Unlearning Project

Is it not obvious that the confinement we're experiencing as a result of the pandemic is robbing us of the one thing we crave most? Human connection - to feel similar to another, to feel a commonality with another. This lack of connection is skyrocketing mental health issues. We are living through a social experiment, what will the results show & what will they say about this 20 years from now?

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Given the current environment - pandemic, protests, and overall paranoia and fear - it's interesting to compare our current reactions to these situations with the dichotomy of parenting styles. So-called helicopter parents attempt to protect their children from everything, which actually lends them to be more susceptible to injury, hurt feelings, failure, and being misunderstood instead. Is social distancing and obsessive use of hand sanitizer actually leaving our immune systems more at risk?

Ethical, responsible, empathetic children can be raised without being shamed as a sinner, threatened to a sentence in Hell, or praying to God, as is believed by most Judaeo-Christian families in the US. Instead, I believe children are born with an internal compass and inherently know right from wrong. In what other aspects of life does it make sense to follow a book written thousands of years ago?

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The phrase sounds like something backwards and ridiculous, but people fear the consequences of success. We learn when we're young not to outshine our siblings or classmates because it will make them feel bad. As young adults, we're called braggers when we share a win. So we begin to keep our successes a secret, fearing what others will think if we tell them about something great in our lives.

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Our adult lives are colored by the influence of our family of origin. During childhood, we learn behaviors beneficial to us at that time, but as adults, those stories are still running subconsciously and driving our decisions. It's important we stop to realize what those subconscious thoughts are, if they are still beneficial, and choose to surround ourselves with chosen friends who support our growth.

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The personalities of varying family members have inevitably made each of us question our lineage at some point. Relationships with family members have a level of expectation intertwined since you're stuck with them. Friends, on the other hand, are people whose personalities, beliefs, manners, and behaviors you choose to have in your life. When did you notice or feel that you had a choice?

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Creativity is often imagined as this flowing release of innate talent when it's usually quite a challenging and tumultuous process. I never labeled myself as a "creative" and have approached learning skills meticulously so that, in combination, they could be used creatively. Some people do harness creativity and the ability to share it with the world naturally, but that doesn't mean the process comes without challenges.

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Judgment is this sneaky, underlying, natural trait we all have because it's useful to our survival. We judge danger versus safety and joyful experiences against those that are grief-stricken. However, when that judgment is internalized too strongly and results in accidental self-sabotage or when it's projected outwardly with excess which creates distance and misunderstanding between humans, evaluation is needed.

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No matter the dissatisfaction in the present situation, there's a strange level of comfort and security in knowing what we have and remaining in "safety." This is why, as a society, we admire those who have the courage to make leaps of faith, and especially those who do it over and over again, ever up-leveling their impact and experience. Sometimes you just have to be shoved out of the nest to begin to fly.

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In celebration of www.faconfessions.com 's launch in June 2019, we're reflecting back over the past year and highlighting some of our favorite posts, discussing similar, ongoing topics, and we even touch on a few current events (we can't help it!). Can you guess what our favorite topics are? Everything circles back to questioning our personal beliefs, being open to new perspectives, and continuing to seek instead of follow.

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