"It's kinda sad that my wife’s family is very accepting of me but my family isn't."

 "I don't want to be someone's maybe. I want to be a hell yes."

Do you feel like you get into relationships with the wrong people?

"People have used the bible to negate my existence."

"When a couple TRULY has love at the center of their relationship, you’re not going to be fighting that much. Love is not about controlling the other person. True and healthy love is letting each other be."

As part of our February love series, we have invited Vince Uy to discuss how he came out to his Chinese-Filipino parents, the controversy about having his and his boyfriends' hands blurred on a billboard because they were gay, as well as the contradictions in how accepting Filipinos are of the LGBTQIA+ community.

With every serious relationship I've had, I always thought that I'd had found the one I was going to spend the rest of my life with.

How is being with "the one" supposed to feel? What are you supposed to look for in "the one?" Here were the four questions I asked myself before deciding to get into a relationship with my now-husband.

If there was something that resonated with you, tag us on Instagram @unlearningwithus! We can't wait to hear from you.

As a country, we are obsessed with how our bodies and other people's bodies look. "Hello's" have been replaced with "tumaba ka," and no one talks about how rude it is.

Ida Paras has been in the fitness industry for more than 6 years, and she's coached hundreds of women into loving their bodies through sustainable fitness. She's also the brains behind The Movement Studio, which offers group classes with the perfect blend of cardio and strength.

"My dad said that if I dated a Filipino, he would disown us."

Today we want to talk about Chinese families who don't allow their kids to date outside their race, and the "strategies" we used to overcome them and achieve what all Chinese kids want: parents who accept them.

Some toxic thoughts I had include:

In this episode, I go through these thoughts and talk about how I unlearned them.

You can’t ever win the game of being better than other people, you can only win the game of being a better you.

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