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Okayyyy girlies… we showed up SICK, DELUSIONAL, and STILL UNENGAGED to bring you this week’s episode 😭❤️‍🔥

This one starts light & funny… and somehow ends in deep therapy-level friendship reflections (classic us). We’re rapid-firing random questions, talking about lessons 2025 slapped us with, dreams for the new year, winning the lottery, and why having the right people around you is the biggest flex of adulthood.

✨ In this episode we talk:
– Pneumonia (??) but make it podcast professionalism
– Finding your people & building real adult friendships
– “I hope your tree bears no fruit” – the wildest passive aggressive insult we didn’t know we needed
– What we’d actually do if we won a BILLION dollars 👀
– Why smaller friend groups = bigger peace
– Our dream lives for 2026, no limits
– And the #1 thing we value in OUR friendship (get ready to cry)

It’s funny, chaotic, honest, and veryyyyy “you had to be there” energy.

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This week, Kodie & Kay go there: what we’ll do for love—and what we absolutely won’t. We unpack how “types” evolve while you heal, why dating outside your usual lane can change everything, and where compromise ends and self-betrayal begins. From religious differences (would you convert?), sober-month promises, long-distance effort, and the “fixer” trap to setting non-negotiables that actually protect your peace. If you’ve ever lowered your standards, dated “potential,” or tried to force a vibe… this one’s for you. Love should expand you, not erase you.

Highlights:

• Dating outside your type (and why your app filters are blocking your soulmate)
• Compromise vs self-betrayal: the exact line to watch
• Non-negotiables we’re never breaking again (no more “fixer” energy)
• Religion, culture & love: would you convert?
• Soft Girl Era unlocked: feeling safe vs feeling challenged
• Flow > force: the fastest gut-check for relationships

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This week, the Unengaged girlies kick off Say No November—30 days of boundaries, detox, and getting brutally honest about what isn’t serving us. We talk alcohol breaks, people-pleasing relapse, dating apps delete, and how it feels to heal in public when your situationship is lurking on your podcast feed. We unpack the “quiet middle” of growth (when life isn’t a crisis but also…not exciting yet), the difference between authenticity vs. aesthetic online, and why your “old you” deserves gratitude—not shame. If you’ve been craving a reset, this is your sign.

Hit play if you’re into: real-time glow-ups, boundary setting, ADHD girl reboots, relationship red flags, fitness resets, and becoming the woman you promised yourself.

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Spooky season gets dark. 🎃 In this true crime deep dive, Kay & Kodie unpack two of America’s most infamous cases — the Zodiac Killer’s unsolved murders and ciphers that haunted California, and Lorena Bobbitt’s shocking story of survival, trauma, and revenge.

You’ll hear the full timeline of Zodiac’s killings, the cryptic letters that taunted police, and the main suspect, Arthur Leigh Allen. Then we switch gears to Lorena’s story — the abuse, the night she snapped, and how the media twisted her pain into tabloid fame before she became a symbol of female empowerment.

In between, we drop viral-worthy hot takes:

• 💫 Which zodiac signs are statistically most likely to kill?
• 🔥 What “red flag” would make you finally snap?
• 🧠 Would the Zodiac Killer get caught in 2025? And would TikTok call Lorena a hero or cancel her?

⚠️ Trigger Warning:
This episode discusses murder, sexual assault, and domestic abuse. Please listen with care. If you or someone you know needs help, support is available 24/7:

💜 U.S. Domestic Violence Support

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
• Chat online: thehotline.org
  
  

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• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
• Chat online: hotline.rainn.org

Keywords: true crime podcast, Zodiac Killer timeline, Lorena Bobbitt story, Arthur Leigh Allen suspect, female rage, spooky season episode, serial killer astrology, control and revenge, domestic violence awareness, Unengaged Podcast

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It’s officially spooky szn and the girls are judging. 👻

Kodie & Kay are ranking 2025’s hottest Halloween costumes for women, men, and couples — from Medusa and Mia Wallace to Maverick, Mojo Dojo Ken, and Morticia & Gomez — and exposing what each costume really says about your dating life.

Expect savage honesty, chaotic games, and zero basic energy as we play:
🔥 Date, Ditch, or Die For — who would you actually take home from the party?
🕸️ Who’s Most Likely To... — ghost you, cry in the Uber, or start a podcast after a breakup?

If you’re searching for unique Halloween costume ideas, couples costumes with chemistry, or just want to know which fit screams “walking red flag,” this episode is your full spooky-season survival guide.

💄 Keywords: Halloween 2025, best Halloween costumes for women, couples Halloween costumes, men’s Halloween ideas, funny costume rankings, spooky season 2025, Barbie & Ken costume, Medusa costume, Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce costume, Wolf of Wall Street costume, Halloween podcast

💋 New episodes every Monday — stay spooky, stay unengaged.

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What happens when two best friends manifest a weekend with Alex Cooper, end up front row at Unwell Vegas, and somehow become part of the show? 😳

This week, we’re recapping the Unwell Vegas Weekend — from the pool parties and Paris Hilton’s DJ set to Heather McMahan calling Kodie out and the entire crowd chanting “Kodie! Kodie!”

It’s manifestation, chaos, and divine timing all rolled into one unforgettable trip. 💫

We talk about:
✨ How surrendering turned everything into magic
🎤 Alex Cooper, the Daddy Gang, and why Unwell Vegas felt like a spiritual retreat
👯‍♀️ The “girl’s girl” energy that made this event different from any other Vegas trip
💋 Full-circle moments, karmic payback, and what “alignment” really feels like
❤️‍🔥 The night that changed everything for The Unengaged Podcast
💌 And yes... a new bombshell has entered the chat — meet “Dream Girl.” 👀

If you’ve ever wanted proof that the universe rewards good energy, this episode is it.

#UnengagedPodcast #UnwellVegas #CallHerDaddy #AlexCooper #ParisHilton #HeatherMcMahan #DaddyGang #UnwellNetwork #Manifestation #VegasRecap #PodcastTok #WomenInPodcasting #Synchronicity #GoodKarma #DreamGirl

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Single, healing, and raising your standards? This episode is your permission slip to treat your single era like the main event. Kodie & Kay get real about the highs (freedom, friendship, saying yes) and the lows (lonely nights, third-wheeling), plus the healing work that actually changes who you attract. We unpack mistakes from the talking stage, breadcrumbing, people-pleasing, setting non-negotiables, and how to know when you’re truly ready for love again (hint: when anyone who shows up is a bonus, not a Band-Aid).

In this episode:

• How to enjoy being single without settling
• Talking-stage mistakes to avoid (no more “Bob the Builder” dating)
• Boundaries, standards & learning to say no
• Healing era must-dos (therapy, routines, self-trust)
• The mindset shift that attracts healthier love
• Why your single season is the best time to design your life

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Keywords: single era, healing after breakup, how to enjoy being single, dating standards, talking stage tips, self love, boundaries, breadcrumbing, attachment, women’s podcast

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This week on The Unengaged Podcast, Kodie and Kay take a raw, funny, and unfiltered dive into how social media is shaping our lives — for better and for worse. From MySpace Top 8 drama and doomscrolling TikTok at 2am, to conspiracy theory rabbit holes, AI filters, and the Mandela Effect, we explore how our feeds influence our self-image, relationships, and even reality.

We break down:
✨ The nostalgia of MySpace playlists & “walkout songs”
✨ Why your Instagram bio might say more than you think
✨ The dopamine hits, comparisons, and curated highlight reels
✨ How conspiracy rabbit holes (Bill Gates’ mosquito farms?! 👀) take over your algorithm
✨ The positive side of social media for business, creativity & connection
✨ Why “your feed is your diet” — and how to curate it with intention

If you’ve ever wondered how much control your FYP really has over your brain, this one’s for you.

🎙️ Hit play, laugh with us, and maybe rethink what you’re scrolling on today.

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Marilyn Lawrence (author, speaker, and intuitive messenger) joins us to break down intuition, energy hygiene, and how to tune into guidance that’s always around you. She shares her real-life origin story — from distracted dating to a spa-day moment that set her on purpose — and gives practical steps everyone can use: daily clearing rituals, how to read subtle signals, and ways to stop getting distracted so messages can come through. Perfect for anyone curious about psychic gifts, angelic guidance, or just wanting to feel lighter and more present. Tune in for actionable takeaways you can try tonight.

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Guests: Marilyn Lawerence — intuitive messenger, life coach, author.
Topics: intuition, energy clearing, angels, grounding practices, real-life stories, practical psychic tools.

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Balance is cute in theory—impossible in real life. This week, we call BS on “work–life balance” and break down a healthier framework: living in seasons. From football season obsession to mom season, lover-girl era, career sprints, and wellness resets—we talk about how to choose your season on purpose, spot the signs it’s time to pivot (burnout, restlessness, new opportunities), and realign without guilt. We also get real about night-owl vs. morning-person rewires, single-to-partner transitions, co-parent logistics, and why love is a daily choice even when your seasons don’t match. Plus, we’re planning our Vegas UNWELL/Call Her Daddy trip (front row!)—help us with pool, show, and club fits.
DM us: What season are YOU in—hustle, healing, love, mom, or me season?
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