What do you do when the path you're following suddenly ends at a cliff?

In Episode 152 of the Unleashed Podcast, Brent Henderson shares two unforgettable lessons from the Colorado mountains—one involving a bear trail where God repeatedly redirected his steps, and another where a GPS route led him and his friend Roger toward the edge of a cliff as daylight faded around them.

Both experiences revealed the same powerful truth:

Just because a path seems right doesn't mean it's leading where you think.

Fresh off speaking at his international church convention and teaching from his new book, The Big 5 Mankillers, Brent was struck by the number of people wrestling with the same question:

How do I know if I'm on the right path?

From women brought to tears during a session on purpose, to a man in his thirties who broke down because he didn't know what he was supposed to do with his life, one theme kept surfacing:

Purpose.

Direction.

And the fear of getting it wrong.

In this episode:

• Two Colorado hunting stories with life-changing lessons • Insights from Brent's international church convention and The Big 5 Mankillers seminar • Why purpose is a human struggle, not just a men's issue • The danger of following a path that only seems right • What Proverbs 14:12 teaches about wisdom and direction • How to recognize your Father's voice and trust His leading • Why God usually gives us the next step instead of the whole map

If you've ever felt stuck, confused, discouraged, or unsure of where life is headed, this episode will encourage you to trust God with the next step and follow the path that leads home.

You'll also discover why so many people spend their lives focused on the things they could do and should do, while neglecting the things they must do in order to become the person God created them to be. Because real progress isn't made by doing everything—it's made by doing what matters most.

Because sometimes the greatest danger isn't choosing the wrong destination.

It's following the wrong trail.

For speaking events, resources, coaching, and Brent's new book The Big 5 Mankillers: Declawing the Lies of the Enemy, visit Unleashed.Men.

The book is also available through Warner Press, Amazon, Christianbook.com, and other major retailers.

In Episode 151 of the Unleashed Podcast, Brent Henderson launches into a brand-new chapter following the completion of The Big 5 Mankillers series with one of the most powerful and honest episodes yet: “Dead Men Running.”

After watching the Netflix series Homeland, Brent was struck by how nearly every character in the show was trapped in lies, fear, hidden pain, compromise, and emotional survival. That observation opened the door to a much deeper conversation about the damage unresolved pain can do to the human heart — and how dishonesty slowly robs men of their peace, freedom, and identity.

In this episode:

• Hidden pain and hidden behavior
• Why dishonesty destroys peace
• Emotional burdens men carry silently
• Grace, truth, and spiritual freedom
• What brings dead men back to life

Brent also shares two unforgettable bowhunting stories from Ohio involving giant whitetail bucks, brutal uphill drags through rough terrain with his friends Wade and Tabb, and a shocking encounter with a wounded buck that appeared dead — until it suddenly exploded back to life.

Those stories become powerful metaphors for the burdens men carry, the wounds that knock us down, and the resurrection power of grace that awakens hopeless hearts again.

The episode also includes:

• A troubling dream from a listener
• Brent’s own unsettling dream
• Reflections on shame, truth, and surrender
• A challenge for men to stop hiding and start healing

If you’ve ever felt weighed down by regret, shame, fear, hidden struggles, or emotional exhaustion, this episode will speak directly to your heart.

Because grace doesn’t just forgive dead men walking…

It turns them into dead men running.

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In this milestone 150th episode of the Unleashed Podcast, Brent Henderson closes out The Big 5 Mankillers series with a powerful Memorial Day message on brotherhood, sacrifice, and why men were never meant to fight alone.

After walking through the mankillers of lack of purpose, lack of respect, anger, lust, shame, and fear, this final episode reveals one of the greatest weapons God gives men in the battle against the lies of the enemy: a band of brothers.

Brent shares stories from bear hunts, Colorado storms, Alaska wilderness survival, near-death moments, and the men who showed up when the bottom fell out of his life in 2007. From Band of Brothers to the Indianapolis 500, from Memorial Day sacrifice to spiritual warfare, this episode is a call for men to stop isolating, start showing up, and fight together.

Men don’t just need information. They need transformation. And they need connection.

Grab The Big 5 Mankillers: Declawing the Lies of the Enemy at WarnerPress.org. Free shipping is available through June 8, which is a huge savings for men’s groups, churches, and Bible studies.

It's go time!

UNLEASHED PODCAST – EPISODE 149 The Big 5 Mankillers – Part 6: Fear Declawing the Lies of the Enemy

Fear doesn’t just scare men… it controls them.

In Episode 149 of the Unleashed Podcast, Brent Henderson wraps up the Big 5 Mankillers series by exposing one of the deepest roots behind anger, lust, shame, insecurity, emotional withdrawal, pride, and the desperate need for approval: fear.

Using powerful personal stories, biblical truth, and real-life examples, Brent unpacks how fear silently shapes the lives of men—keeping them stuck, isolated, defensive, performance-driven, emotionally shut down, and spiritually passive.

This episode dives deep into:

• Fear in marriage and intimacy
• Fear of rejection and not feeling “enough”
• Fear-driven anger and emotional explosions
• Childhood wounds that still affect adult men
• Performance, pride, muscles, money, and identity
• Fear of disappointing others
• Fear-based leadership and control
• Why men hide instead of heal
• Renewing the mind through truth
• Finding identity in Christ instead of performance

Brent shares deeply personal stories about:

• Being bullied and humiliated throughout high school
• How fear drove years of weightlifting, martial arts, and performance
• His quadruple bypass surgery and the fear that followed
• A terrifying hippo encounter in Africa that perfectly illustrates how fear operates beneath the surface
• Michael Jackson’s abusive relationship with his father and how fear controlled his life for years
• The subtle danger of finding worth through admiration, success, or validation from others

This episode also explores how fear affects marriages, communication, pornography struggles, emotional intimacy, and the pressure many men carry silently every single day.

One of the most powerful moments in the episode centers around 1 Peter 4:1-2 from The Message translation:

“Then you’ll be able to live out your days free to pursue what God wants instead of being tyrannized by what you want.”

That word…

tyrannized.

That’s exactly what fear tries to do.

But through renewing the mind and learning to identify the lies of the enemy, men can begin walking in freedom, courage, truth, and purpose.

Fear can either stand for:

Forget Everything And Run

or…

Face Everything And Roar.

The Big 5 Mankillers officially releases this week through Warner Press, along with a FREE downloadable facilitator’s guide for men willing to lead a group.

Because changed men really do change men.

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The Big 5 Mankillers (Part 5): Shame – The Silent Killer Destroying Men in the Dark | Ep. 148

📝 DESCRIPTION

Shame doesn’t shout… it stalks.

In Part 5 of The Big 5 Mankillers, Brent Henderson exposes how shame operates like a predator—isolating men, hiding truth, and silently destroying identity from the inside out.

Using the image of the African leopard, Brent reveals how the enemy doesn’t just attack… he exposes, humiliates, and convinces you to keep your struggles hidden. And as long as you stay hidden—you stay defeated.

This episode covers:

• Why shame is the enemy’s most effective weapon
• The difference between conviction and condemnation
• How hiding your struggles keeps you stuck
• How to break free and step into truth

If you’ve ever felt disqualified, unworthy, or trapped by your past… this one is for you.

👉 You are not what you’ve done. You are who God says you are.

🔗 NEXT STEPS

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The Big 5 Mankillers releases May 19th through Warner Press. Don’t just read it—lead a group through it.

Lust isn’t the problem—it’s the symptom.

In Part 4 of The Big 5 Mankillers series, Brent Henderson takes an honest and powerful look at one of the most common struggles men face: lust. But instead of just addressing behavior, this episode uncovers the deeper issue—identity, misplaced desire, and the lies we believe about what will truly satisfy us.

Through real-life stories, including a personal childhood experience and a powerful illustration called “God’s Invisible Dog Fence,” Brent shows how lust is often a warning sign that something deeper is off—and how ignoring that warning can lead to destruction in areas like marriage, relationships, and purpose.

You’ll also hear:

• Why lust is more than just a sexual issue
• How men and women both experience lust in different ways
• What the Bible says about lust (Matthew 5:28, 1 John 2:16)
• The “rhino rolling” story and why untrained strength leads to destruction
• How to recognize emotional warning signs before crossing the line
• The difference between guilt and shame—and why it matters
• How to begin renewing your mind and walking in freedom

If you’ve ever struggled with pornography, comparison, temptation, or feeling like your thoughts disqualify you—this episode will challenge and equip you to see what’s really going on and take your next step forward.

👉 This is Part 4 of the Big 5 Mankillers series.

The book The Big 5 Mankillers releases May 19. You can pre-order your copy at Warner Press for yourself or your men’s group—and if you order before Father’s Day, you’ll receive free shipping.

🔥 CALL TO ACTION

If this podcast is helping you grow, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another man who needs to hear it.

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Because changed men… change men.

Episode 146: The Big 5 Mankillers (Part 3) – Anger

Anger doesn’t usually show up all at once—it attaches quietly, feeds slowly, and before you know it, it’s controlling your thoughts, your reactions, and your relationships.

In Part 3 of The Big 5 Mankillers series, Brent Henderson exposes anger for what it really is: not the problem, but the symptom of something deeper. Using real stories—from a hidden tick after a turkey hunt to a charging Cape buffalo in Africa—this episode reveals how anger operates beneath the surface and why ignoring it can lead to serious damage.

Most men either explode or shut down. One is loud, the other is silent—but both are driven by the same internal battle. And if it’s not dealt with at the root, anger doesn’t go away… it spreads.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Identify what’s really fueling your anger • Recognize the lies driving your reactions • Break the cycle of emotional triggers • Renew your mind using biblical truth • Respond with strength instead of reacting in the moment

Brent walks through the proven F.I.G.H.T. framework:

Find the negative emotion Identify the unhealthy thought Get the truth Hold the lie up to the truth Track your transformation

This isn’t about becoming passive—it’s about becoming dangerous for good.

Because the real fight isn’t against people… it’s the battle within.

If anger has been quietly taking ground in your life, this episode will help you take it back.

New Release Coming May 19 The Big 5 Mankillers – an 8-week men’s Bible study designed to help you break free from the lies of the enemy and step into your God-given identity. Order between May 19 and Father’s Day for free shipping through Warner Press.

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What happens when a man no longer feels respected?

In this episode of Unleashed, Brent Henderson continues the Big 5 Mankillers series by exposing one of the most silent and dangerous threats men face—lack of respect.

Every man feels it. Few talk about it. And even fewer understand what it’s actually doing beneath the surface.

When respect is missing, something inside a man begins to break. Some men get loud. Others shut down. Some chase validation. Others isolate. But underneath it all is the same cry: Do I still matter?

In this episode, Brent unpacks:

• Why lack of respect cuts so deeply into a man’s identity
• How men unknowingly tie their worth to how others treat them
• The connection between disrespect, anger, lust, and isolation
• A powerful scene from Tombstone that reveals how men try to earn respect the wrong way
• Brent’s personal story of losing identity after stepping away from the stage
• The difference between respect that is earned and identity that is given by God
• How to stop performing for respect and start living from who you truly are

You’ll also hear real-life moments from Brent’s recent conversations with men—military, aviation, and everyday life—who discovered just how fragile identity becomes when it’s built on titles instead of truth.

Because here’s the reality: Respect is powerful… but it makes a terrible god.

If you’ve ever felt overlooked, dismissed, or like you’re not enough, this episode will challenge you to stop chasing approval and start anchoring your identity in Christ.

Call to Action: If this episode hit home, share it with another man who needs to hear it. Follow, subscribe, and join the movement—because when a man knows who he is in Christ, he becomes dangerous… for good.

What if the greatest threat to a man’s life isn’t failure… but lack of purpose?

In Episode 144 of the Unleashed Podcast, Brent Henderson launches a powerful five-week series based on The Big 5 Mankillers: Declawing the Lies of the Enemy. This first episode tackles the #1 mankiller—lack of purpose—and how it quietly erodes a man’s identity, motivation, and direction.

Through gripping storytelling—including a real-life African rhino encounter and unforgettable moments from First Blood and Braveheart—Brent exposes the two dangerous ways purposelessness shows up: drifting in apathy… or driving endlessly in pursuit of more.

Different paths. Same destination.

At the core of both is a lie many men carry: “I’m not enough.”

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why so many men feel stuck, restless, or unfulfilled
• How waiting seasons may actually be preparation—not punishment
• Where true purpose really comes from (and where it doesn’t)
• Why your past doesn’t disqualify you from your calling

If you’ve ever felt like there has to be more… this episode will hit home.

You were created on purpose… for a purpose.

Next Steps: Learn more about The Big 5 Mankillers (early release + free shipping): warnerpress.org/the-big-5-mankillers

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Episode Title: My Soul Longs for the Wilderness

What if the longing you feel deep in your soul isn’t random… but a calling?

In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Unleashed, Brent Henderson opens up about an unexpected emotional response to a TV series—and how it revealed something far deeper: a buried grief, a longing for the wilderness, and a realization that changed everything.

Through vivid stories of elk hunting in the mountains of Colorado, quiet mornings in a remote cabin, close encounters with wildlife, and unforgettable moments in the wild, Brent takes you on a journey into the places that make a man come alive.

But this episode goes beyond the outdoors.

It dives into:

• The ache many men feel but can’t explain
• The loss we carry but never fully grieve
• The parts of ourselves that remain unknown—even to those closest to us
• And the deeper truth behind why the wilderness calls to us

At the center of it all is a powerful shift: 👉 It’s not just about being known… 👉 It’s about being invited to truly know God.

With raw honesty, spiritual insight, and a challenge that will stir your soul, this episode will push you to ask:

• What makes me come alive?
• Where have I settled?
• What is my soul really thirsting for?

If you’ve ever felt the pull of the mountains, the wild, or something more… this episode is for you.