.

Topics Discussed:

- The impact of fasting on desire and intimacy

- The challenges of NFP and its effects on marriage

- Differences in male and female perspectives on intimacy

- The teachings of St. Paul and their relevance today

- Exploring polygamy and societal norms

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00:00:00 - Beginning

00:00:30 - Discussion of St. Paul’s view on challenges in serving God while married.

00:01:09 - Jonah shares his recent fasting experience and its effect on his relationship.

00:01:34 - Intimacy buildup and frustrations from unmet expectations.

00:02:46 - Sensitive discussions the need for a safe communication space.

00:04:18 - Is Polygamy the solution?

00:05:25 - The Pain of Abstinence vs. Fasting

00:07:27 - Effects of Fasting on Desire

00:09:11 - The Struggle of Detachment

00:10:29 - Reconnecting with Intimacy

00:12:35 - Differences in marital experiences and desires between men and women.

00:15:41 - The Burden of Motherhood

00:16:34 - Constant Background Frustration of Abstinence and NFP

00:17:32 - The Challenge of Commitment

00:18:51 - Intermittent intimacy and the resulting emotional strain.

00:19:42 - Universal Struggles in Relationships

00:23:29 - The Complexity of Marriage, and the added weight of Moral Rules

00:25:53 - Emotional highs and lows linked to marital intimacy.

00:27:44 - Polygamy and Its Implications

00:30:45 - The Burden of Catholic Rules

00:35:20 - Navigating Difficulties in Marriage

00:38:32 - Survival Mode in NFP

00:41:38 - The Search for Thriving Couples

Expresses a desire to find thriving couples amidst marital challenges.

00:46:58 - The Mystery of Marriage

Contemplates marital complexities and gender differences.

00:50:40 - Resignation to the Struggles

Jonah reflects on accepting marital struggles and complexities.

00:53:51 - Conclusion: The Cost of Fasting

Final thoughts on fasting and a preference for intimacy over abstinence.

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In this episode of the podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities of mental health, relationships, and the challenges of communication. They share a powerful story about a friend who faced a life-threatening moment and how a seemingly divine intervention changed everything. The conversation touches on the hidden struggles many people carry and the importance of reaching out to those around us.

Craig opens up about a recent conflict with a neighbor over his dog, leading to a heated exchange that highlights the challenges of neighborly relationships and the pressures of family life. The duo also discusses the significance of intimacy in marriage, the struggles of navigating periods of abstinence, and the impact it has on their overall well-being.

Join Craig and Jonah as they explore these topics with humor and honesty, reminding us all to be kind and attentive to the needs of those around us.

Topics Covered:

Mental health and suicide prevention

The importance of communication in relationships

Navigating conflicts with neighbors

The role of intimacy in marriage

Personal anecdotes and reflections

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00:00:00 - Beginning

00:00:30 - A Close Call: A Story of Hope

00:01:30 - The Weight of Hidden Struggles

00:03:20 - Divine Signals: Listening to the Call

00:05:10 - Understanding the Burdens of Life

00:06:20 - The Complexity of Relationships

00:07:30 - Conflict with the Neighbor: A Dog Dilemma

00:10:30 - Escalating Tensions: The Argument

00:12:00 - Aftermath of the Confrontation

00:15:00 - Navigating Marital Dynamics

00:19:30 - Intimacy and Its Importance

00:21:00 - The Struggles of PMAS

00:24:30 - The Impact of Intimacy on Life

00:27:30 - Debating NoFap and Life Energy

00:30:30 - The Role of Intimacy in Relationships

00:32:30 - The Challenges of NFP

00:35:30 - The Elusiveness of Invincibility

00:37:30 - Conclusion: Reflections on Life and Relationships

Andrew Carnegie

Henry Ford

Napoleon Hill

PMAS (Post-Marital Abstinence Syndrome)

NFP (Natural Family Planning)

Marquette method

communication

boundaries

mental health

burdens

dreams

prayer

love life

marital act

Catholic guilt

In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive into the ups and downs of family life, sharing Jonah's recent experiences from a vacation at the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Albuquerque, New Mexico. They discuss the challenges of parenting, communication in marriage, and the importance of standing up for oneself in relationships.

Join them as they reflect on the dynamics of intimacy after having children, the humorous moments that arise during family outings, and the lessons learned from navigating the complexities of marriage. From dealing with cranky kids to the logistics of travel, this episode is filled with relatable anecdotes and insights that many parents will appreciate.

Topics Covered:

Highlights from the Hot Air Balloon Festival

The importance of communication in marriage

Navigating intimacy and abstinence in relationships

Funny family moments and parenting challenges

Reflections on personal growth and respect in marriage

Tune in for a candid conversation that blends humor with heartfelt advice on maintaining a strong family bond! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below!

00:00:00 - Beginning

00:00:30 - Pre-Marriage Advice

Discussion on the importance of communication about sex and standing up for oneself in marriage.

00:01:09 - Vacation Recap

Jonah shares his experience at the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Albuquerque, New Mexico.

00:02:16 - Hot Air Balloon Safety

Conversation about the safety measures in place during the balloon festival and the potential for accidents.

00:02:57 - Family Dynamics

Jonah reflects on family interactions and the challenges of managing crankiness during the trip.

00:04:54 - Standing Up for Yourself

Jonah discusses a realization about asserting himself in conversations with his wife.

00:06:01 - Travel Challenges

Jonah recounts the difficulties faced while returning from vacation, including luggage issues.

00:07:38 - Staying with Family

Discussion about staying at in-laws' house and the dynamics of sharing a room with the family.

00:08:32 - Desert Periods

Challenges of timing intimacy around family planning and natural cycles.

00:11:15 - Communication in Marriage

Exploration of how communication has improved in their marriages and its impact on intimacy.

00:12:39 - Twitter Debate on Intimacy

Discussion about a viral Twitter debate regarding intimacy after having children.

00:17:17 - The Importance of Communication

The need for open discussions about intimacy to avoid long periods of abstinence.

00:18:31 - Navigating Conversations

Jonah shares a technique for discussing sensitive topics with his wife.

00:20:52 - Humor in Marriage

A light-hearted moment about using a navigation app voice and the idea of a "nagging wife" voice.

00:22:34 - Empty Nest Feelings

Jonah reflects on the experience of having fewer children at home and the freedom it brings.

00:25:37 - Date Night Dynamics

Discussion about the challenges and humor of trying to have a spontaneous date.

00:30:07 - Traveling with Kids

Jonah talks about the difficulties of managing children's sleep schedules during travel.

00:32:31 - Future Travel Plans

Plans for an upcoming trip to Phoenix and the anticipation of time alone with his wife.

00:33:40 - Communication and Intimacy

Jonah reflects on how improved communication has positively affected their marriage.

00:34:45 - Lessons Learned

Final thoughts on the importance of discussing intimacy and standing up for oneself in marriage.

00:37:13 - Upcoming Live Streams

Announcement about future live streams and personal projects on YouTube.

Join Craig and Jonah in this thought-provoking episode as they dive into the complexities of faith, family, and the challenges of Catholic teachings. They discuss the implications of doubt within the church, the concept of marital debt, and the struggles of navigating traditional Catholic values in modern life.

From the realities of Natural Family Planning (NFP) to the pressures of societal expectations, the conversation touches on personal experiences, the role of community in faith, and the nuances of maintaining a Catholic identity amidst differing beliefs.

Craig shares anecdotes about family life, including the challenges of parenting and the dynamics of marriage, while Jonah reflects on the broader implications of church teachings and the experiences of fellow parishioners.

Whether you're a practicing Catholic, someone exploring faith, or just curious about the intersection of religion and everyday life, this episode offers a candid look at the struggles and joys of living out one's beliefs.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!

Topics Discussed:

Doubt and faith in the Catholic Church

The concept of marital debt

Navigating NFP and family planning

Personal anecdotes about parenting and marriage

The role of community in faith

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The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.

Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we dive deep into the complexities of conscience, morality, and the teachings of the Catholic Church. Our co-hosts, Matthew and Essential Catholic, explore their personal journeys navigating the tension between church doctrine and individual conscience.

Matthew shares his extensive background in Catholic theology and philosophy, discussing the dynamic structure of cognition and how it shapes our understanding of right and wrong. He reflects on his experiences as a gay Catholic and the challenges of reconciling personal identity with community expectations.

Essential Catholic adds to the conversation by examining the fractured state of the Catholic community regarding issues like salvation, mortal sin, and the role of conscience. Together, they question the clarity of church teachings and the implications for the laity in their spiritual lives.

This episode tackles pressing questions such as:

What does it mean to follow your conscience?

How do we navigate the tension between personal beliefs and church teachings?

Can one be in a state of mortal sin if their conscience is poorly formed?

Tune in for an engaging discussion that encourages listeners to think critically about their faith and the nature of conscience in the modern world. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!

00:00:00 - Introduction and Technical Setup

00:01:34 - Matthew's Background and Interests

00:04:30 - Personal Experience and Conscience

00:09:56 - Tension Between Conscience and Church Teaching

00:13:44 - Scrupulosity and Personal Struggles

00:14:45 - Introduction of Essential Catholic

00:16:15 - The Puzzle of Catholic Faith

00:18:04 - Contraception and Moral Questions

00:19:28 - Understanding Conscience and Church Teachings

00:20:49 - Divergent Views Within the Church

00:22:54 - The Role of Intelligence in Faith

00:24:41 - Vatican II and the Evolution of Church Teaching

00:26:02 - The Nature of Conscience

00:30:51 - Feelings vs. True Judgment

00:33:12 - Knowledge and Mortal Sin

00:35:36 - The Challenge of Understanding Knowledge

00:37:47 - Salvation and Mortal Sin

00:39:37 - The Impact of Dogma on Belonging

00:41:33 - Credibility vs. Credentity in Belief

00:43:37 - The Complexity of Mortal Sin

00:45:39 - The Role of Baptism in Salvation

00:49:31 - The Relationship Between Knowledge and Sin

00:51:32 - The Church's Understanding of Mortal Sin

00:55:30 - Expectations of the Laity vs. Church Standards

00:56:33 - Conscience and the Question of Free Will

Catholic theology

STM (Sacred Theology Master)

STL (Licentiate in Sacred Theology)

PhD

cognition

philosophical hermeneutics

Saint Irenaeus of Lyon

Joseph Goldbrunner

Lonergan

Aquinas

Pope Francis

Vatican II

Franz Jägerstätter

Martin Luther

Essential Catholic

Catholic community

mortal sin

conscience

contraception

catechism

church teaching

Logos

Victorian era

scientific circles

Holy Communion

purgatory

dogma

grave matter

advertence

intelligence

community

culture

time

place

In this episode of the Uncharted Catholic Podcast, Craig is joined by Midnight Philosopher for a deep and engaging conversation about faith, marriage, and the complexities of navigating Catholicism in today's world. They explore the challenges of raising children within the faith, the impact of cultural shifts on religious practices, and the importance of finding joy in one's spiritual journey.

Midnight shares his unique perspective as a married man in an unequally yoked marriage, discussing the balance between honoring his Catholic upbringing and respecting his wife's beliefs. The duo delves into the themes of love, mercy, and community within the Church, while also addressing the struggles many face with guilt and doubt.

Join us as we tackle tough questions about faith, the role of tradition, and the importance of authentic dialogue in a rapidly changing world. Whether you're a lifelong Catholic or someone exploring the faith, this episode offers valuable insights and a sense of community for those navigating their spiritual paths.

Topics Discussed:

The challenges of raising children in the faith

Navigating an unequally yoked marriage

Finding joy and authenticity in Catholicism

The impact of cultural changes on religious practices

The importance of community and dialogue in faith

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00:00:30 - Struggles with Faith and Parenting

00:01:30 - Introduction of Midnight Philosopher

00:02:30 - Fan Devotion and Community

00:03:30 - Midnight Philosopher's Background

00:05:30 - State in Life and Marriage

00:06:30 - Cultural and Religious Differences

00:08:30 - Navigating Unequally Yoked Marriages

00:10:30 - Finding Common Ground in Faith

00:12:30 - Themes of Love and Forgiveness in Catholicism

00:14:30 - The Role of Structure in Faith

00:16:30 - Community and Tradition in Religion

00:18:30 - Balancing Standards and Individuality

00:20:30 - Navigating the Post-Vatican II Landscape

00:22:30 - Crisis of Identity in the Church

00:24:30 - Optimism for the Future of Faith

00:26:30 - Sharing Faith with Others

00:28:30 - The Importance of Joy in Faith

00:30:30 - Personal Reflections on Faith and Happiness

00:32:30 - The Impact of Suffering on Faith

00:34:30 - Finding Peace in Catholicism

00:36:30 - Raising Children in the Faith

00:38:30 - Navigating Doubts and Spiritual Growth

00:40:30 - The Role of Community in Healing

00:42:30 - Concluding Thoughts on Faith and Dialogue

00:44:30 - Wrap-Up and Future Conversations

The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages.

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected]

#catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

From humorous anecdotes about navigating parenthood to serious discussions about the implications of various birth control methods, we cover it all. We also touch on historical perspectives, including the Majority and Minority Reports from the Vatican, and how they shaped the Church's stance on contraception.

Whether you're a parent, considering family planning, or just curious about the conversation, this episode offers a blend of humor, insight, and thought-provoking dialogue.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!

Special Guest: Midnight Philosopher

Tune in for a fun and informative discussion that challenges conventional views and encourages open dialogue!

00:00:00 - Tech check

00:01:30 - Discussion on Birth Control

00:03:00 - Personal Experiences with NFP

00:05:30 - Speculative thoughts on Birth Control Options

00:08:00 - Vasectomy Considerations

00:10:30 - Health Risks and Birth Control

00:12:30 - Statistics on Contraceptive Use

00:15:30 - Cultural Influences on Birth Control

00:18:30 - NFP vs. Contraception Debate

00:20:30 - Majority and Minority Reports of the 1962 Pope Paul VI Commission on Birth Control

00:25:30 - Historical Context of Birth Control in the Church

00:30:30 - Engaging with Modern Issues

00:35:30 - Moral Implications of Contraception

00:40:30 - The Role of Suffering in Family Planning

00:45:30 - Theological Perspectives on Sexuality

00:50:30 - Final Thoughts on Birth Control and Contraception

NFP (Natural Family Planning)

Birth Control

Vatican II

Pope John XXIII

Pope Paul VI

Humanae Vitae

Casti Connubii

Arcanum

IUD (Intrauterine Device)

Contraception

Conjugal Onanism

St. Alphonsus

Christopher West

Manichaeans

Gnostics

Cathari

New Advent

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)

Original Sin

Catholic Church

Protestant Churches

Mortal Sin

Venial Sin

Contraceptive Methods

Withdrawal Method

Male Condoms

Female Condoms

Sterilization

Hormonal Birth Control

Testosterone

Wet Dream Catchers

Scrotum Swelling

Ice Bath

Marital Debt

Contraceptive Intention

Responsible Parenthood

Fertility Regulation

Pregnancy

Contraceptive Use Statistics

1960s