In this episode of Unlocking The Parenting Code, we sit down with Becky Nieves, a mother of four whose parenting journey spans three decades—from her 21-year-old son to her 2-year-old toddler.
Becky opens up about navigating the diverse roles of being a Marine Mom, Rare Disease Mom, and Neurodivergent Mom while juggling business ownership and a commitment to public service as a school board member. Her story is one of resilience, perseverance, and deep love for her children, rooted in her guiding parenting philosophy: "Whatever it takes."
Becky shares how she defied the odds as a teenage mom, earned her degree, and built a thriving family and career. She discusses advocating for her children, each with unique needs, including her son diagnosed with ADD after she refused to settle for an inaccurate label. Her advocacy led her to become deeply involved in public education, so no other parent would face what she did.
From her daughter's rare genetic disease to navigating the complexities of ADHD, Becky talks about the life lessons that shaped her parenting style, including how therapy, communication, and a solid partnership with her husband helped her keep the family strong through life's toughest challenges. She stresses the importance of self-care, balance, and the power of apologizing to her children on the hard days. Her philosophy of "taking your mental temperature" and adjusting as needed has been vital to maintaining her well-being.
Becky also reflects on the unique dynamic of raising adult children, the ongoing challenges, and how it sometimes feels easier to manage a 2-year-old than a 21-year-old! With humor and heart, she shares how she's learned to parent each child differently, embracing the philosophy of following her gut and making the most of the cards life dealt her.
Key Topics Discussed:
- Parenting across a 19-year age gap: Insights from toddlerhood to adulthood.
- Overcoming the challenges of being a teenage mom: Breaking the statistics and defying the odds.
- Advocating for children with ADD, rare diseases, and special needs: The importance of refusing to settle for inaccurate labels.
- Balancing motherhood, entrepreneurship, and community involvement: Strategies for managing diverse roles and responsibilities.
- The emotional journey of parenting through loss, rare diagnoses and ADHD.
- Parenting each child differently across three decades: From teenage pregnancy to raising a rainbow baby.
- The importance of self-care, mental health, and apologizing: Acknowledging challenges and nurturing relationships with children.
- "Man makes plans, and God laughs": How Becky’s experiences shaped her family’s resilience.
Guest Bio:
Becky Nieves is a dedicated mother of four, with a wealth of experience advocating for her children’s unique needs. As a Marine Mom, Rare Disease Mom, and Neurodivergent Mom, she balances business ownership and a commitment to public service as a school board member. Through her journey of resilience and love, Becky inspires families to embrace their challenges and seek advocacy in public education.
Links:
- Website: Snow Virtual Professionals
- https://www.instagram.com/snowvirtualpros/
- LinkedIn
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Reach out to Becky for more information on:
- Advocating for children with unique needs.
- Balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship.
- Strategies for self-care and mental health.
Tune in to hear Becky Nieves discuss her inspiring journey through parenting, advocacy, and resilience, and how her experiences can empower you in your parenting journey.
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Welcome to
Unlocking the Parenting Code:
Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code, the podcast where parents, educators, and caregivers share real-life stories, wisdom, and strategies for raising children in today's complex world. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and advocate for children’s emotional well-being, each episode delves into the challenges and triumphs of parenting, offering insights to strengthen relationships and empower parents.
What to Expect:
Each episode offers real stories about the challenges parents face and how they overcome them. We explore parenting through various perspectives, expanding our understanding of its complexities. By listening to others' experiences—both the struggles and successes—you’ll realize that even when parenting feels isolating, we all share common emotions as we strive to raise our children. The stories offer practical strategies and insights, and also comfort in knowing you're not alone on this journey.
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