Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

As I step into Season 3 of Unlocking The Parenting Code:All About Boys, I’ve been reflecting — really sitting with the journey this podcast has taken me on. Reflection gives us that rare birds-eye view of where we've been, and I’ve been in awe of the depth and breadth of what’s unfolded.

I’ve had the honour of hosting over 35 conversations with people who’ve shared their stories, their insights, their hearts. Some connections were fleeting but powerful. Others have become lasting relationships — part of my village now. What I didn’t anticipate was how much personal growth would come from simply listening. How many times I found myself challenged, inspired, or moved to tears.

There were topics I knew little about — homeschooling, fostering and adoption , neurodivergence — and each guest became a teacher. Some conversations sparked joy and optimism, reminding me that the world is still full of goodness, even if we don’t always see it on the news. And other times, I had to sit with discomfort and ask myself why a certain idea or story triggered something in me — and those moments, too, became a path to healing and growing.

This special kickoff episode is a look back and a look forward.

You'll get glimpses of the many voices of Seasons 1 and 2 — voices that might draw you toward episodes you hadn’t yet explored.

You can check them all out wherever you go for your podcasts:

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🎙️ And then, we begin something new.

Season 3 is about REAL TALK, REAL EXPERTS, REAL BOYS — and we’re going deep.

This season is all about hearing from:

Experts sharing wisdom that will impact not only how we parent our sons, but also how we interact with everyone we are in contact with.

Dads raising children with strength and vulnerability.

Young men, speaking about what it means to grow up male in today’s world — the pressures, the hopes, the expectations.

And yes, there will be Solo Episodes too — where I’ll share what I’m learning, what I’m seeing, and what’s sitting heavy or beautiful on my heart.

I believe this season will be something very special. I can feel it. And I’m so excited to have you here for it.

If you know an expert whose work would be exactly what this audience would benefit from, a dad in the thick of parenting, or a young man open to sharing his voice, please connect us. This truly takes a village.

You can listen to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys on your favourite podcast app, and watch the video versions here.

“Our job is too difficult and too beautiful to do alone.”

— Amelia Gambetti

Let’s continue this journey together.

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Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this podcast is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the people who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys, Kathy sits down with father, coach, and Navy veteran David Kiwimagi to explore what it really takes to raise boys (and girls!) with strong inner compasses in today’s world. David shares his journey—from church ministry in Japan, to Navy operations and cybersecurity leadership, to co-founding a coaching business with his wife.

He opens up about how a pivotal parenting course transformed his understanding of what it means to raise children with integrity and purpose, igniting his passion for helping them build their own “moral warehouse.”

David dives into real-world strategies for communicating “in a way that matters” with his three children—tailoring his approach to his son’s intellectual curiosity, his daughter’s emotional depth, and the unique needs of his youngest.

Throughout the conversation, David reflects on how fatherhood reshaped his views on legacy, emotional connection, and the kind of communication that empowers children to think for themselves and choose what’s right—even when no one is watching.

David Kiwimagi is a husband, father of three, and Co-Founder of Kiwi Coaching. With 15 years of leadership experience across Japan church ministry, Navy operations, and cybersecurity, he has coached hundreds to lead with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether in military or corporate settings, David is passionate about helping leaders break through what's holding them back and step fully into who they were born to be and helping his sons do the same.

*From Ministry to Cybersecurity to Coaching

How chance encounters, financial need, and a deep love for service guided David’s winding career path.

*The “Moral Warehouse”

Why teaching kids why rules exist builds internal motivation to “do the right thing” when no one’s watching.

*Communication That Matters

Tailoring conversations to each child’s age, personality, and passion—whether it’s sea-turtle entrepreneurship with his son or heart-to-heart hugs with his daughter.

*Leadership Lessons in Parenting

Creating emotional safety to encourage growth, resilience, and innovation. Balancing protection with empowerment—"I’ll be the net to catch you" philosophy

*Humility & Confidence

Walking the line between celebrating wins and asking kids, “What do you really want?” to redefine success.

• The Happiest Baby on the Block – Dr. Harvey Karp
• The Miracle Morning – Hal Elrod
• Crucial Conversations – Kerry Patterson

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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

Watch this episode here: https://youtu.be/3r1P34cG-bc?si=n-LkwAiamU6__UGk

In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys, Kathy sits down with Laura Vosika—author, musician, publisher, and mother of nine (seven boys and two girls)—to explore what it’s really like to raise a large family and to reflect on the innate differences between boys and girls.

Laura shares vivid stories from her early parenting years: juggling music teaching, raising a full household, and keeping her creative spirit alive—all while intentionally creating a home that felt loving and accepting, a contrast to the more perfection-driven environment she grew up in.

From growing up in the 1970s believing that gender differences were purely socialized, to seeing those beliefs shift as she raised her sons and daughters, Laura offers wisdom that’s both deeply personal and refreshingly honest.

Together, Kathy and Laura unpack what it takes to raise emotionally grounded boys, the power of trusting your instincts, and the beauty of letting kids grow into who they truly are. Whether you're raising one child or a full baseball team, this conversation will leave you inspired.

Guest Bio

Laura Vosika is an accomplished author, musician, and publisher, best known for her time-travel series The Blue Bells Chronicles. As founder of Gabriel’s Horn Press and co-host of the Books & Brews podcast, she combines her creative passions with decades of hands-on parenting experience. Raising nine children (seven sons and two daughters) has taught Laura a powerful lesson: boys and girls are innately different, and honoring those differences is key to helping children grow into strong, emotionally grounded adults.

Key Topics 

Laura’s Parenting Journey

Balancing Creativity, Music & Motherhood

Challenging 1970s Gender Beliefs with Real-Life Boys: Why boys and girls are not the same—and why that matters

Appreciating boys for who they are: their energy, instincts, and interests

School Struggles, ADHD & Ritalin Decisions: The vital role of physical activity 

Co-Parenting Across Cultures & Divorce Reflections

Grandparenting: Seeing Your Children as Parents

Parenting then vs. now: screen time, safety fears, and the pressure of modern life

Final Thoughts: Accepting Kids Just as They Are

Links & Resources

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• The Blue Bells Chronicles Series: Books & Brews Shop
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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code:ALL ABOUT BOYS, Kathy sits down with Charles Hall—a devoted father, podcast host, and founder of Crown & Compass—to talk about healing from childhood trauma, breaking generational cycles, and becoming a more emotionally present parent. Charles shares his powerful journey through early wounds, faith-based healing, and what it means to raise sons with emotional intelligence and spiritual guidance. Together, they explore attachment, identity, and the critical role of self-awareness in raising emotionally resilient boys.

Charles Hall is the founder and host of Crown & Compass, a platform dedicated to helping people heal emotional trauma, renew their minds, and build spiritually grounded, emotionally intelligent lives. Through workshops, coaching, podcasting, and community support, Charles helps individuals reconnect with their identity and inner guidance to lead lives rooted in love and truth. A father of three with one on the way, Charles brings real-world insight and a deep commitment to transforming how we parent—starting from the inside out.

*Charles’s personal journey: growing up with a workaholic dad and a hoarding mom

*Healing from the “invisible hero” identity and perfectionism

*Fatherhood across three life stages and blended family dynamics

*Shifting from “decent” parenting to deeply present parenting

*The power of emotional intelligence—especially for men

*How children form identity through attachment and modeling

*Breaking generational trauma with awareness and compassion

*Unpacking the myth: “Children are the problem”

*Using love to speak louder than inherited lies

*Teaching kids to manage feelings while staying emotionally open

*Living by the “Crown & Compass” philosophy: identity and inner guidance

*Upcoming Kingdom Attachment series and how spiritual truths shape parenting

Upcoming: Kingdom Attachment Series – a deep dive into identity, relationships, and spiritual development through the lens of attachment theory and parables.

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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys, Kathy sits down with Marie Carrillon, a podcast host, entrepreneur, and proud mom who brings her full honesty and heart to this candid conversation. Originally from France and now raising two young children in Sydney,Australia, Marie shares her journey through motherhood—including navigating postpartum depression, parenting in a new country, and the emotional highs and lows of raising a sensitive, spirited boy.

Together, Kathy and Marie explore what it means to nurture connection, hold space for emotional expression, and reject the unrealistic pressures modern mothers face. This episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and the kind of real talk every mom needs to hear.

Marie Carrillon is a podcast host, entrepreneur, and passionate advocate for women stepping into their power. She’s the voice behind the Lucky Last podcast, which shares inspiring stories of resilience and self-worth. A native of France, Marie now lives in Sydney with her husband and two young children—a spirited 5-year-old boy and a curious toddler daughter. As a mother, Marie is deeply committed to creating honest conversations about the real challenges of parenting while honoring the messy beauty of motherhood.

The cultural contrasts of parenting in France vs. Australia

Navigating postpartum depression and reconnecting with your baby

Raising a sensitive boy and the emotional bond between mothers and sons

Letting go of guilt and unrealistic expectations in motherhood

Coping with isolation as an expat mom without a local village

Embracing bilingualism and keeping cultural traditions alive

Why comparison is harmful and how mothers can lift one another up

The myth of the “perfect parent” and learning to trust your gut

Encouragement for moms who feel like they’re getting it all wrong

• Podcast:Lucky Last
• Instagram: @luckylast_podcast

Whether you're raising children in a foreign land,or finding your way through the fog of early motherhood, this episode is a reminder: you're not alone, you're not doing it wrong, and your story matters. Tune in, take a breath, and remember—there’s beauty in the chaos.

Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys, Kathy sits down with Kristina and Herbert Heagh-Avritt — long-time partners in life and parenting — to explore what it really means to raise boys through love, trauma, distance, and healing. From navigating the challenges of raising a son on the autism spectrum to experiencing the heartbreak of estrangement from their other son, Kristina and Herb open up with honesty, wisdom, and vulnerability. Together, they share what they’ve learned about communication, parenting, healthy masculinity, and why it is so important to reflect on the past in order to move forward.

Kristina & Herbert Heagh-Avritt have been together for over 33 years — partners in marriage, parenting, and now in their mission to help families thrive. Kristina spent 27 years in education, while Herbert followed a path in business and entrepreneurship. Together, they’ve raised two sons and faced both the everyday and extraordinary challenges of parenting. Today, they co-founded Vibrant Family Education and host the Bringing Education Home podcast, where they offer tools, support, and heart-centered strategies to help parents raise happy, healthy, and successful children. Their work empowers families to reconnect, communicate, and reimagine education at home for stronger relationships and communities.

*The evolution of their 33+ year journey as parents and partners

*Raising a son on the autism spectrum and learning to adapt to his needs

*The deep ache of estrangement from a child  the self-reflection it brings

*How unspoken expectations and poor communication can unravel even the closest families

*The impact of Herbert’s traumatic brain injury on their marriage, parenting, and business

*Why boys today need more movement, freedom, and validation in how they learn and grow

*The collapse of all-male spaces and the consequences for boys’ development and identity

*The importance of rites of passage, male mentorship, and emotionally safe environments for boys

*What Kristina and Herbert would do differently if they could start their parenting journey again

*Encouragement for parents to keep going — to trust themselves, and to never give up on connection

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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code: ALL ABOUT BOYS! we welcome Myanah Simmons, a single mother of two boys, for a rich and real conversation about parenting boys across two very different life stages. Myanah shares her journey of raising an 18-year-old and a 10-year-old, discussing everything from emotional awareness and life skills to societal pressures and the challenges of raising boys in today’s world. She opens up about parenting through curiosity, building emotional resilience, and challenging outdated norms around masculinity—all while navigating single motherhood with strength and grace.

Myanah Simmons is a passionate advocate for personal growth, emotional connection, and resilience. With a professional background in project management, mental health counseling, and service as a former Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion board member, Myanah brings a unique and thoughtful perspective to parenting. As a single mother to two sons—ages 18 and 10—she integrates her values of honesty, openness, and acceptance into every aspect of her parenting approach.

• Emotional needs of boys at different developmental stages
• Parenting boys as a single mother
• How to cultivate emotional intelligence and self-expression in boys
• Balancing guidance and independence as boys grow
• Seeking out male role models and mentors
• Conversations about life skills, budgeting, and adult readiness
• Navigating fears of raising a son in today's society
• Challenging cultural norms around masculinity
• Creating a safe space for vulnerability and self-expression
• Parenting while dating and modeling healthy relationships

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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

In this episode of Unlocking The Parenting Code: ALL ABOUT BOYS, we welcome Aliesha Embleton, stepmom, coach, author, and founder of Sapling Minds. Aliesha shares her journey and insights on parenting boys during middle childhood and beyond, including personal experiences and practical strategies for parents raising emotionally resilient and authentic children. With a focus on proactive parenting and emotional connection, Aliesha offers valuable advice for parents navigating the challenges of helping boys develop healthy masculinity.

• The Unique Role of a Stepmom: A discussion on the special place a ‘bonus parent’ can have in a child's life, and Aliesha's perspective on blending into an already existing family dynamic.
• Middle Childhood Emotional Development: Strategies for supporting boys' emotional growth during the fast-changing middle childhood years and recognizing the evolving needs at different stages.
• Navigating Emotional Suppression: How early expectations for boys to "toughen up" impact emotional authenticity, and Aliesha's practical ways to create safe spaces for emotional reflection.
• Lessons Behind 'From Seed to Sapling': The importance of proactive parenting strategies over reactive measures and how building resilience, authenticity, and emotional literacy go hand-in-hand.
• Real-Life Reflections on Parenting: A glimpse into Aliesha’s own parenting journey — from balancing honesty and growth to embracing the unpolished moments of raising teens.

Aliesha Embleton is a stepmum, child development coach, award-winning and #1 Amazon best-selling author, and speaker with qualifications in Behavioural Science, Psychology, Coaching, and HR. Through her work with families, schools, and communities, she nurtures children’s resilience, authenticity, and entrepreneurial spirit. Her proactive approach, outlined in From Seed to Sapling, empowers parents and educators to address the root causes of mental health challenges – helping children thrive emotionally, socially, and academically before issues arise.

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• LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/alieshaembleton

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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

Welcome back to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys! I’m your host, Kathy, and today we’re diving into the fascinating world of neuroscience, hypnotherapy, and parenting with Claire Noyelle.

Claire began her career as a pharmacist but transitioned into solution-focused hypnotherapy nearly a decade ago, blending science and brain-informed strategies to help young people—especially those with neurodivergent diagnoses—build confidence, resilience, and a future they’re excited about.

As a single mom of three, including a son with ADHD and autism, Claire brings both personal and professional expertise to understanding how our brains work and how we can harness that knowledge to support our children. In this episode, we discuss the role of hormones in boys' development, how neuroscience can inform parenting, and the biggest misconceptions about boys' emotional and cognitive growth.Claire also shares her journey from pharmacist to hypnotherapist, her experiences raising a neurodivergent child, and the power of mindset in parenting.

Claire Noyelle is a pharmacist and a solution-focused clinical hypnotherapist based in the UK. She specializes in working with teenagers and young people, often those with neurodivergent diagnoses, helping them build resilience, confidence, and a strong sense of self. With over 30 years of experience in the healthcare field, Claire combines her knowledge of neuroscience and mental health to empower both parents and young people. She is also a lecturer at the prestigious Clifton Practice Hypnotherapy Training (CPHT) and offers training in mental resilience and well-being to various organizations.

As a mother of three—two boys and a girl—Claire has firsthand experience navigating the challenges of parenting, particularly raising a son with ADHD and autism. Her work is deeply rooted in understanding how the brain functions and using that knowledge to support individuals in unlocking their full potential. 

 Understanding Testosterone & the Male Brain

• Testosterone acts as a magnifier—intensifying emotions and traits like strength, assertiveness, and risk-taking.
• The male brain undergoes drastic changes between childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, with executive function developing later than in girls.
• There’s a widespread lack of understanding about how hormones impact boys' emotional and cognitive development.

From Pharmacist to Hypnotherapist: Claire’s Journey

• How Claire’s interest in hypnotherapy began as an add-on to her pharmaceutical career.
• Why solution-focused hypnotherapy proved to be more effective for many of her clients than traditional medication alone.
• The key differences between meditation and hypnosis.

Raising Boys as a Single Mom

• The unique challenges of raising three children, including a neurodivergent son.
• How the education system often fails to accommodate boys’ needs.
• The impact of teenage sleep cycles and how it affects learning and behavior.

Supporting a Neurodivergent Child

• Claire’s biggest “aha” moment: Understanding that her son’s brain works differently from hers.
• How learning about neurodiversity helped her adjust her expectations and parenting approach.
• The greatest gifts of raising a neurodivergent child—developing empathy, respect, and deeper understanding.

The Teenage Brain & Risk-Taking Behavior

• Why teenage boys are more impulsive and driven toward risk-taking.
• The role of dopamine and testosterone in decision-making and thrill-seeking behaviors.
• How parents can support boys in making better choices without suppressing their natural tendencies.

The Future of Neuroscience & Mental Health for Young People

• The importance of researching how hormones affect development.
• Shifting the narrative about today’s youth—why they’re not lazy or entitled, but full of curiosity and potential.
• The power of collaboration and learning from young people rather than making assumptions.

Claire’s “User Manual” for Raising Happy, Resilient Boys

• Spend time learning what they love and find shared interests.
• Allow them to try different things without expecting them to stick with everything.
• Treat them with love and respect.

Final Advice for Parents

• If you’re struggling, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
• Learn about how your child thinks and feels to better support them.
• Give yourself grace—parenting isn’t about getting everything right the first time. Mistakes are part of the journey.

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Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.

This week on Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys, host Kathy sits down with Jenna Michael. Jenna is a wife, mother of four (ages 3 to 8), author, and parenting coach. She helps parents identify their core values, eliminate excess clutter, and create a framework that prioritizes what truly matters. Jenna provides practical strategies for reducing chaos, making mindful choices, and turning valuable insights into meaningful action. She and her husband, Jonathan, live in North Carolina, where they homeschool their children and enjoy an active, adventure-filled lifestyle.

In this episode, we dive into Jenna’s personal journey of parenting, homeschooling, and running a business, all while raising four children—including one young son. She shares powerful insights on simplifying home life, reducing decision fatigue, and raising boys with intention and understanding.

Jenna Michael is a wife, mother, author, and coach specializing in simplified and intentional living for families. Her writing covers topics such as family-friendly activities and events, wellness, travel, gifts, and essential parenting tips. Her coaching helps moms turn these valuable insights into practical action, reduce clutter and chaos, and ultimately pursue a life of purpose on purpose.

• Jenna’s personal journey into simplified living and how it transformed her home and parenting approach.
• The challenges of managing a household with four young children while homeschooling and running a business.
• The importance of defining family values to make intentional decisions about time, space, and finances.
• Practical decluttering strategies, including why she doesn’t recommend separate playrooms and the benefits of ‘capsule rotations’ for toys and clothing.
• How decision fatigue affects both parents and children and how minimalism can help.
• Unique challenges in raising a son compared to daughters, including differences in emotional and physical responses.
• The role of faith and lifelong learning in preparing children for future challenges.
• Jenna’s biggest fears as a parent and her hopes for staying connected with her children as they grow.

• Follow Jenna Michael on Instagram: @purposeful__parenting
• Visit Jenna’s website: www.yourpurposefulparenting.com
• Substack
• Jenna's book: Let’s Choose Less

Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

Sonhood Coaching focuses on the emotional well-being of boys, helping parents nurture their sons to become remarkable men. Through courses, coaching, and resources, we empower families to better understand and support the inner emotional world of boys. Explore SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more about our programs and services.

Looking to transform your relationship with your son? Visit SonhoodCoaching.com for valuable resources and expert support.